yep theres more than physical beauty to make a relationship to work and being able to be open as much as possible

I learned that love is a very painful thing and no matter how bad she hurt me I would always go back. I loved her that much I had to walk away.

If we don't learn anything in our relationships then we aren't paying attention ... and we are doomed to repeat the patterns...

Our partners reflect back our deepest held belief systems we hold about ourselves (mainly in the unconscious) ... if you don't like the reflection then it is within you to change...

Yes, I have learned much and I see with much clearer eyes...

@ Lakeman

Especially the know when to run part!!HAHAHAHA

i learned what i am and am not willing to compromise on.

after the second chance, odds are things are not going to change so get out while the gettings' good.

what i deserve

that i will not settle

it takes more that just saying you love me....show me you love me half as much as you claim to

How to say goodbye. Results-wonderful.. impact- havent survey'd anyone.

I think that you can always learn from your ex I learned over and over that younger guys just can't cut it and even guys that are my own age just can't be mature enough. I also learned that if I am not completely in like with someone I can't be in a relationship with them no matter how much they may love me. That is just my opinion.

I learned everything I know on how to please a woman from her and she taught me to cook!!!

i learned that you can still be friends even if the intimate relationship falls apart. because that's truely what you were for that amount of time. friends.

she taught me to sit, speak, and shake a paw, and go to my basket.!!! lol

As having two ex-wives, i have learned many things that I hope to always remember in my on again relationship with SCG.
1. that a 110 lb woman kicks very hard- yes, there guys..
2. It's alot better to talk than to either scream or not talk, but sometimes it takes a few minutes to be able to do so.
3. I need to be alot more patient with children.
4. That even after #1 happened, and I ALMOST hit her in the face, I left instead. Violence is NOT the answer.
5. That relationships are not 50/50. They are 100/100 or they will not work.
6. (From my relationship with SCG, then and now) You cannot say I love you enough, and that women love to be told alot that they're beautiful(which she is), and that you have dreams and naughty thought about them all the time.

I learned not to put up with other's crap and to be loved for who I am. ****ing corny, but true.

I learned not to be a doormat.
I learned that love is blind.
I learned how to become self sufficient.
I learned how to love.
I learned about true sorrow and pain.
I learned to forgive and be happy for the time we shared together.
I learned that sex and making love are two seperate acts.
I learned what kind of a man I'm looking for.
I learned what kind of a man I'm not looking for.
I learned how forgiving I can be.
I learned that the grass isn't greener on the other side.
I learned that living alone has it's good and bad points.

Yeah, that i'm gonna be single for a very long time since i can't find a real guy who wants me for who i am.

crying helps and it will stop

That I am strong
That I don't NEED a man in my life
That I never had a man in my life, because he was still a child.
That I can raise our children alone and be better off.
That my family will help me if I ever need them.

I had a wonderful long talk with my favorite sister. She told me she never liked my ex. I don't talk to my unfavorite sister. She told me that she always liked my ex. Anyways, she reminded me of one time after working a double shift that I came home while she was staying with us and said, "I have six hundred dollars and I can't even buy a cheeseburger." She reminded me of how we used to try to keep up with the Joneses. It was nice to exchange ex stories. I amazed how much my one sister and me have in common. We both agreed that we can't stand perfect people because they bring us down. It is amazing how much a bond a sister and a brother can have.

Yeppiers never cheat on anyone it is the hardest things for one to deal with tooo much hurt no one should hurt anyone that way. If you want to cheat move on first don't drag there face through the mud. BUt................ I have never done it or ever crossed my mind.


Other than that I don't have anything bad to say about him.