Im a very bad boy but a real good man.

im so bad i once tore the tag off my mattress that says do not remove. a real good man because later i stitched it back on.

i even ate a peanutbutter cup once by starting in the middle. i recycled the wrapper though

LOL!!:) Such a Rebel!!

Why thank you very much.

i do try my best to cover the entire bad to good spectrum.

I feel I need to just be bold about this. If someone is a self-proclaimed nice guy, yet he's too scared to flirt with the woman he's attracted to, he shouldn't whine about her going off with some OTHER guy. Time waits for no-one. It's only fair that a guy with self-confidence won her over. She won't wait forever. Even if you want her to. Sorry, but it's the harsh truth.

sweetie don't b too nice hold some back women will use a man who too nice but men r the same its human nature.

Because she doesn't like you.

And, that said, just because she doesn't like you that way doesn't necessarily mean it is because you are a nice guy. As a matter of fact, most of the guys who fed me the same depressed drivel when they were single were hardly the nicest people.

So...Just because you think you are nice, or a million people tell you that you are nice, does not mean there isn't anyone out there that thinks you are an a*hole for whatever reason.

How subtle.

I'm 50/50. Good when I need to be and bad when I want to be!

Yet true....

Totally agree!

In so many ways..

I think this is a very possible and clear scenario. Let me give you another one.
Tammy... leaves Guy sweet cheesy songs such as let's say a Chicago song
Guy ... Doesn't even mention it
Angela... leaves Guy an openly sexual song such as "kiss me Through the Phone"
Guy... likes the song Angela left him on his wall but when Tammy asks about it she gets an: "Why are you being dramatic and all jealous about?

I think you're right. The person may wait for a while but If the guy is not making his mind then most likely she is going to move on not because she didn't like him in the first place but because as you said. "Time waits for no-one"... Still, If you like her might as well tell her what you feel and leave it up to her to choose.

LMFAO THAT WAS SO FUNNY!

my thought,,,,the operative word here is 'girl'

no offense, but at the time of life you are in, people rarely have a clue what they 'want', and are still trying to figure things out

trust, as you get older and the 'girls' mature into women,, they will beat down your door,,,

be patient, enjoy loving yourself a while longer, you will attract what you put out,,,eventually,,lol

For me, i find nice guys more dangerous. Dont get me wr0ng and i d0n generalize some "jerk" loves to pretend they are "mr nice guy" but at the end of the day u'l find them ditching their gal. And some w0men chooce a bad guy bcoz s0metimes real nice guys r too good to b true .

It is all a gamble, many looks like nice guys but inside themselves, the bad guys.
You're nice until proved nice by someone.
U could be nice but lacking some qualities of a good relationship.

This is a classic contradition/dicotomy of values/expectations.

Ladies, IMHO and I'm certainly no expert, are looking for a bad boy who is exciting, different, and unpredictable to keep the spark and the fun going. (No high expectations on us guys, huh?) Now, I'm not talking about someone who is a jerk and badmouths or worse other people, but rather someone a little on the edge with a different point of view about living live.

Kind of like when a lady's profile states that they want a man who can make them laugh.

They are also looking for the nice guy who is smart and intelligent (not always the same), articulate, stable, trustworth, reliable, and a gentleman.

For guy's expectations it is kinda like the whole Madonna/Whore thing (Madonna as in biblical reference not that worn out pop singer). i.e. A lady on the streets, a freak between the sheets.

So, how can one keep it fun and real at the same time? Well, just going for the nice guy you have a high chance to only get the real. With the bad boy you most likely get the fun and have some slim chance at real. Thus analizing the probabilities, gee, which one do you choose?

Add to that the human nature of deriving perverse pleasure from misbehaving... But that is the subject of a different thread.

That is why I'm a Harley riding Rocket Scientist. I'm the best of both worlds! lol

Hi 2kids :)

Yeah ;). If the guy doesn't tell her, he is missing the opportunity, and will only kick himself for it later on. Gender-neutral, really, isn't it? Women do it too.