Topic: What is love? Do you grow or fall in love?
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Thu 01/23/14 12:30 AM
If you want to know if love really exist,then take a look at your self,why do God created you with two eyes, two hands,two ears,two legs,the mouth and the tongue,but only one heart,probably it's because he wants you to look for the other,so you can see that one heart leads to another

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Thu 01/23/14 12:33 AM
If you want to know if love really exist,then take a look at your self,why do God created you with two eyes, two hands,two ears,two legs,the mouth and the tongue,but only one heart,probably it's because he wants you to look for the other,so you can see that one heart leads to another

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Thu 01/23/14 12:41 AM
maybe l0ve d0esn't exist... it was just in mind... :3

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Thu 01/23/14 12:55 AM
Personally most think they can fall in love when actually you must grow in love,growing in love is a powerful thing,when you grow in love I honestly believe it involves maturity,maturity is essential to so many things in life,maturity is the key to leting things get to a stage and then it flourishes even more,in order to grow that means pruning,assessing and eliminating is what will keep love stimulated to keep growing,I think that one learning how to love is vital to any relationship intimate or otherwise,knowing how to give and be selfless you will soar to higher height in love.

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Fri 01/24/14 06:23 AM
Edited by BEZAX on Fri 01/24/14 06:26 AM

maybe l0ve d0esn't exist... it was just in mind... :3

what in mind...? :tongue:

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Fri 01/24/14 06:51 AM

maybe l0ve d0esn't exist... it was just in mind... :3


great post! I agree:thumbsup:

it is not of the physical we cannot "prove" it exists like we can prove that there are donuts. We can only judge if it's supposed manifestations are real. that's my thought on your comment anywaywaving

sammytee54's photo
Sat 01/25/14 02:46 PM
May be there is Love, what am not sure of is true balanced Love:smile:

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Tue 01/28/14 03:25 AM


I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier. I think falling in love is more accurate then growing into love. It feels more like a free fall that you can't stop, but maybe t hats just me.


roflHA I knew it!...but I guess this doesn't prove my theory in any way
they are surface lovers ..they fall quick to the surface

What I'm describing is most likely not love at all and they are unhappy
by the end of the ifactuation stage.

We 'fall in to love' in a sence as its amplified with dopamine releases putting us in a euphoric state.
this is only in the first intimate stage of a relationship but this
my not be love at all but more infatuation.
once this stage is done,many are obviously not in love at all.
They are just tricked by the releases or dopamine.
the last intimate stage in a relationship is love and that could take
5 years to GROW and will keep growing. Love grows..:wink:

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Wed 01/29/14 04:53 AM
I want to be in love but sincerely i dont know how to love?help

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Fri 01/31/14 11:28 PM
you don't fall in love but you grow in love. love is a process, it involves both lovers getting to understand themselves thereby growing in love for each other

dreamerana's photo
Fri 01/31/14 11:56 PM
Love is s need all of us have

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 02/01/14 01:34 AM
If you have to ask, then you've probably never experienced it. It grows. And not everyone sleep's with each other on the very first day of meeting. Because that's just sex. I always tell them they have to get inside my head, before my body. I can't sleep with a guy who I don't daydream about. You see?

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Fri 02/14/14 10:41 AM

If you have to ask, then you've probably never experienced it. It grows. And not everyone sleep's with each other on the very first day of meeting. Because that's just sex. I always tell them they have to get inside my head, before my body. I can't sleep with a guy who I don't daydream about. You see?

:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Fri 02/14/14 10:48 AM

I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

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Fri 02/14/14 10:53 AM


I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.



You're right. But it can be so much easier to hate people, especially when they give you a reason to.flowerforyou

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Fri 02/14/14 10:57 AM



I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.



You're right. But it can be so much easier to hate people, especially when they give you a reason to.flowerforyou

I just think hate is a horribly strong word. I sometimes dislike people or sometimes people get on my nerves but I can't hate.
Unless you mention terrorists then yes, I would say I do hate them.
Now I'm confused by my own answer

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Fri 02/14/14 11:02 AM




I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.



You're right. But it can be so much easier to hate people, especially when they give you a reason to.flowerforyou

I just think hate is a horribly strong word. I sometimes dislike people or sometimes people get on my nerves but I can't hate.
Unless you mention terrorists then yes, I would say I do hate them.
Now I'm confused by my own answer


You're lucky then. But yeah, I'm working on not hating them, because all it does is drive me down to their level and they're not worth it.

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Sun 02/16/14 07:49 AM


I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.


flowers

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Sun 02/16/14 07:51 AM
Love is passion love is fame who gets it he dies who doesnt he cries!!!!!

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Sun 02/16/14 07:53 AM
Edited by BEZAX on Sun 02/16/14 07:53 AM





I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Martin Luther King, Jr.



You're right. But it can be so much easier to hate people, especially when they give you a reason to.flowerforyou

I just think hate is a horribly strong word. I sometimes dislike people or sometimes people get on my nerves but I can't hate.
Unless you mention terrorists then yes, I would say I do hate them.
Now I'm confused by my own answer


You're lucky then. But yeah, I'm working on not hating them, because all it does is drive me down to their level and they're not worth it.

LOVE conquers all... :heart: flowerforyou