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Topic: WHY MEN ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENT(Women,take note)
seahawks's photo
Sat 10/04/14 07:28 PM


...(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.



Ummmm...no, I DON'T know this. Got any citation to a legitimate source that attests to this presented-as-fact statement?





NOTE: "My personal butthurtedness over my personal failed relationships in which said failures were 100% her fault, because women are just stupid biotches"


is NOT a "citation to a legitimate source".



I eagerly await the citation to the legitimate source that concludes this as fact.





love that emotiocan!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :wink:

navygirl's photo
Sat 10/04/14 10:53 PM
Edited by navygirl on Sat 10/04/14 10:56 PM

Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.


Maybe these types of guys need some therapy. :smile:

faithfully1983's photo
Sun 10/05/14 05:05 PM
Hhhhmmmmm honesty is the best policy....

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Sun 10/05/14 05:16 PM

Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.


As my father would say "Those are excuses not reasons."


mikey5360's photo
Sun 10/05/14 07:14 PM


Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.


Relationship that lack commitment, will hit the rock. people should let go their douschebag and diva attitude to be happy in their relationship. forget the past. Lot of beautiful thing happening in the present.


For me, I guess there are guys afraid of committing but that is probably a lack of maturity or a lack of willingness to settle down.....
Commitment from both of you....absolutely....and I am all for the guy taking responsibility....
keeping in mind the modern woman is more than happy and capable of sharing that duty....
The second point is generally closer to the majority of reasons....
I think at some point in your singledom it is a great idea to take some time out and rediscover yourself and abstain.....
Its a good idea because I did it hahaha.....
three years and counting.....
but it lets you clear the mind and refocus on what marriage and commitment is all about.....
It also lets you shrug off any inner douchbag.....
Ive always known I wanted to be married again.....
but it had to be with those things clear and focused in my mind.....
Point three......ahhhh dont know about that.....
never been that shallow......
Point four.....the high rate of divorce is no excuse get these other things right at the start and you wont be divorcing.....

What I'm trying to say is I am not afraid of commitment.....
drinker laugh laugh

m3k4y's photo
Sun 10/05/14 08:12 PM
Edited by m3k4y on Sun 10/05/14 08:18 PM
scared of commitments <<<< most men use this words as an excuse to ask for space or breaking up a girl without hurting her much..just saying..it is so common nowadays..that most people dont believe it..

Awatersign's photo
Sun 10/05/14 11:38 PM
[Quote: Why men are afraid of commitment...] I can only speak for me, I don't think I'm afraid of commitment,it's just sometimes I'm afraid of getting stuck with the wrong one and will be unhappy ever after lol!!frustrated

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 10/06/14 11:40 AM


Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days.


As my father would say "Those are excuses not reasons."


And could take many years to move on from.

valtheponytail35's photo
Tue 10/07/14 11:37 AM
Edited by valtheponytail35 on Tue 10/07/14 11:40 AM
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/survey-shows-single-men-commit-women/story?id=12831296&singlePage=true
http://iac.com/media-room/press-releases/single-america

Men are stereotyped as being less interested in settling down and having children than women, but the study shows otherwise.

"Men in just about every cohort are just as eager to marry or more eager to marry as women are. It's not true that they don't want to commit. Particularly young men, age 21 to 34, are more eager to marry than women are. Throughout every single cohort, men are more eager to have children than women are."

According to the study, 51% of men and 46% of women want to have children between the ages of 21 and 34, which are peak reproductive years.


Time to put a sock in those old myths?

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