As a man...If you are one, have your ever thought of what a woman has to go through on a day to day basis? Let's talk about dating so I can paint the picture you need to see.

Okay think now… You are a woman. You wake up. There are places to be. So you spend hours getting ready. You put on your make up, get the perfect clothing to wear, and the shoes to match with. The occasion is to finally meet the guy you've been fantasizing/dreaming about meeting. You've talked to your girlfriends for hours about who might be at this social event you are preparing for. You mask the occasion about drinking or dancing so you don't have to feel any rejection. No guys talk to you that night. You feel miserably let down. You even make eye contact with guys and you simile at them. Yet they are too scared to approach and talk to you. What could have been even worse was if no one noticed you and even as a woman you did your best to look good. For you as a woman this is a passive rejection. You saw a guy you liked and you slightly made your interest known but he was too scared to escalate the situation further. Or he did not understand what was going on between you and him. This affects your self-esteem and makes you wonder if men have balls or are you ugly.

Going back to being a guy…

All she can do is sit there or walk around waiting for you to approach her. Sure she may look like she's on the phone but she's actually seeing if you'll take the bait and break the ice between you two. What you say:

"She looks busy! She looks too sexy for me! Too many other guys have tried to get her! How will i ever get her? Shes out of my league. Guys like me never get hot girls like her. I need to wait for the pefect moment"

Well with that kind of negative dialog running in your head of course nothing will happen. If you keep waiting...Some other guy more confident then you will come around and get her. Women who get approached by confident men rationalize the experience as fate because only few men can walk up to a total stanger and generate a relationship. There is no perfect moment but only the ones your create now. You have to change your self limiting thoughts and believe in the positive. Changing your thinking with pratice will change your actions.

Wouldn't you act the same if you didn't want to look desperate? She's a woman who has the media on her back twenty-four/seven telling her not to be a "slut" or be "desperate".

This is why she rolls in packs with her girlfriends or plays hard to get. This is why she proclaims she wants sex after she's married even through she probably craves it now like a crack fiend. She wants it just as much as you do if not even more. Don't let the act fool you. Women live double lives. She lives one for the social standards policed to her and the other for her real desires which occur now.

So Gentlemen please do the favor of approaching that beautiful woman you've been fantasizing about because I'm sure she's anxious to experience something fun instead of her usual boring routine filled life.

Take a chance with her and see where it takes you…You never know when and where you might find love…or perhaps lust…

NICE!!!

lol love or lust!!!!!

Id like an order of love with 2 scoops of lust please!!!

Hungry huh?

hahaha ummmmmmmmmmm no I just ate!!!!

20 scoops of love pweaz

a lot of truth in this. but some women just can't help themselves...

"i like that"

I don't want two scoops anywhere if I can help it!

JOYCE

very nice

very true for most women. well said!

wow....very true, its funny you have women figured out at 19!!! Some guys never figure us out!!!

Ya seem like a young Dr. Phil.. hahaha wtg. Women aren't as complicated as men think.. we just use all 6 lanes when ya'll stay in the right lane.

very nicely said

well said!!! most guys never get those little clues that us women drop.

Nice 1 & good thoughts, but I'm normaly busy w/the 1s approachin' me.

i'm the real life "Hitch"