Im with ya there guy. The thing is this. These websites are designed for the purpose of hopefully meeting someone and falling in love. But, I have joined a few of these things, and I always run into the same stuff. Whenever I see a woman I am attracted to, I email them lol I am not bashful at all. But what always happens is this.....I never get an email back lol We are all on here for the same reason, and that is that we are ALL socially remedial and have trouble meeting people on the outside so to speak. I mean there are a lot of things that stop me from doing this off of the computer so I use this. There are soooo many beautiful people on here that are just waiting to meet that wonderful person, but it will never happen if the people on these things act stuck up and holier than though.