I like that pic Mochacream!
You are a cutie!

Remember, Falling in love starts with yourself! My mom always told me that only you can be you, so ROCK IT!

ok, I'm paraphrasing... but you get the point!

Phenomenal Woman



Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.


Maya Angelou

Hi Sweetheart

I hope you find tons of love, in whatever color!

It does seem a little harder these days to find that special person. The world moves at such a fast pace and people so many times have their eyes on the distractions rather than wonderful simplicity of love's overflow.

Personally though I think you should just let that love vibe that you and all of us have spill and watch it return. It doesn't always come back to us according to our list, but it is never far from our heart's eye.

omg! that's one of the family favorites in our home,,, thanx for sharing it here,,,

Oh dear oh dear!!
It all starts with you!!

Love yourself first...it will show on the outside,then,men will follow you!!

Be confident in what you have and who you are! Its NOT about color,its about YOU the person!!

Build your self esteeem! Ugly is only a mind thing-there are soooo many men who have women who one would see as"not that apealing",BUT,someone chose them!

There are men who looove love plus size women! Men who love big butts! Men who love curves!

And btw,dont wink or nudge! Write them something; read a profile,find something interesting about it? Thats your openning topic!!


Finally,
Stay positive! The load on your shoulders does you no good,stop carrying it!

Have fun in the forums too!!

Turn 180� About-face and march right back out that door
and politely close the door behind you and think about
what you did wrong...ok know lets try that again
please. .Take it from the top,one more time with feeling, and put a little stank on it this time
and tell me what you realy think of white guys
I'm glad you are feeling better. .because I feel terrible about myself now.
A lot of obvious flaws that screems run.
Some of that great advice like what bi-chi..or a mean newbie said is the truth and needs to be taken
seriously you can NEVER be good for anyone
unless you are good for/to yourself. Be mindful
of this and self care goes a long ways, try and
do something nice for yourself every day.
when you posted "thanks guys,I'm already
feeling better" well that may have been true
but that's a temporary form of happiness and
Won't last,your ugliness is inside,I can't
stand and wont stand for a woman that's self deprecating, again, its like you have "victim" syndrome

I will not play into your hand, as a white guy and as
to how I deal with nuges.. n such.Honestly,seek help
and this time next year when you are confident
and self loving and are ready for a adult relationship
then I will be more than happy to fully adress any
of your concerns if I can.
"Ya god da be cruel ta be kind.
I sincerely wish you my very best.
Pony

{{Newbiechick}} or you like half your
name. Newb or is it Newd or Benewd or Newbie
or the other one you realy like.. you will
just have to tell me which is the real name and quite being so secretive..

I new I had to say; soooooryyy Neeeewb
so I thought I would just wait for a few
days and re offend then I could get the two for one deal so I notice I'm getting
a little timid, those scare tactics of yours
must be working

I Will be nice on the first day of
Christmas. .isn't that today and you can be my true love
"One the fiiiirst daaay ooof Chriiiistmasss my true love gave to me" an AZZ KICKIN'
You do realize we are going through the 12 days of Christmas, as the days come.

Shoot. Black women love me cause this white boy can shake it like a white on crack.

Can you show us??

I think you will have more luck if you get to where you are messaging men because you like something about that person on the inside. Few want to be valued for the color of their skin. You can't force others to respond on here. it's best to let go of that.

I think if you can see them as "men" not a skin color that would be nice. Many do prefer to date their own race or age or nationality, so don;t let that surprise you.

Sure



There. How is that for proof?

Well Miss Lady who started this post... I for one think you are a very beautiful woman. Most of the men I have encountered on here... are not great catches lol...I would rather have no winks nor kisses nor nudges than all the mindless bantering of hey sex a$$ or hey you wanna F??k.... I mean come on.... I don't care about race and so many others don't either... I think black women in general have really got it going on!!! Some of the most beautiful women in the world are women of color, that is just my own personal opinion. I am using other dating sites as well in conjuction with this one. I get different results with each one.
I have a little advice, though you haven't asked for it.
Be proud of who you are. Love yourself. If you are tired of this or that, shake it up!! You have so much potential to make YOURSELF happy!! get all dressed up and go out with your girls and be a little cocky.... a little sassy attitude gets attention!! I wish you all the best of luck... and love....

And for those downers, who live to call others liars and whiners and so on, I guess it does make you feel good to kick some one when they are down. Sheesh. Be kind to others. It don't cost nothing :) (Yes I am aware it is an oxymoron, moron)