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| Topic: Im seeing a married man but I know he loves me | |
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it's his cake he shares it with whoever he wants his wife or mistress.... in this case both. No. As soon as he married his wife, his "cake" became exclusively hers to enjoy. He is robbing his wife by giving his "cake" to another woman. |
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it's his cake he shares it with whoever he wants his wife or mistress.... in this case both. Then he should not have taken the vows that said he would only share with his wife. |
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He may love you too but if he has kids, he loves them more, just saying
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He may love you too but if he has kids, he loves them more, just saying
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Perhaps we should look at this in a slightly different way. His relationship with his wife might be more platonic than lover. Perhaps, just perhaps, she may have the same thing on the side, a lover who makes her feel the way he makes you feel. A marriage of convenience. But the key word is convenience. Why on earth would he change his situation when he has the best of both worlds? I dont know how long he has been promising to leave his wife, but if it is more than 6 months, he is probably leading you on. If you want proof, tell him it is either her or you. Just be prepared for the stark reality in his answer.
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No..no... you guys dont understand. I am happy... He is a good guy. He gives me everything! New car... pays my bills. Im just anxious for him to be just mine alone.. then HE can truly be happy. I know how it sounds but he really is a great person. Thanks for  listening
You're a well paid call girl....Just enjoy your "job" while it lasts and start a savings account, you're going to need it... Straight to the point and spot on Leigh.  ...((( Mo )))...
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There is just so much you guys don't know. His wife is mentally ill and hes afraid to leave her right now. They have children and he worries for his girls. Im his only happiness. I can't just abandon him. Im not that type of person! Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand. Im not crazy..there will be no boiled bunnies... maybe Ill post my wedding pics and baby  announcement after that
If I wanted to convince my mistress i cant leave the wife, thats the story I would go with. If my spouse truly were mentally ill, I would get them help. Not get myself a mistress. I agree 100% ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ |
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Folks, all that we are doing on this thread now is
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There is just so much you guys don't know. His wife is mentally ill and hes afraid to leave her right now. They have children and he worries for his girls. Im his only happiness. I can't just abandon him. Im not that type of person! Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand. Im not crazy..there will be no boiled bunnies... maybe Ill post my wedding pics and baby announcement after that
I'm not going to say whether or not he loves you, but this may give you something to think about. I know of someone personally who was in the same type of situation, she started seeing this married guy, he said he loved her, he bought her all sorts of stuff, but his wife was ill, and he said he couldn't divorce her because of his religious views, and also he felt he 'needed' to care of because of her sickness, he had kids with this wife as well. This guy even 'moved in' with his 'mistress' well fast forward....this 'affair' lasted 20 years, this guy was living with his mistress, and working out of his home office(with his wife) His kids of course found out about this guys mistress and blame her for everything, she is a vile/evil/vindictive woman in their eyes...well his wife just passed away, and she thinks "i can finally get married" but no so much...she started seeing this guy in her 30's she is now in her 50's, he did propose, then he wanted her to sign a prenup..saying basically she gets nothing and his response was "well no one made you stay all those years" even though the wife is gone, they are still not married, his kids can't stand her, but now she is staying probably 'part' out of love, but i'm sure a lot of it is also "i've already given this guy so much of my life" So it seems currently you are willing to accept "second place" his wife is "first" regardless of whether you see it that way or not...what you need to decide if you really want to be with him is how long will you be happy as second place? and if he isn't willing to move you into first place....why stay? |
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Folks, all that we are doing on this thread now is
What else is there David?.... 
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Your not going to listen because your not hearing what you want to hear, you want someone to ease your concience.
He's already shown you his true colors, hes not a man of his word. He will keep doing what he's doing because he can put you off by bying you off. Why would you want to come between a kids parent's for your own selfish reasons, you dont care how they will feel as long as you get yours, you might traumatize them . You wont grt away with bad carma you will be miserable in the end. You will get over him as soon as you find another man to love, and look back and thank yourself for all the trouble you avoided. |
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman.
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman. If you want compassion, why did you choose such a nasty user name?....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... |
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman. If you want compassion, why did you choose such a nasty user name?....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... Probably cheating on the mistress. |
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oh girl friend you did not just go there..on wezzzzz. the water's boiling over now..lol stand back stand back.. Itis going to get hot up in this house now
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman. Getting his tofu and eating it too. I mention tofu, cake is bad for you. |
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman. If you want compassion, why did you choose such a nasty user name?....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... Probably cheating on the mistress.
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I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman. If you want compassion, why did you choose such a nasty user name?....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... Probably cheating on the mistress.
Cheating could have health consequences. |
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....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... Maybe he's home babysitting HIS children while his wife is out with her young, hot lover... 
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....Hey, it's Saturday night, date night, where's your man?.... Maybe he's home babysitting HIS children while his wife is out with her young, hot lover...
Meow |
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