{squeeze squeeze}

A few months?

Wait, so you're telling me these things last longer than 30 days? Get the f* outta here!?

I think that is very well put . Thank You

Those three words are said to much There not enough

I understand.. I'm a Cancer..too..

but of course the older we get, it seems like it's the men that want to marry and the women who are thinking, "hmmmmm.....I haven't had to pick up anyone's socks but my own ". Or so it seems.

Once men have had a wife caring for the home it's hard for them to go back to the bachelor pad of youth I think. Though many do just that, I am sure. Some women, however, once retired from housekeeping are reluctant to go back to it...lol

it's a bit of a generalization but it seems the case much of the time.

When to say it?

When you truly mean it...

i have been dating a man for 6 months now. we get along great and enjoy our time together. i realized a few months ago that i had fallen in love with him. i have been waiting for him to tell me those 3 little words. i'm afraid to say it first. afraid he doesnt feel the same way about me or it will scare him away. i dont want to lose him. have been patiently waiting. please guys help me understand why he hasnt said it yet. we neither one want to date anybody else.

madam, i think u should tell him now.

I say them when I feel them.

I have found some of the younger guys are a little better about that but not all. I think more of them had moms who worked outside of the home. yes, I agree. I am aware men remarry more often. I think that stat really tells the story...

I see, I have been in that position and didn't feel love for her at
6 months and it causes a lot of trouble with her constantly needing
an answer why or saying it and not hearing it back.
we lived together the whole time, I was monogamous from the
beginning by choice and had no plans on moving on.
So it slowed down the process , as I felt she was blaming me for
not feeling a certain way.

If it ain't broke then don't fix it
what will be will eventually be.
do you guys spend lots of time together?
if you do then at 6 months would be a good time
to cut off relations for a short time like an out of town visit.
thats when us type will start "coughing off" I don't know when its getting close to love or in love? It's usually going to take being
away.Like ((JT)) said, he usually waits til they dump him.
As funny as that is, they're a lot more truth to that that many
probably think. Thats why I find it way too funny. its the sad truth.
You will be fine.
BTW the gf I waited 6 month to tell, I married her, and she was the love
or my life and it started out as a convenience thing.

Very best
Pony

yes emotional and sensitive i am cancerian too,and i wnt the man to say it first.

Meh...I'm not saying it ...anymore....nobody believes in love anymore
nor appreciates it.

I said it to 2 guys, never again. From now on, they say it first. Always.

I love you all. Or is that I hate you all. Eh well. I'll figure it out eventually.

It's so much easier to say you hate someone. No one takes that personally. Then again, some people are so dead inside, they don't take anything personally.

I do love my coffee though...Mmmmm, coffee.

I love hot chocolate, true crime shows and movies and learning about people who are crazier than I am.

I only know one person who is crazier than I am. I need more.

The Craig's list killer? hahaha