Can't just stop thinking about her, but each time I see her I pretend not to have any feelings because I don't know if she feels the same way, I don't know how to tell her and I lack that courage to say to her "I LOVE YOU"

Well since you just told a bunch of complete strangers I think it should be easy saying those exact things to someone you know. Good luck.

Well, first...I'd say making sure it isn't simply lust.

Love is like hate, you don't say it unless you know it to be true.

Well since you just told a bunch of complete strangers I think it should be easy saying those exact things to someone you know. Good luck.

Can't just stop thinking about her, but each time I see her I pretend not to have any feelings because I don't know if she feels the same way, I don't know how to tell her and I lack that courage to say to her "I LOVE YOU"

You don't even know if she would even consider you romantically and your
In love ? Well I would say your infatuated with her ,which would be the first stage of a relationship , if in fact you two were in a relationship. yeah dude don't tell her that,its totally irrelevant what you or we want to call it,the balls in her court when you ask her "have you ever considered us for anything other that friends". If her answer is friends and she is firm with that. Then you
better get you feelings in check.

how can you not read any body language?
how does she sit around you?
does she seem to focus her attention on you more when there is
other men around? Is she touchy? Does she kick you in the
shins or hit you when you tease her?

It also depends on how long you've known her and the nature of your relationship, if you haven't known her for long or if you've basically been just friends, telling her you love her might creep her out and scare her away. But if you've known her for some time and you have a close relationship, loving her would be the next logical step, and not creepy at all.

I agree with Crystal, if you let her know you care about her, and then lead up to the love thing, it might go over well. Everyone wants to be cared for by people they like, and it's nice to hear it from time to time.

Good luck to you.

You don't even know if she would even consider you romantically and your
In love ? Well I would say your infatuated with her ,which would be the first stage of a relationship , if in fact you two were in a relationship. yeah dude don't tell her that,its totally irrelevant what you or we want to call it,the balls in her court when you ask her "have you ever considered us for anything other that friends". If her answer is friends and she is firm with that. Then you
better get you feelings in check.

how can you not read any body language?
how does she sit around you?
does she seem to focus her attention on you more when there is
other men around? Is she touchy? Does she kick you in the
shins or hit you when you tease her?

Good points here, you can always tell when someone is into you a certain way, if you're honest with yourself.

I just met her a month ago, the first time I saw her, I didn't like her for any reason, but after few chatting with her things changed which I don't understand

I met a guy in college years ago, when I first met him, I thought he was weird and not at all attractive. After I got to know him, I thought he was the most amazing guy ever. So getting to know people can change how you feel about them. Or at least it should.

In love after a month? I don't think so, it might just be infatuation. Real love takes longer than that.

you think so, you don't understand, but its ok, perhaps I do it my own way now...