I'm not gonna bash the ex anymore... that's done, I've raved and ranted.. it's over

However, I was surprised to get so many conflicting view points.

My Sister told me... Get his credit card and buy yourself something really expensive! He won't say a thing.. He wouldn't dare!

My very CRAZY friend, said.. Lorena Bobbitt is her idol.. look to the idol! NO... I'm hurt but seems extreme

Finally, My MOM said " If you love him, go to counseling and see if you can work past it"... He seems really sorry to me
Bless her heart! I love my mom.


But No... He's not getting a second chance. It's not even about him..it's about me. I'd be looking over my shoulder for random chicks to be popping out of the woodwork.. No, that's no way to live.

What would YOU do? Are you like Mom, Go get help and work it out?
Like, my sister.. get revenge but stick with him?

NO ONE should be like my CRAZY friend...

Are most of you like me? Man or Woman... if they screw up this big.. no 2nd chances.

Since I don't believe there is ever an excuse to cheat, I don't forgive cheating. Ever. There are those that say the guy might have been weak, or he wasn't getting what he wanted from the relationship, or he was tempted by a hot piece of ***, or blah blah blah, ****ing blah, I don't care. You cheat on me, you're gone. Period.

I keep telling you female Humans that you'd be better off dating a Melmacian, but do you listen to me? Nooooo!

shoot him

Nah, shooting him ends with you going to jail...no guy is worth that...just pack his ****, if he lives with you, and send him on his merry way....so many lovely men in the world to waste time on one jackass....

This IS a step above Lorena Bobbitt choice!

shoot him and tell me why you keep changing your avatar , i liked the star tattoo

I am with you. Just move on. Life is too short for all the drama.

I heard Melmacian's have more than one mate ? In case the 1st handful can't survive the Love ritual?

i meant to shoot him right where Lorena used her knife

I'm inclined to agree! Men and SOME STUPID women, want me to believe that men are very very weak when it comes to the Vjay-jay

I should tell these Lot Lizards to stay away from my man... which I think is SO EFFING Silly! He has control of his own D*k...

I'm going to say this from a been there done that point of view. I have been cheated on before, if you love him go to counseling.. give it a shot, because if you don't you will always be looking over your shoulder wondering if you should have tried..
This is my honest opinion on this.

Yeah.. as much as I hate him...

If Some guys held him and Let me KICK HIM THERE A FEW times!! He and I would be even!

2kids You sound like my wonderful Mom!!

make sure you wear this while kicking his ****

,I will so take that as a beautiful compliment, its really easy for other people to tell you what to do~ I love you TeeBee. I would do what's in your heart don't worry about everybody else or what they think.... sometimes people do change sometimes .. it takes up a mistake for them to see what they had, and what They want. I would at least try then you'll know for sure and feel good about your decision either way

Perfect! Can I buy with a VIsa?

Cheating is one of the few given deal breakers for me. Move on, no revenge needed because you are better off. You are beautiful and will find someone who values your worth enough not to step out.

I kept getting views from creepy people...but if you like it, I'll put it back up....

It would probably help if I was in stealth mode...

Thanks dear! I still wouldn't trust him to tell me the time... but at least, I don't feel like doing what FOX suggested.

I still want to kick him though! but now, only just the one time!
That's progress!