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Topic: Woman,sacrifice your dreams for your marriage to succeed
Conrad_73's photo
Sat 11/09/13 09:04 AM
It stands to reason that where there’s sacrifice, there’s someone collecting sacrificial offerings. Where there’s service, there’s someone being served. The man who speaks to you of sacrifice, speaks of slaves and masters. And intends to be the master.

For the New Intellectual

“The Soul of a Collectivist,”
For the New Intellectual, 73

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Sat 11/09/13 09:11 AM
Four pretty good quotes on the subject...

"If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married."laugh laugh
~Katharine Hepburn

"Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it.":thumbsup:
~Sai Baba

"When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship."ohwell
~Joseph Campbell

"It only stands to reason that where there's sacrifice, there's someone collecting the sacrificial offerings. Where there's service, there is someone being served. The man who speaks to you of sacrifice is speaking of slaves and masters, and intends to be the master."think
~Ayn Rand

uche9aa's photo
Sun 11/10/13 05:56 AM

I have found that most men (probably not all but a lot) don't want his woman to "follow her dream" unless her dream involves him.

He wants to be the center of attention. He wants to be "her dream."
Its men's world,remember

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Sun 11/10/13 06:05 AM
Theres only been one man I would have gone to such lengths for. There will never be another. Id never let a man get in the way of what I want. If a guy cant be supportive and understand that then hes wasting my time and his. In that case... dont let the door hit you on the way out!

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Sun 11/10/13 06:07 AM


Yes.

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Sun 11/10/13 06:12 AM




Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?


No, she shouldn't. If the man she wants to marry is a decent sort of man; he would support her with her dreams, not take them away. JMO


Agree; And for the men who do take away dreams such a price they pay squashing the life out of their partner when they could be so happy in the shared dreams/success.

I keep expecting some dynamic guy to jump up and hitch with your Star Navy Girl. You still impress the heck out of me.


This is so true. I think this when resentment kicks in when someone crushes you dream as the "what if" starts to come about. I would equally support a man with his dreams as well as it is a two way street. I think as far as any guy hitching up with me; that ship has long sailed but thanks just the same for the kind words. flowerforyou
agree...and girl,never say never.

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Tue 11/12/13 12:28 AM





Should a woman sacrifice her dreams for her marriage to succeed?


No, she shouldn't. If the man she wants to marry is a decent sort of man; he would support her with her dreams, not take them away. JMO


Agree; And for the men who do take away dreams such a price they pay squashing the life out of their partner when they could be so happy in the shared dreams/success.

I keep expecting some dynamic guy to jump up and hitch with your Star Navy Girl. You still impress the heck out of me.


This is so true. I think this when resentment kicks in when someone crushes you dream as the "what if" starts to come about. I would equally support a man with his dreams as well as it is a two way street. I think as far as any guy hitching up with me; that ship has long sailed but thanks just the same for the kind words. flowerforyou
agree...and girl,never say never.

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