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A common symptom that occurs during the first stage of falling in love?...Sleeplessness  Have u falling, and what stage are you now?  Check the time of my post!    Morning Bezzzzz!....
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Edited by
realcarebear
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A common symptom that occurs during the first stage of falling in love?...Sleeplessness Have u falling, and what stage are you now? Check the time of my post! Morning Bezzzzz!.... 
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Oxytocin is a chemical released into the brain when a mother first holds her child after it is born and causes a really strong bond. But really it's a trick. It's what her body does to keep her from eating her kids when she gets really hungry. This joke was brought to you thanks to Joe Rogan who got it from his sister. lol  Rogan...Lol Joe Rogan on how to get your gf fingerd? Put her on your shoulders at a concert. .he say "true" Well tell me something I don't know joe. 
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Edited by
Candiapples
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Tue 01/21/14 08:23 AM
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . |
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That's very good Candyapples. I think you cracked it.
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Edited by
Candiapples
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Tue 01/21/14 09:03 AM
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Thankyou, thankyou {bows} J/K
I read alot Redmist |
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . I didn't know the ones that were responsible for the feelings of love. So I just named a few random ones. and gave examples of what the bodies chemicals do. I was mostly thinking of the movie Love potion number 9. I think that's the one anyway. lol |
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Haha..u jst tried to explain love scientifically,,,dats also a way to explain...bt love can b undrstood only when we fall into it,,,, I didn't just try. I did explain it scientifically. I didn't get really specific. But I explained. hahaha |
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Haha..u jst tried to explain love scientifically,,,dats also a way to explain...bt love can b undrstood only when we fall into it,,,, I didn't just try. I did explain it scientifically. I didn't get really specific. But I explained. hahaha Dopamine is the chemical responible for the euphoric high in the honeymoon stage |
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I took a psych class where the teacher talked about how you can become addicted to hot sauce.
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I got addicted to Cheetos.
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I'm addicted to coffee. And evil men.
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Is that why we're friends? lol
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Hahaha, probably.
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . When it comes to love, in love, infatuation blablabla, a lot, if not all, has to do with projection, not hormones. If you read about that, you start to wonder if we ever even love a person for who he/she really is or if we never get beyond loving who we think or want him/her to be? Kinda concerning and mind boggling ... Maybe the best match would be the person who is in actual fact as close to your projection as is humanly possible? |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Tue 01/21/14 11:50 AM
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . Learning this not that long ago, it sure has answered Questions that i have had about what I refer to as "surface Love" I honestly have found in my experience that woman get a lot more confused in this stage and think they are madly in love. Candi reads alot, she gets all her knowledge from my posts exept when she says stupid stuff I don't know where that comes from, cause I dont say stupit stuff  Just funnin' ya Calgary They say that is why people seek out sex, its certainly not going to release to the extent if one was in a infatuation stage. but Dopamine in everything good and everything bad Its not love but it sure does have to do with love and lust and adiction and walking and talking and everything its like fuel of the brain all these are neurotransmitters that fill in the space between the neurons. there is lots of different types of receptors 5 for Dopamine and 11 or more of Serotonin. its how we are designed as the Brain would literally fry if the levels wouldn't subside. Its not a full on in an infatuation stage for a month or two; it has to ebb and flow. Gambeling is 'our' adiction to our own dopamine release. Adiction triggers are a release of dopamine when you associate yourself with the habit. Your brain releases like its getting a reward and when it doesn't get it, that brings on disappointment as the dopamine is cut back. I guess we are all a bit different but in the infatuation stage and living together I want to slep a lot more, its the best sleep I can have. The lack of sleeping for me would be break up time...next week..
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . When it comes to love, in love, infatuation blablabla, a lot, if not all, has to do with projection, not hormones. If you read about that, you start to wonder if we ever even love a person for who he/she really is or if we never get beyond loving who we think or want him/her to be? Kinda concerning and mind boggling ... Maybe the best match would be the person who is in actual fact as close to your projection as is humanly possible? I admit I've done that, not really seen guys for who they are, but for who I want them to be. Sort of sick and sad at the same time. I need to work on that. Thank you for pointing that out. 
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Tue 01/21/14 01:51 PM
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. Yes Jamie, you are right  ....The free fall is usually short lived and when you hit the ground, you hit hard...Sometimes hard enough to become constipated..Haha....You are also right about chemical release and amplification...Along with dopamine, other "love chemicals" include phenylethylamine, norepinephrine, oxytocin, testosterone, and of course, endorphins...A delicious cocktail that can make your heart race, you palms sweat, and your panties wet simply by looking at the person you love....Once this "stage" of falling in love is complete, a couple either grows to the next and the next and the next stage or they grow apart as life and all its challenges happen....The only thing I don't agree with in your beautiful post is placing a time limit on love's growth...For me, it is more like a plant that never stops growing.  Good analogy and yes its not the fall its the sudden stop at the bottom that drastically changes the dynamics It is a good analogy because the second stage of the five stages of intamatcy is called the landing stage or Pony calls it the stage were her head splits open and the lizard pops out zzzzZZZZZ.  Its actually bin referred to as "the day you woke up" OK its all starting To make sense now. Thats the day she starts saying "you've changed" ok in a month I've changed  OR she says its time to go back to work.Then I'm like "ok b_tch your fired. I remender last relationship a few years back I was seeing her for just over a year and a half casually when I was in town then she wanted more the last few times we'd Met on days off,like I'm talking crying and using the L work. I thought we would give it a try since I had a few months off work. Well that was all great but at the end of the infatuation stage she was not saying the L word anymore and said its probably time to get back to work, Which was true. We were having some beer and I found a big American bullfrog in the back yard She likes to smoke a little bit of weed at night sometimes so this very rare time I joined her & bullfrog and we all got stoned. Then we made him a nice home in the bath tub with an island and lots of grass and then I went outside and grabbed a handfulls of Lawn clippings. Eventually I pulled the shower certain and laid in bed together and thats when we both looked at each other different,like what am I doing with this person, simaltaniusly. So we had awkward sex anyways. That is when I realized in the morning I would release the bullfrog and her back into the forest. The landing stage: or "the day you woke up" So we go to jump in the shower and pull back the certain WTF  the bath was full of glass and this big bullfrog. "NO NO NO NO I don't smoke it no more..I'm tierd of waking up with a bullfrog & a whore Everybody gets drunk with pitbulls, & stoned with bullfrogs don't they.. don't they. Where men are men.. and sheep are nervous....Pitbulls are drunk, Bullfrogs are high, and pansy..well that's still just the name of a LIIIIttle flower. |
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Edited by
Candiapples
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Tue 01/21/14 02:31 PM
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . When it comes to love, in love, infatuation blablabla, a lot, if not all, has to do with projection, not hormones. If you read about that, you start to wonder if we ever even love a person for who he/she really is or if we never get beyond loving who we think or want him/her to be? Kinda concerning and mind boggling ... Maybe the best match would be the person who is in actual fact as close to your projection as is humanly possible? I think we truely do love them for who they are just like how we love family members. We are naturally loving beings who are capable of seeing/feeling that inner soul which is pure love. If you want to get down to the nutty gritty..life itself is a projection of what you desire..see..feel and don't want. |
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. Then theres the chemicals that have nothing to do with love, They only exist in the honeymoon stage and ease off as time goes by. Have you ever noticed that when you are in this stage, everything is clearer, brighter and nothing matters anymore but how you are feeling? People can get addicted to this euphoric high, which is probably why alot of relationships don't last past this stage. So when they come down off the high and see the real person and all their faults, they quit and move on looking for that drug again . Learning this not that long ago, it sure has answered Questions that i have had about what I refer to as "surface Love" I honestly have found in my experience that woman get a lot more confused in this stage and think they are madly in love. Candi reads alot, she gets all her knowledge from my posts exept when she says stupid stuff I don't know where that comes from, cause I dont say stupit stuff Just funnin' ya Calgary They say that is why people seek out sex, its certainly not going to release to the extent if one was in a infatuation stage. but Dopamine in everything good and everything bad Its not love but it sure does have to do with love and lust and adiction and walking and talking and everything its like fuel of the brain all these are neurotransmitters that fill in the space between the neurons. there is lots of different types of receptors 5 for Dopamine and 11 or more of Serotonin. its how we are designed as the Brain would literally fry if the levels wouldn't subside. Its not a full on in an infatuation stage for a month or two; it has to ebb and flow. Gambeling is 'our' adiction to our own dopamine release. Adiction triggers are a release of dopamine when you associate yourself with the habit. Your brain releases like its getting a reward and when it doesn't get it, that brings on disappointment as the dopamine is cut back. I guess we are all a bit different but in the infatuation stage and living together I want to slep a lot more, its the best sleep I can have. The lack of sleeping for me would be break up time...next week.. Haha! ponyboy Now when have I ever said stupid stuff? In yer erotic dreams maybe? BTW
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