Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.

I'm not putting my life story up on here but no2 is spot on. No3 is a load of bollocks imo of course.

Just as funny as a priest who is unmarried giving marital counseling. Being single does not exclude having experience, knowledge and wisdom as at any time even the most competent can be alone through circumstance, geography, illness, death, divorce and other issues...

Thanks for at least agreeing with no2

Those same reasons could also be applied to a woman. Just a few edits here and there.

The only problem I see is if someone is hanging onto the past, or the what could be, then they really never started a relationship fresh. Which I think should be a no brainer. You can't hold an entire gender responsible for the actions of one bad apple.

This must be for the boys club, Men don't think like this....Hogwash!

A man always takes responsibility period

A man learns from his past mistakes and tries not to do a repeat and move on

The woman I am with becomes the most beautiful to me

High rate of divorce is true, maybe don't get married, or not right away?

live, learn, and quit bit chin...

1) Both parties have to bear responsibility for how a relationship goes. This applies equally to both.
2) Everyone has had experiences that have hurt them. Without sounding sexist, I would theorize that women have had more hurtful experiences, because they tend to be more sensitive. This is a generalization only, of course.
3) Maybe in the Hunter-Gatherer days, and yes, some guys will always think there is someone more beautiful out there. That, of course, is their folly, and their choice.
4) Ridiculous. The divorce rate these days is so high because people are not willing to put forth the time and effort to work on their marriages. They are too wrapped up in their petty dalliances, thinking the relationship will run itself. And, it is easier to cite irreconcilable differences than actually work on things. Not all, of course, but certainly many.

this is news?

A lot of women are afraid of commitment - I think usually because of past hurts, or being taken advantage of in the past. In fact men remarry at a much higher rate than women do. you guys'll have to clean your own kitchens...lol

there is very little in the OP that I agree with outright

Mmmmmmmm,

Spot on, we already have one boss, don't need two!!!

OK and who's de boss?

I agree with 3
Especially if they are online dating sites
Delusional
And its not just men

Sweet u don't know the boss??

enlighten me furball, no I don;t

Ur enlightened!!! Go do meditation and dont cheat on that!!!! Be a good devotee!!! When you do that you will see the boss!!! Its Almighty God sweet!!!

will he clean my kitchen?

He can do anything!! If he wants then you need not move a finger n all is done!!

Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men.....