Fox, stop giving women ideas with those shoes? You'll end up putting a few women behind bars if they start wearing those?

Thank you, Peachy!

that is designed , made and shipped for free for those who are victims of a treason , no mercy with cheaters , no pullback , just pull the trigger and let him bite the dust

I've not yet encountered anyone who has a legitimate excuse for cheating, so I wouldn't be inclined to forgive and forget (or seek counselling, as your mother suggested).

There may be very special situations where a person isn't ready to let go. Maybe there's a child involved, they've been together for a long time, etc... and, for those reasons, a person decides to 'work' on the relationship to see if anything is worth salvaging. I personally think it's down to the individual to decide what's best for them, but that doesn't mean you have to accept being treated like a doormat.

In terms of your situation, I actually think anger and harbouring ill feelings towards people is toxic and will turn you into a very bitter person. I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to let it go. If you can, forgive him for his weakness but don't forget. Don't allow yourself to be weak and take him back. Just forgive him but remind yourself that you're worth more: more love, more loyalty, more passion, more respect. The more you believe that, that more likely it is you'll get that.

Sexy feet... (((((( Yolanda))))))

I agree with FOX, cool pic, Painte! and I don't even have a foot fetish!

I won't cheat but my first wife did. Hurt me terribly but I forgave her because I was in love. Did not help though, we split.

and that's the main goal mate

Too bad he doesnt have a credit card not even have a job atleast, poor guy doesnt have anything for living.

There's no second chances for cheaters!! once a cheater always a cheater and if ever you are gonna give him a second chance the relationship will never be the same, Trust will never be 100% there and that's the most essential part of a relationship. And how sure are we that after we give them the second chance it wont happen again. cheaters are like disease or allergies you treat them but sooner or later it'll comeback once triggered.

This.

I can forgive a lot of things, I can even forgive calling me a nasty name out of anger, because of a hot temper, but the effort it takes to actually go out and **** another woman, no way. I don't forgive that. Unless you literally tripped and fell into her vagina, over and over again for an hour, there is no excuse. If you're not getting enough sex at home, discuss it or leave. If you're pissy about something and want revenge, again, discuss it or leave. Or if you're the sort who can't commit and needs a variety (I've heard that ******** a lot) then don't commit to one woman, remain single, so you're not cheating. Seems pretty simple to me, but I see everything in black and white, there is no gray in my world.

I think I'm actually on the mend Yeah.. I cry a bit, complain a bit... but I'm much better than I was!
Having a wish to kick him in the nuts is normal, Right?
I REALLY belive I can OFFICIALLY move on, if I can do this!
He'd be hurt and writhing on the ground... and that would be symbolic of our relationship.
And I could simply walk away.... without seeing if he's ok, if he needs help gettng up. Nothing.

It feels Really good just saying the words!

that's the truth .... the star tattoo thing was an excuse

The problem I have with this is that he then knows he's gotten to you. Some guys seem to get off on knowing they've made an impact. Unless he gives you reason to kick him, like having the audacity to ask for another chance, I'd say take it out on a punch bag/pillow/mattress... etc then move on from it. He's not worth your time.

If a woman turns up to a date with me wearing those, i'm taking my nail.gun with me to even it up!! Ha ha

Thank you. (((Sherrie)))

Random question about cheaters based on a friend request I've just received:

What are the odds that a man with a username referring to him being someone's hubby, who doesn't have a profile pic, who states he's moving to an area local to me when he's officially divorced, and that he's unable to inbox message me (I presume he's been intimate encounter messaging people since he can only invite me as a friend)... actually not being a cheat?

I'm gonna be honest Lost... I'm not that strong! He HAS gotten to me I wish I could dust it off like .. " F*K you..who cares, I'm over it" but He knows what he meant to me, because my dumba$$ told him!
Again... I've done the rant and rave, for this.

I just want a nut shot... and I'm good!

There's nothing stupid about tell a guy he means something to you - that's pretty normal for a functioning relationship. It sucks he shat on that though. If it makes you feel better, I'll turn my back and pretend I didn't see it? Then it's as if you never did, right?

100% i'd say Lost, that he's a cheat!