Topic: Cheaters
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Thu 12/19/13 02:02 PM
Edited by paintecards01 on Thu 12/19/13 02:06 PM





Nah, shooting him ends with you going to jail...

shoot him and tell me why you keep changing your avatar , i liked the star tattoo bigsmile


I kept getting views from creepy people...but if you like it, I'll put it back up....:heart:

It would probably help if I was in stealth mode...grumble



Sexy feet...:wink: (((((( Yolanda))))))

that's the truth .... the star tattoo thing was an excuse bigsmile





blushing :heart: flowerforyou

I hope you appreciate the sacrifice I'm making for you, I've had more views from old, creepy, local perverts today than the entire time I've been here...thank god for mail filters.

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Thu 12/19/13 02:03 PM


Random question about cheaters based on a friend request I've just received:

What are the odds that a man with a username referring to him being someone's hubby, who doesn't have a profile pic, who states he's moving to an area local to me when he's officially divorced, and that he's unable to inbox message me (I presume he's been intimate encounter messaging people since he can only invite me as a friend)... actually not being a cheat?
100% i'd say Lost!


I thought as much. It's good to check in with the populace every once and a while just to see if I've lost touch with reality. Good to see I haven't. Yet. laugh

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Thu 12/19/13 02:57 PM


I'm gonna be honest Lost... I'm not that strong! He HAS gotten to mefrown I wish I could dust it off like .. " F*K you..who cares, I'm over it" but He knows what he meant to me, because my dumba$$ told him!
Again... I've done the rant and rave, for this.

I just want a nut shot... and I'm good!pitchfork bigsmile


There's nothing stupid about tell a guy he means something to you - that's pretty normal for a functioning relationship. It sucks he shat on that though. If it makes you feel better, I'll turn my back and pretend I didn't see it? Then it's as if you never did, right? drinker

Yaay!:banana:

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Thu 12/19/13 03:16 PM
Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Thu 12/19/13 03:16 PM


blushing :heart: flowerforyou

I hope you appreciate the sacrifice I'm making for you, I've had more views from local perverts


how about international ones blushing





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Thu 12/19/13 04:23 PM
One can only "cheat" in a game, or on a test.

Which category do you place a relationship in?

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Thu 12/19/13 04:45 PM

One can only "cheat" in a game, or on a test.

Which category do you place a relationship in?


Life. Which people cheat in all the time.

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Thu 12/19/13 06:27 PM


If Some guys held him and Let me KICK HIM THERE A FEW times!!:thumbsup: He and I would be even!

make sure you wear this while kicking his ****




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Thu 12/19/13 06:34 PM


Since I don't believe there is ever an excuse to cheat, I don't forgive cheating. Ever. There are those that say the guy might have been weak, or he wasn't getting what he wanted from the relationship, or he was tempted by a hot piece of ***, or blah blah blah, ****ing blah, I don't care. You cheat on me, you're gone. Period.




I'm inclined to agree! Men and SOME STUPID women, want me to believe that men are very very weak when it comes to the Vjay-jaydrool

I should tell these Lot Lizards to stay away from my man... which I think is SO EFFING Silly! He has control of his own D*k...


"He has control of his own D*k..."


or apparently he does not....lol

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Thu 12/19/13 06:43 PM
oh and I am not sure what I'd do. it would depend on the details, but it would end the relationship ultimately, hopefully peacefully, if we had a commitment....

if we were close, but no commitment, I'd probably tell him that I would be looking for someone who wants a commitment if that is what I am looking for at the time.

kinda friend zone him otherwise. I guess because I am not gonna do all that tryna steal him back and keep him stuff...too much silly drama. I have never done that; not gonna start now. If a man can't make up his own mind and falls for some jezebel just because she's sqeezing him harder, then he deserves her manipilative azz lol

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Thu 12/19/13 06:49 PM

oh and I am not sure what I'd do. it would depend on the details, but it would end the relationship ultimately, hopefully peacefully, if we had a commitment....

if we were close, but no commitment, I'd probably tell him that I would be looking for someone who wants a commitment if that is what I am looking for at the time.

kinda friend zone him otherwise. I guess because I am not gonna do all that tryna steal him back and keep him stuff...too much silly drama. I have never done that; not gonna start now. If a man can't make up his own mind and falls for some jezebel just because she's sqeezing him harder, then he deserves her manipilative azz lol


Yes to this, a million times.drinker

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Thu 12/19/13 06:53 PM


oh and I am not sure what I'd do. it would depend on the details, but it would end the relationship ultimately, hopefully peacefully, if we had a commitment....

if we were close, but no commitment, I'd probably tell him that I would be looking for someone who wants a commitment if that is what I am looking for at the time.

kinda friend zone him otherwise. I guess because I am not gonna do all that tryna steal him back and keep him stuff...too much silly drama. I have never done that; not gonna start now. If a man can't make up his own mind and falls for some jezebel just because she's sqeezing him harder, then he deserves her manipilative azz lol


Yes to this, a million times.drinker


yo! cards01...we know those boys and what they up to:wink: laugh :tongue:

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Thu 12/19/13 07:14 PM
Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks

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Thu 12/19/13 07:23 PM

Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks



surprised

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Fri 12/20/13 03:00 AM

Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks


All you really need to know: he was screwing someone else whilst supposedly committed loyal to our lovely teebee. The particulars of how she found it isn't really important, is it? Given that she was asking what we would do if we found out our partner was cheating. Unless you're wondering how you'd get away with cheating...

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Fri 12/20/13 06:45 AM
If you've ever been cheated on then you know that all the stories are similar in nature. A painful narrative weaved by deception. The particulars are ancillary.

2014 is just around the corner. I am definitely one for bringing in the new year with a fresh outlook and as little baggage from the prior year as possible. Old heartaches do not a new year make. I would move forward with great expectation. Good luck!

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Fri 12/20/13 06:50 AM


Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks



surprised


soooooo totally thumbs up:thumbsup:

rofl rofl rofl


how is this not like a man to skip over reading multiple threads and expect us all to just stop waht we're doing and fill him in...lol

maybe he's a hot an' smexy busy exec typedrool drool

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Fri 12/20/13 07:02 AM



Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks



surprised


soooooo totally thumbs up:thumbsup:

rofl rofl rofl


how is this not like a man to skip over reading multiple threads and expect us all to just stop waht we're doing and fill him in...lol

maybe he's a hot an' smexy busy exec typedrool drool

laugh drinks

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Fri 12/20/13 07:03 AM




Hi - I am new to your issue. Could you tell me/us a little about him.? Type of person he is. Also, how did u find about his cheating. Thanks



surprised


soooooo totally thumbs up:thumbsup:

rofl rofl rofl


how is this not like a man to skip over reading multiple threads and expect us all to just stop waht we're doing and fill him in...lol

maybe he's a hot an' smexy busy exec typedrool drool

laugh drinks


waving I know right?

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Fri 12/20/13 07:26 AM

I'm not gonna bash the ex anymore... that's done, I've raved and ranted.. it's oversick

However, I was surprised to get so many conflicting view points.

My Sister told me... Get his credit card and buy yourself something really expensive! He won't say a thing.. He wouldn't dare!

My very CRAZY friend, said.. Lorena Bobbitt is her idol.. look to the idol! NO... I'm hurt but seems extremesurprised

Finally, My MOM said " If you love him, go to counseling and see if you can work past it"... He seems really sorry to me sad2
Bless her heart!:angel: I love my mom.:heart:


But No... He's not getting a second chance. It's not even about him..it's about me. I'd be looking over my shoulder for random chicks to be popping out of the woodwork..:cry: No, that's no way to live.

What would YOU do? Are you like Mom, Go get help and work it out?
Like, my sister.. get revenge but stick with him?

NO ONE should be like my CRAZY friend... noway

Are most of you like me? Man or Woman... if they screw up this big.. no 2nd chances.







for my first true , young love, I gave second chance naturally,,, both being young and both maturing and learning about life,, I had to allow (by my personal values) him the opportunity to mature in that area as well,

at this age though, I find less of an excuse for people not to have basic self control of their bodies, and it would be a moving on situation in a casual relationship


in a marriage, now that I Am not having anymore children, I may be willing to go to theraphy,,, it helped a lot In the case of domestic violence ,, it just has to have both people committed to making it better,,

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Sat 12/21/13 08:30 AM



If Some guys held him and Let me KICK HIM THERE A FEW times!!:thumbsup: He and I would be even!

make sure you wear this while kicking his ****





bigsmile