i just wonder where a loving good man is,there r alot but not yet found wat my heart want:D

Usually in church.....

Men wonder the same thing about women, and just want to know that we are not alone.

They're around. You can't expect to recieve what you don't give.

Secretly, the truth is all men are loving because it's pretty much DNA encoded in all people, men and women.

Here's the trick to it:

You have to think of every person as having their very own personality. It's true.

You have to think of a personality as like a rainbow or spectrum containing lots of little parts to make up the whole, each is unique. It's true.

You have to think of two human beings as having two different personalities, so they have two different rainbows or two different spectrums. It's true.

Now the trick: your rainbow has to complement theirs and their rainbow has to complement yours, and automatically you love them and they love you, and you see them as loving, that is what you experience from them personally. So it's true.

But when you get the wrong combination of spectrums, love becomes a negotiation, a lie, or never comes.

And it doesn't make either person any less loving. It just means they weren't the right people for each other.



Everybody, everybody, every human being on this planet has exactly the same amount of love inside them to give: infinite.
It's true.

Well maybe we should all go to church then to meet each other?
I won't enter though, I'm an energy worker and sort of pagan, done with religion and church. So I'll wait outside and see if there's a man who feels the same way and won't enter church either. Might be my perfect match :)

They are all around you. You just have to get a connection with one of them.

It would seem as though IF church people were loving and good the divorce rates for church people would be lower than non-church-people --�� but they are not.



Sounds like a plan --�� but perhaps it would be more effective to avoid the church entirely and meet elsewhere.

I agree. Relationship dynamics don't have to be complicated. This was a very good explanation of people and forming bonds. Simple, easily understood and metaphorically correct. If it were part of a thesis I would have given it an "A" for originality.

Best post I've seen yet.

Perfectly stated and it is, as you said, true.

In womens heart.. n I am in my bear's heart...

How r u missy now???