well bananas don;t peel themselves so quit tryna look so innocent

If you haven't learned to peel your own banana.....you ARE an innocent.

I was just talking about that very thing in an email just now, talk about a coincidence....

yep, I am unhappy but not sure how to fix it.

This is your mission: Fix it.

Why are you unhappy?

.. what kinds of things do you think and/or say to yourself that contributes to your unhappiness?

Life is good!
I have my own place, my own car, bills are paid.
My kids are happy...what more could I want?

Unhappy...eh? Ya know....I sometimes am. Life in general can make anyone unhapppy. Now...its everything mixed that can do that. Does having money lead to happiness..it helps. How bout love. Now that is another topic altogether. Love can make you happy. I was.. key word was. Then, fear of losing it created paranoid ideas causing me to spout out some of the worst things ever to say. Poof! Bye bye...happiness.

You can never really "lose love" if the love is coming from you. You can decide to withhold your love for someone and they can decide to do the same to you, but no one can stop you from loving them.

So try to focus on loving and don't worry about being loved. Worry is praying for what you don't want. Fear is visualizing the worst. Visualizing is how you create your reality.

~ advice from Jeanniebeans peanut gallery

It's nothing I can discuss here as it's quite personal. I am trying my best to get myself out of this but right now hitting a brick wall but I guess things could be worse.

(((Navygirl)))

Thanks.

iam unhappy bcoz of some bad things happening in my life... wanna change everything.. but nothing gonna change... tired of life...

I wish you sudden good fortune!

Speak kindly of yourself. Some things are easier to get into than out of.

Tarot advice:

If you were caught unprepared it is time to gather your thoughts and answer the call to action. The empress advises you to get in touch with your surroundings and the world of sights and sounds and turn your talent for nurturing towards yourself.

Thanks Jeannie for the Tarot advice as it seems to fit for my situation.

Only a billion times. Came up with a billion different answers, none of them valid.



Yes. And yes. I blame nobody but myself for where I'm at. I made my bed, now I lie in it, but at least I'm not lying permanently in a bed of dirt yet. I get a chance to get up from the bed I made each day and do something to better my situation. Even if it's slow going, I'm still going. I'm happy about that!



Sometimes. Usually it's because my body can't accomplish what my head and heart want it to do. I cannot reveal the conversation as profanity is highly frowned upon in a venue such as this. Suffice it to say I am my own worst critic and there would be astericks galore! I try to combat that kind of thinking though. Unfortunately my brain is a worthy opponent. And the match resumes.

Change your negative self talk and attitude and you can change your situation.

A personal story:

I remember one morning I woke up from a nightmare of unknown origin and I did not remember what the dream had been about. But I did retain one message from my unconscious. It screamed: "You have to get a divorce!"

The urgency of the feeling was astounding, as if my life depended on me doing that. But I did have plenty of time... I took the advice because I trusted my inner voice. I got a divorce a year later. It was the right thing to do. I've been happy ever since.