Hi to all!!
My time is growing short here so i thought i would through my two cents in!!!
When i came in here i met all kinds of people.young,old,black,white,yellow,brown,whatever!!!
Everybody ive talked to guys and girls alike are all looking for love.Theres tons of great people here and just about all of you
deserve that someone special.Theres some of you that i wouldnt let go out with my dog!!!
But for the most part yes.
People you all need to focus alittle harder on what your looking for.Sure its fun to play and joke but i see so much in all of you!!!!!
Theres so much love here its leaking out!!!!
Most of you are just to shy.I know guys and girls who are in love with people here and they just wont say anything to each other.Why??Please dont be afriad!!!
You all have so much to offer one another.I just think of everybody sitting in front of there screen wanting to say
(Hey i love you) but never do.Its so sad.
Dont let fear rule you.Especially here!!!!
I would love to tell everyone about the people they told me they love here.But i cant,i promised!And im a man of my word.
So please do yourself a favor and tell them.Just stit it out
and get it over with.Your driveing yourselves nuts!!!
I have really enjoyed myself here.Even felt it myself.
Wouldnt you like to be doing the things you all talk about here
instead of talking about it?
Take the chance!!!Remember why your here!!!!!
Love you all so very much!!
Bigsexy....

Where are you going BigSexy?

ahh awesome post!!

Word!!!

Im with ya there guy. The thing is this. These websites are designed for the purpose of hopefully meeting someone and falling in love. But, I have joined a few of these things, and I always run into the same stuff. Whenever I see a woman I am attracted to, I email them lol I am not bashful at all. But what always happens is this.....I never get an email back lol We are all on here for the same reason, and that is that we are ALL socially remedial and have trouble meeting people on the outside so to speak. I mean there are a lot of things that stop me from doing this off of the computer so I use this. There are soooo many beautiful people on here that are just waiting to meet that wonderful person, but it will never happen if the people on these things act stuck up and holier than though.

i love you too but are not getting my bud light..
thanks for the words there man

ahhhh love is in the air

Great post

Awww , thanks for sharing BigSexy


But for the record, that's not why I'm here and it has nothing to do with "shyness"

All good things

Took the words right out of me!! Been wanting to say this for months. I have met about 4 people on here and it's the same problem, they either lied about their pic and profile and/or start acting weird after awhile. And some girls say they wanna be friends sometimes but of course that never materializes. Admit it ladies you have a problem with "just being friends". I am always cool with that, just to have a new friend to hang out with or whatever, but the women who I talk to can't seem to grasp that concept for some odd reason. It's like they are so paranoid that the guy is gonna act weird on them or get all dramatic so they just prefer to ignore them altogehter. Here is a tip ladies, that just makes men even more pissed off. But I am not singling out anyone, there are alot of great ladies on here who are real sweet and good friends,but seriously as the first guy stated, remember what this site is for, if you wanna play childish mind games go to My Space. hehe.

that is so true i think for all of us, its hard finding love again an when you do have it you will know it i had it but had to let it go after so many yrs but u know best thing out of that love is a great friendship don't forget the friendship part of that love..

oh an cajun sorry i took the last beer lol

Ahh...MySpace. The black hole of online dating. You're sure to meet a winner there.

when u talk nice like this u just confuse me
but u seem honest

Mikey

a problem 'just being friends"? ... nope ... I love my friends from all over the world ... am grateful for every single one of them...

I sometimes have to pinch myself at how lucky one Canadian girl can be with such friends to love her.


No room in my world for mind games. I agree with you there. People ought to just be who they are without all the nonsense.

Lordey lordey lordey...tsk tsk tsk and cluck cluck cluck..

Yeah Big...you be all that you are..and enjoy the world out there.. and very wonderful thoughts to share.









.....and where's the bloody door??? I've been wandering around in here for nearly six months...thought it was a gypsey fortune tent at a carnival..I wasnt looking for love, it found me, in all the greatest places..



*sigh* no, you lot....not that Mills and Boon romantic stufff...geeezzzz

the thing that i get from people on these sites is sometimes no thanks or nothing at all i mean can't some people just be nice an reply an say thanks but no. like my friend tells me there will always be that one jerk out there before you find that right person again so don't give up an you know i'm not. an one thing my dad always said if they don't like you for you then they are no good. so hopefully i will find that honest person for me some day..

I hear what you are saying & it makes perfect sense,but I am only looking for some good friends in my area,but I cannot even find that.People even in my area,will not even give me a chance to be friends & I am just wanting friendship.For anyone else though in-love with each other you hit the nail on the head,they need to take a chance & speak up.I know it is not easy,but how else will you ever know,if it will turn out like you want

(((Jess))) nah ... just the real stuff

YBS -- Bingo! Best (and most truthful and accurate) post I have seen in ages....!