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Topic: WHEN TO SAY THE 3 MAGIC WORDS: I LOVE U
paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 06:41 PM
Nope, a guy I go to school with. He's bat **** crazy. And a jerk. I can deal with crazy, crazy can be entertaining, but jerks are an annoyance.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 06:42 PM
The Craig's list killer? hahaha A part of me wishes I had known him, he was hot. And I wouldn't have been his type so I would have been safe.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 06:45 PM
So you mean people you have met who are crazier than you are. Not just people you have heard about.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 06:48 PM
Oh god yes, the stories I could tell.....my first bf should have had papers certifying him as King of the Nut Jobs.....or Queen of the Nut Jobs as it turned out....

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 06:52 PM
I'm sure he was just a misunderstood cross-dresser. hahaha

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 06:53 PM
He married a man.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 06:55 PM
Well if he's a cross-dresser then I'm sure he maked a lovely bride. hahaha

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 06:56 PM
He was gorgeous. And he smelled so good. And he had the loveliest hair. I'm sure his hubby is very happy.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 07:02 PM Edited by izzyphoto1977 on Fri 12/27/13 07:54 PM
Well I'm sure you'll find the right man eventually. If not then you'll have people like me around as friends.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 07:04 PM
All men suck. No offense. Yeah, you seem cool.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 07:56 PM
I'm sure we all suck in one way or another. Some the way you are talking about. some suck titty and some suck toes and some suck other things. lol

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 07:58 PM
You're a doodle, Izzy.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 08:00 PM
I hope you don't know to many people like me. Because your life would be really confusing if you did.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 08:02 PM
Nope, you're a special case. You're good at being cheerful though, so I appreciate that.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 12/27/13 08:03 PM
I hope you don't know to many people like me. Because your life would be really confusing if you did. I'll second that notion

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Fri 12/27/13 08:04 PM
I say it when I feel it. But, I'm a Cancer and we Cancers are pretty emotional people. I understand.. I'm a Cancer..too.. Im a Libra and I say it when I feel it too. I guess Libras are emotional too? Sometimes I think men believe saying "I love you" is a marriage proposal. Its too bad. They are missing out. Its definitely a big thing, many men like me, don't fall in a 'surface love and revert in a few months.It may take some man longer but they go deep. I know if I say I love her then a want to spend my life with her. Some, it SEEMS love for the now for there convenience, I just don't find it very convenient. Fickle and unloyal. I think many woman just don't get it, when the relationship goes from the infatuation stage to "the landing stage"or sometimes referred to as "the day you woke up". The brain just can't take the high levels of dopamine that brings on full body euphoria, thats brought on by the infatuation. I guess many people are just confused and were more adicted to there own bodys response than the person they're with.When confronted they say I changed. Haha; what are they supposed to say "I know I cried for your love and said thats all I wanted in this world but; hey that was two weeks ago, I am woman and I'm subject to change.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Fri 12/27/13 08:06 PM
Thanks for the seconding. I'm cheerful on here anyway. In life I'm generally tired for reasons I do not know. When I get really tired then I get extra goofy and extra confusing.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 08:07 PM
When I'm tired I'm semi-psychotic. Not a good thing. Me and no sleep is scarier than the vagina teeth.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 12/27/13 08:09 PM
i always wait until the woman dumps me to say it

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Fri 12/27/13 08:11 PM
It's usually best to wait at least a few months into a relationship that you're confident will last. After you've determined that you're in it for the long haul, you should talk to your significant other about your feelings to see if you're on the same page. Ask your partner if he or she could picture a future with you and if he or she feels like you're a good match. By testing the waters, you'll not only find out how your significant other is feeling, you'll also put your feelings on the table and prepare him or her if you do decide to say "I love you. Also, say it in person, rather than over the phone or through e-mail. That way, you can read body language to get a sense of how your significant other is feeling. Taking the time to decide when you're ready to say "I love you" will prove worth the wait. After all, nothing is more meaningful than knowing that someone loves you and you love them in return. This seems more like manipulating the other person in having to decide right there if they love you, it may even force them to lie about it so they don't hurt your feelings. There are is no set of universal rules when it comes to relationships. If someone wants to tell you that they love you they will, if you have to ask them then your forcing the issue. Patients grasshopper!