Can't just stop thinking about her, but each time I see her I pretend not to have any feelings because I don't know if she feels the same way, I don't know how to tell her and I lack that courage to say to her "I LOVE YOU"

Well, first...I'd say making sure it isn't simply lust.

Love is like hate, you don't say it unless you know it to be true.

Well since you just told a bunch of complete strangers I think it should be easy saying those exact things to someone you know. Good luck.

This.

no its not lust, naturally women don't move me, and she dresses well, no exposures

hmm...
Not that easy...

Maybe let her know you have (rather deep) feelings for her instead of saying "I love you" straight away?
Easier for both you and her. Once you've established that those deeper feelings are mutual, you can just take it from there. Maybe that might be enough for now, maybe it is an opening to say those three words after all.

It also depends on how long you've known her and the nature of your relationship, if you haven't known her for long or if you've basically been just friends, telling her you love her might creep her out and scare her away. But if you've known her for some time and you have a close relationship, loving her would be the next logical step, and not creepy at all.

I agree with Crystal, if you let her know you care about her, and then lead up to the love thing, it might go over well. Everyone wants to be cared for by people they like, and it's nice to hear it from time to time.

Good luck to you.

You don't even know if she would even consider you romantically and your
In love ? Well I would say your infatuated with her ,which would be the first stage of a relationship , if in fact you two were in a relationship. yeah dude don't tell her that,its totally irrelevant what you or we want to call it,the balls in her court when you ask her "have you ever considered us for anything other that friends". If her answer is friends and she is firm with that. Then you
better get you feelings in check.

how can you not read any body language?
how does she sit around you?
does she seem to focus her attention on you more when there is
other men around? Is she touchy? Does she kick you in the
shins or hit you when you tease her?

Good points here, you can always tell when someone is into you a certain way, if you're honest with yourself.

I just met her a month ago, the first time I saw her, I didn't like her for any reason, but after few chatting with her things changed which I don't understand

hmm...

Yeah unless she is just so shy then in that case I would ...
I guess it doesn't matter what I would do, but if your the one
that she spends lots of time with due to work ect. then more time will
be needed ..OR more alcohol for her?
The kicking in the shins is exaggerated..more of a grade 3 thing.
That kind of effect anyways, even if its just a friendly smile
and a slap on the chest or shoulder, some woman don't grow out of it
they just aren't as mean about it as they get older.
They have way better ways to chrush you than a feat of strength

I met a guy in college years ago, when I first met him, I thought he was weird and not at all attractive. After I got to know him, I thought he was the most amazing guy ever. So getting to know people can change how you feel about them. Or at least it should.

In love after a month? I don't think so, it might just be infatuation. Real love takes longer than that.

you think so, you don't understand, but its ok, perhaps I do it my own way now...

A big thanks to you all, but I think am gonna handle things my own way now because I don't like this strange feelings, it leave not strength in me...
Can't continue letting her come around, and I'm gonna scare her

NO! NO! its too late! You are one of us now LOVERBOY "You can check out
any time you like but you can never leave".

Again, it doesn't matter about labeling YOUR felling, because without
her consent it will be like a no armed man in I gun fight.
good luck;~}

NO! NO! its too late! You are one of us now LOVERBOY "You can check out
any time you like but you can never leave".

Again, it doesn't matter about labeling YOUR felling, because without
her consent it will be like a no armed man in I gun fight.
good luck

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqIWk2C9ZD8

With tyme u will understand hw u really feel