Topic: Woman,sacrifice your dreams for your marriage to succeed
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Sat 11/02/13 10:20 AM

I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


True. And the sad thing is, so many of us buy into that bs.

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Sat 11/02/13 10:33 AM
Edited by Conrad_73 on Sat 11/02/13 10:34 AM

Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?

You mean,should she create a Nightmare for herself instead?

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Sat 11/02/13 11:26 AM


Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?

You mean,should she create a Nightmare for herself instead?
It might mean "nightmare" to some but it could also mean submission,love,understanding.maturity,humility and a determination never to join the army of divorcees and single mothers

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Sat 11/02/13 11:39 AM



Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?

You mean,should she create a Nightmare for herself instead?
It might mean "nightmare" to some but it could also mean submission,love,understanding.maturity,humility and a determination never to join the army of divorcees and single mothers

My,ain't you a cheerful Fellow!laugh

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Sat 11/02/13 11:37 PM

I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?

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Sat 11/02/13 11:41 PM


I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?


Um, no, because I'd be like move over dammit and let me play, too!

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Sat 11/02/13 11:48 PM



I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?


Um, no, because I'd be like move over dammit and let me play, too!


i'm just saying,women that complain about things that guys do,need to take a good long look in the mirror

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Sat 11/02/13 11:49 PM
Yeah probably.

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Sun 11/03/13 02:49 AM



Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?

You mean,should she create a Nightmare for herself instead?
It might mean "nightmare" to some but it could also mean submission,love,understanding.maturity,humility and a determination never to join the army of divorcees and single mothers

so,you would create that Nightmare for her?

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Sun 11/03/13 04:13 AM


I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?


laugh laugh

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Sun 11/03/13 11:12 AM


I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?


You are absolutely right. It happens more often than the other way around, -- but usually after the man has already won his conquest. (Like after they are married or after he has gotten what he wants.)

Its a two way street. There is always one partner who wants to be the center of the other one's life and gets jealous of the other one having a life or friends that distract from that.

It is not just men, or just women.






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Sun 11/03/13 11:15 AM



I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?


You are absolutely right. It happens more often than the other way around, -- but usually after the man has already won his conquest. (Like after they are married or after he has gotten what he wants.)

Its a two way street. There is always one partner who wants to be the center of the other one's life and gets jealous of the other one having a life or friends that distract from that.

It is not just men, or just women.








True. And like my mom says, one person always loves the other too much, so they end up giving in and sacrificing most of the time.

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Sun 11/03/13 11:46 AM

Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?



If so she married the wrong guy. noway

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Thu 11/07/13 04:26 AM

Yeah probably.

uche9aa's photo
Thu 11/07/13 04:28 AM

Yeah probably.
Yea if there is need

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Thu 11/07/13 04:45 AM


I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."


oh,like women don't constantly tell guys "put down the controller and spend some time with me!"


that crap never happens huh?

What the heck has that got to do with a dream? Or you trying to tell us it's a man's dream to hold a controller? You're not comparing apples and pears but apples and wood, doesn't make any sense.

Apart from that, if a guy is more interested in gaming, watching tv and so on, has no desire to spend time with his woman, or is too lazy to help out with chores, then what is he doing in a relationship?
Get real, cos you're bitter, doesn't mean to say you got the right end of the stick.

Maybe if ppl stopped this kind of tit for tat BS and started communicating like adults, we'd get somewhere as a species.
Hardly ever see men here saying "D@rn, good point! Never thought of it that way!"
Never back down, instead get on a high horse because they feel attacked and start lashing out. And yet you hope to find your dream girl? Good luck with that

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Thu 11/07/13 05:11 AM

Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?


Depends on the dream. I think depending on the dream compromise might be the best answer. For example you are just starting out in life and the woman wants to have a ton of kids and travel the world full time with you and the kids. Not tomorrow or in 3-5 years but now. There needs to be a sane plan to achieve your goals. Also if you are having kids their health, safety and well being should be taken into account.

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Thu 11/07/13 05:44 AM
Ok, you guys stumped me again. We're talking about love right? Relationship right?

I won't even get long winded on this one.

It can't be about competing if it's about completing.

Competing is one "L" short of happiness.

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Fri 11/08/13 02:00 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Fri 11/08/13 02:05 PM




Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?


No!
Well,unless you both want to live a VERY unhappy life! I mean,she'll resent you for as long as marriage lasts!!


HEY. .I ..all..ready...said..that 1

trying to be nice here

you should maybe try to get up earlier..4 originality. .Ja think?:laughing:
:wink:
"
Mother will they try to break ...ma Ball
Mother will they try, to tear your little boy apart
Mother will they put me in the fiiiirin' line
owwwwww.a or is it just a waste of time"
Mother did it need to be so high


Smarty azz!!

I hadn't realised though... Ma bad!

Heeeeeeyyyyyy,am up early-before you even start snoring!!


"Smart azz" heyyyy! I resemble that remark
I know I'm so far behind I though I was in first place.
Hows our favorite from the east doing?
Not the far east not the middle east exclude
eastern Canada and Europe but that little town
your in..lol...Ok Our fav from your continent.
Hey that's not bad ..its like 7 thousand miles long.
its like my Nan always would say hows my favorite
grandson. I would just light up with big eyes and
smile,then one day I was all bummed out when I clued in and said "but I'm your only grandson"
Thinking she was missleading me, she said "
but your still my favorite grandson..lol
How we can get caught up on words
yeah..thought I had something on my sister..Besides
been a better kisser:wink:



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Sat 11/09/13 08:17 AM
The responses here show why there are so many divorces and single ladies