Topic: Did you learn anything from your ex??
Jess642's photo
Sun 09/09/07 04:40 PM
I learned so much from my children's father....

...resilience, trust in myself, loyalty, endurance, how to be a mother, how to be self sufficient and independent rather than co-dependent, that material things mean nothing, but a smile, and a shared laugh lasts in our memory albums forever..

It was not all bad...or I would have been a fool to have been with him for 18 years...I have much to thank him for...we grew up together...17 to 35, and for a lot of that time was my best mate.

dcrdnk's photo
Sun 09/09/07 04:40 PM
Oh yeh & I learned what celibitsy is!!!!

sherry4382's photo
Sun 09/09/07 04:42 PM
i learned how much i like toys! :wink: :tongue:

MiSSLiNDS's photo
Sun 09/09/07 04:43 PM
OH, HE HAS NO NEW WiFE.. HE STiLL WANTS ME, OR HE MAY HAVE FOUND HiMSELF SOME YOUNG RETARDED GiRL WHO WiLL BUY iNTO HiS LiES.. WHO KNOWS! i NEED A REAL MAN iN MY LiFE AND UNTiL THAT HAPPENS.. i'VE GOT MY LiTTLE MAN! HE'S PROTECTiVE OF HiS MOMMY! :heart:

SadieJ's photo
Sun 09/09/07 08:18 PM
I learned what I don't want..bigsmile

burgundybry's photo
Sun 09/09/07 08:19 PM
yeah, look before you leap

unsure's photo
Sun 09/09/07 08:22 PM
I have learned how to speak up for myself. I use to be very quiet and never say anything in a relationship....but my ex taught me that IF I didn't speak up, I would get walked all over.

hotandspicey's photo
Sun 09/09/07 08:29 PM
I learned that when a man says you can find him at a certain bar after work every day...you can find him at a certain bar after work every day, and it's their choice of a lifestyle, not something they are doing because they are single and lonely

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Sun 09/09/07 08:38 PM
A lot!

willy_cents's photo
Sun 09/09/07 09:03 PM
I learned to give your ex all your stuff..she was gonna get it anyhow...then you are not bitter about it, and, you get all new stuff and she gets stuck with the worn out stuff....laugh laugh

Marie55's photo
Sun 09/09/07 09:16 PM
I learned how to take a punch.

I learned that I could be independent and support myself and raise our daughter by myself.

I discovered that I could learn pretty much whatever I wanted to and that I wasn't stupid like he told me I was.

I learned to trust myself and my judgment.

bamabeecee's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:12 PM
I learned that if I don't want to be a doormat I have to get off the floor. In most relationships there are no real victims, only volunteers. Actually I didn't learn that from him, but I learned it after being with him. All I really learned from him is how much and how long someone can drink without dying, and that your best friend can turn into a complete stranger because of it.

Tanna's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:17 PM
I learned that if you find a prescription for Viagra.... and your not getting any..... SOMEONE is! noway noway

never2old's photo
Mon 09/10/07 02:09 PM
drinker Is that english 'dcrdnk???? drinker Have another one......ohwell huh laugh

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Mon 09/10/07 02:44 PM
Ive learned jealousy is a wasted emotion. It only makes you feel like crap. And it can make you do some stupid things.

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Mon 09/10/07 02:49 PM
I learned not to get married anymore....

Maje's photo
Mon 09/10/07 02:50 PM
I have learned the price of just about any major cell phone out there thanks to my ex. (She calls and pisses me off a lot, so the phone learns to fly)

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Mon 09/10/07 02:54 PM
I learned how to tell when somebody is high.....

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Mon 09/10/07 02:55 PM
lol i learned do not fall in love with him before he falls in love with you .... he never did ..... he used me to get to my sister talk about a slap in the face cried for months

Lakeman's photo
Mon 09/10/07 04:27 PM
It's kind of like the poker song from Kenny Rogers "You've Got To Know When to Hold em...Know when to fold em. Know when to walk away, Know when to run!!"