I haven't seen that show....I guess I have a thing for darker haired people, perhaps because I'm a dark-haired person....once or twice I'll see a blonde that isn't bad looking, but usually, I'll pass.

It helps if it's a guy you're dating, because yeah, if a random guy holds the door for me and then smacks my a s s, he'll be in a for a smack of his own...

If it was my own guy, i wouldnt mind :p
Funny so many women come up with honesty. Not the first thing i think of. Maybe i assume ppl will be honest?
important to me is h beong able to be truly loving but also smack my a s s when he holds open doors lol. I wouldnt want a man who's vanilla only

What do women want? That's like asking what food do all men like. There's so many different tastes, preferences, subtle differences in orientation, some women are attracted to one thing one day and then never get a rise out of it again!

That said, I think you've get a pretty good idea of this already from the ever growing list above me.

Is this another one of them nice guy threads?

ok here's the real deal-have you known of a woman that picked a jerk that mistreated her?friends would try to tell what a bad pick he was and she would just say BUT I LOVE HIM-her family would try to tell her she would just say BUT I LOVE HIM-- its the illusive obvious ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE''---some one tried to tell me when i was much younger THE RIGHT PERSON IS THERE AT THE TIME!and the more i worked on my self and the better i became the better people i would attract into my life-- i will tell you this much-that on a emotional level the people men and woman are looking for- they already know---good luck---

Tell the truth? It's a fire-breathing, rich madman, that's hung like a Horse, is what you really want?

Horses scare me, so no.

Yes it is very clear you know nothing about me or my very private dating life. That you have to resort to a slur about my character or the gentlemen I date says a lot more about you.

Have powerful affluent men I have gotten to know on line and been verified by other's actually invited me to date internationally? Yes they have. And yes I have. Always after I have had them come to meet me. Not something they find difficult to do in the capital of one of the largest economies in the world and a paradise like climate but it does not mean I like jet-setting around behind someone when an adequate number of desirable men exist locally.

That does not mean I have had to compromise my values or that I have ever used or abused anyone. I dare say I have had anyone that has complained that they did not enjoy dating me and the sheer number of gentlemen that have dated me over a number of years at activities that included family and business peers suggests that they find it pleasant.

I don't know how you define dating but there are some adults that don't define that as cheap intimacy or requiring life long commitment or dictating that person Morph into anything. Not that the number of dates I have had over my adult life time is any of your business I dare to suggest that I am way more conservative and selective about who I will actually date than most and the number is quite normal for my four+ decade adult life.

I will add if you consistently have people trying to change you or reject you for whatever reasons I would expect it is an issue within yourself than the women who ultimately reject you.

Double posting

Dont sound too bad to me, although the fire breathing would concern me. I dont like fire

You don't look Blonde.

If you look closely at his photos, he's a bit blonde.

'tis dirty. I always go a bit darker in the winter. It's more obvious in the summer.

Great replies from all of you. It has shown a vast spectrum of variation from what each and everyone wants.
And in my humble opinion. You will never please everyone you meet.
And to judge people by your own standards is unfair Pasificstar48.

If you are happy to date so many people and travel or stay in your own area thats fine but to say the issues are within is very unfair as you also dont know who I am to judge me like that.

Each to their own.

As for what I have read though... honesty has come up a lot.
And in my experiences I have always been honest and open but the last 2 relationships I have been in they have decided to not want what they wanted in the first place.

My last relationship lasted 14 years and before that my previous partner I was with for 6 years.
So forgive me if I am asking obvious questions but I have never felt like I am out adrift in an ocean before.

I've learned how to always put me first to maintain happiness in any relationship.As long as the man can provide my basic requirements of him & I likewise.If so,and after a clear discussion of limits to which either of us can go towards disagreeing with the other,I dive in without unrealistic expectation.because of this,I will bear his rotten attitude,style or opinions.(not all are like this though) Somehow,it makes men mellow gradually to a pleasant level.

I just want some one honest and faithful too much to ask?

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