I learned not to put up with other's crap and to be loved for who I am. ****ing corny, but true.

Nope. I most certainly do not.

aaww, I'm sorry to hear my NY sisters were rude. Well, not responding is the non-verbally rude way. At least you didn't get mean messages back!

Welcome to the site.

Haha, thanks for the advice all.

I know that I like men, but very few of them. I'm very picky with dating guys. Girls are just... well, I'm very girl orientated when it comes to my bi-sexuality. Pansexual I guess? Too many labels for sexuality to get it.

But to really fall for someone, and have them say that they're out there in the gay dating scene, then to have them turn around and go, "Oh, I was just curious what having sex with a girl was like, I know that I'm totally straight, thanks anyway!"

I mean, imagine being a straight girl and falling head over heels for a guy. He says he's straight, you two hook up, you wind up having sex, and he tells you, "I just wanted to see what sex with a girl was like. I'm pretty sure I'm gay. Sorry!" and have it happen to you over and over again.

When you can't even trust your own sexual preference because the majority just flip flop out of it, it's very discouraging. Also, the fact that being bi-sexual is some sort of fad makes it hard for people, like myself, who can genuinely fall for someone of either gender, to be taken seriously with topics like this.

I'm a pretty odd person. So I guess normalcy doesn't interest me much. I'm looking for someone as out of my mind as I am.

But of course, that's just me. Not everyone can be a lovable whack job like myself. I'm the oddball, I think, not everyone else.

I think my profile is pretty unique. Haha, I was kinda specific in what I was looking for. A simple, "hi, you're pretty, wanna go out for dinner?" just doesn't cut it for me...

Long Island, reporting for duty!

Haha, anyone ever notice that some people just seem to message you regardless of what you write? It's just like... they don't read it at all, and have nothing in common with you, and just message you with something generic and bland. Come on, does that actually work? :-P

Gotta stick out in the crowd with this kinda stuff, am I right? Especially around here in New York, we have so many single people running around! It's hard to choose.