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I've never understood the "make me a sandwich" thing with guys, is it so hard to make your own sandwich or do you actually think that means your gf/wife cares about you because she did it? The latter. I'm not saying that all women are the same but from my personal experience women can actually be offended if you say to them that it's alright and that you can make your own sandwich. Let's put it this way. If I invite a girlfriend round and she says that she wants to make me a sandwich, or do my washing, or tidy up a bit and I say no and that I didn't invite her round for that, what's she going to think that I did just invite her round for? I'm quite capable of making my own sandwiches but a lot of women say that they like to make themselves useful. If a guy wants to do things for a girlfriend to make himself useful and save her the hassle of doing it herself isn't it the same thing really? I'll do anything that involves heavy lifting quite happily for example. Not saying that a woman can't do it but I don't think that I would be much of a gentleman if I didn't at least offer to do it for her. I guess I'm weird, I'd never offer to make a guy a sandwich. Or clean up his house. I figure he can do that stuff himself if he wants it done. Well, exactly. A woman comes round to my place and because I'm a guy and I find houshold chores tedious the place is a bit untidy in comparison to your average woman's house. Then she starts telling me that I should be capable of doing that stuff myself, as if it's like climbing a mountain or something, or as if I'm some sort of retard. Honestly, I'm fed up to the back teeth with women starting that argument with me and I would rather have a girlfriend that just says, "I like to keep myself busy and I'm just going to do your washing, okay?" Sorry but a true girlfriend won't nag me about that crap if it's such a big deal to her. |
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I like to keep myself busy by reading, watching tv, painting, wasting time on mingle 2, spending too much money, and listening to music...not cleaning a guy's house and preparing his snacks.
But like I said, I'm weird.... |
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I like to keep myself busy by reading, watching tv, painting, wasting time on mingle 2, spending too much money, and listening to music...not cleaning a guy's house and preparing his snacks. But like I said, I'm weird.... She doesn't know how to prepare a decent kitten sandwich anyway. |
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I like to keep myself busy by reading, watching tv, painting, wasting time on mingle 2, spending too much money, and listening to music...not cleaning a guy's house and preparing his snacks. But like I said, I'm weird.... Sounds like you don't have a boyfriend and you are sitting in your house alone on a Friday night. Yeah, I like listening to music and doing other fun things as well, whether I'm with a girlfriend or not and like I told you, I don't particularly enjoy doing tedious houshold chores, or arguing about that crap. Last time I had a girlfriend round here she came round to cook me a meal. I didn't ask her to and it was her idea. Didn't ask her to do any washing either but she did because she apparently wanted to. I apreciated it and it was really nice of her not to start an argument about it or tell me that I'm a lazy slob because I've got better things to do with my time than housework and wasn't even expecting female company that day. |
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I make my own sandwiches, because no one else can make a proper liverwurst and onion sandwich like a can. I can respect that; liverwurst and onions is serious bizzness. Good to see someone who understands the importance of it. |
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I like to keep myself busy by reading, watching tv, painting, wasting time on mingle 2, spending too much money, and listening to music...not cleaning a guy's house and preparing his snacks. But like I said, I'm weird.... Sounds like you don't have a boyfriend and you are sitting in your house alone on a Friday night. Yeah, I like listening to music and doing other fun things as well, whether I'm with a girlfriend or not and like I told you, I don't particularly enjoy doing tedious houshold chores, or arguing about that crap. Last time I had a girlfriend round here she came round to cook me a meal. I didn't ask her to and it was her idea. Didn't ask her to do any washing either but she did because she apparently wanted to. I apreciated it and it was really nice of her not to start an argument about it or tell me that I'm a lazy slob because I've got better things to do with my time than housework and wasn't even expecting female company that day. Sounds like you don't have a boyfriend and you are sitting in your house alone on a Friday night. Is that supposed to be an insult or an observation?  For your information, no, I don't have a boyfriend. And no, I don't sit alone in my house on Friday nights. Not that any of that is your business, but I figured I'd clarify since you brought it up.  If you read my profile- please do, since you seem confused and very interested in my sex life or rather lack thereof- you will see that I am not looking for a boyfriend. Not to be arrogant, but if I wanted a boyfriend, I'd have one by now. I don't have time for any of that, and I'm not interested in any of that. I am here for friends and the forums, that is all, so if you were trying to insinuate that I am unhappily single and desperate for a man, yet so much of a b1tch that I can't get one, sorry to disappoint you, but you're dead wrong. I'M NOT INTERESTED IN THAT. I don't care if other women fix their boyfriend snacks or dinner, I don't care if other women clean their boyfriend's houses, I said, I don't do that. I don't want to do that. When I had a boyfriend, I didn't do any of that, and it wasn't a problem for anyone, because I don't date sexist men who are still stuck in the 1950s and think women were created to cook and clean and **** and breed. If you want to insult me, try calling me ignorant or unworldly or uncreative- anything like that will hurt much worse than trying to make fun of me for not dating anyone, as if that's a bad thing, that's MY choice, not anyone else's, but thanks for being so concerned.  |
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A true girlfriend will love him unconditionally, even make his sandwiches show him love and respect to get love and respect. We all know guys aren't as tidy as us so we will pitch in with out nagging. We or at least I will watch football in hopes he will sit back and watch my favorite show. Have to give to receive . And I don't expect him to always pay my way when were out. Just not right
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We all know guys aren't as tidy as us ... Oh, yeah? Haven't you ever heard of the Tidy Bowl Man? |
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We all know guys aren't as tidy as us ... Oh, yeah? Haven't you ever heard of the Tidy Bowl Man? |
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I make my own sandwiches, because no one else can make a proper liverwurst and onion sandwich like a can. I swear thats what I'm taking for lunch to work tonight. |
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I look at it like this. If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? I'm more than happy to oblige. It's not like he's asking me to do hard physical labor, or use excessive brain power, although I'm more than capable of doing both.
When you ask women what they want from men, you get things like emotional understanding, financial support, physical strength and intellectual stimulation, and the list goes on and on. Ask men what they want from women and it's a cold beer, sex, and a sammich after. I don't understand what all the fuss is about. I mean, how much easier can they make it for us. All I gotta do to keep my man happy is put out, feed him, and be nice. It's not rocket science! I hope the hell the demands from men stay this simple. If they start asking for all the crap we ask for, I might as well switch sides and start dating women! Sorry! I know this was supposed to be what a man wants from a woman but thought I'd throw in my take on the situation since some other woman seem to think these demands unreasonable. I'm happy to provide these few things to keep my man happy, 'cause if he's happy, I'm getting laid and I'm happy. What could be better than that?!?! |
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I look at it like this. If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? I'm more than happy to oblige. It's not like he's asking me to do hard physical labor, or use excessive brain power, although I'm more than capable of doing both. When you ask women what they want from men, you get things like emotional understanding, financial support, physical strength and intellectual stimulation, and the list goes on and on. Ask men what they want from women and it's a cold beer, sex, and a sammich after. I don't understand what all the fuss is about. I mean, how much easier can they make it for us. All I gotta do to keep my man happy is put out, feed him, and be nice. It's not rocket science! I hope the hell the demands from men stay this simple. If they start asking for all the crap we ask for, I might as well switch sides and start dating women! Sorry! I know this was supposed to be what a man wants from a woman but thought I'd throw in my take on the situation since some other woman seem to think these demands unreasonable. I'm happy to provide these few things to keep my man happy, 'cause if he's happy, I'm getting laid and I'm happy. What could be better than that?!?! I love her! She gets it!  how attractive is that,and who in their right mind couldn't love,be loyal and respect her as a gf. (person) If that makes me simple, then I'm simple. You have a bf...its a good thing for him that ponys not a jealous guy.  
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Edited by
Dodo_David
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Fri 10/25/13 07:53 PM
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If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? Well, not all men have the mentality of a caveman.  "Hey, I resent that remark!" Sorry. Correction: Not all men have the mentality of an ancient caveman. |
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If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? Well, not all men have the mentality of a caveman. "Hey, I resent that remark!" Sorry. Correction: Not all men have the mentality of an ancient caveman. I knew SOMEBODY would take offense. I am not saying ALL men are simple. I'm saying most men have simple needs. And meeting simple needs is...well...simply simple.  Sorry if I offended you Oh Complex One! 
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If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? Well, not all men have the mentality of a caveman. "Hey, I resent that remark!" Sorry. Correction: Not all men have the mentality of an ancient caveman. I knew SOMEBODY would take offense. I am not saying ALL men are simple. I'm saying most men have simple needs. And meeting simple needs is...well...simply simple. Sorry if I offended you Oh Complex One! You didn't offend me. I just pointed out that not all men are as simple-minded as a cave... ....err... ... as an ancient caveman. |
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If all my man needs me to do to make him happy is fix him a sandwich after sex, or fetch him a beer and deliver it to him topless, what's wrong with that? Well, not all men have the mentality of a caveman. "Hey, I resent that remark!" Sorry. Correction: Not all men have the mentality of an ancient caveman. I knew SOMEBODY would take offense. I am not saying ALL men are simple. I'm saying most men have simple needs. And meeting simple needs is...well...simply simple. Sorry if I offended you Oh Complex One! You didn't offend me. I just pointed out that not all men are as simple-minded as a cave... ....err... ... as an ancient caveman. So one has to be simple minded to have simple needs???  I disagree with that. I think ya gotta be fairly sharp to subscribe to the "keep it simple stupid" philosophy when it comes to what you want or need. Maybe I'm just too simple minded to know better? Silly me!  I'm not subservient either. He doesn't drag me by my hair to the cooking area of the cave and scream "Make me sammich woman!" or "Get me beer biotch". THAT would be cave...errr...ANCIENT cavemanish. I'd club him if he did that! I'll keep my simple minded man, 'cause pleasing him is pretty dang easy. He's above average intelligence, smoking hot body, and a really decent genuinely great guy. He doesn't ask for much to be happy. Plus if he's happy, he tries a whole lot harder to make me happy, so it's a win-win situation.  |
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I like to keep myself busy by reading, watching tv, painting, wasting time on mingle 2, spending too much money, and listening to music...not cleaning a guy's house and preparing his snacks. But like I said, I'm weird.... Sounds like you don't have a boyfriend and you are sitting in your house alone on a Friday night. Yeah, I like listening to music and doing other fun things as well, whether I'm with a girlfriend or not and like I told you, I don't particularly enjoy doing tedious houshold chores, or arguing about that crap. Last time I had a girlfriend round here she came round to cook me a meal. I didn't ask her to and it was her idea. Didn't ask her to do any washing either but she did because she apparently wanted to. I apreciated it and it was really nice of her not to start an argument about it or tell me that I'm a lazy slob because I've got better things to do with my time than housework and wasn't even expecting female company that day. Sounds like you don't have a boyfriend and you are sitting in your house alone on a Friday night. Is that supposed to be an insult or an observation? For your information, no, I don't have a boyfriend. And no, I don't sit alone in my house on Friday nights. Not that any of that is your business, but I figured I'd clarify since you brought it up. If you read my profile- please do, since you seem confused and very interested in my sex life or rather lack thereof- you will see that I am not looking for a boyfriend. Not to be arrogant, but if I wanted a boyfriend, I'd have one by now. I don't have time for any of that, and I'm not interested in any of that. I am here for friends and the forums, that is all, so if you were trying to insinuate that I am unhappily single and desperate for a man, yet so much of a b1tch that I can't get one, sorry to disappoint you, but you're dead wrong. I'M NOT INTERESTED IN THAT. I don't care if other women fix their boyfriend snacks or dinner, I don't care if other women clean their boyfriend's houses, I said, I don't do that. I don't want to do that. When I had a boyfriend, I didn't do any of that, and it wasn't a problem for anyone, because I don't date sexist men who are still stuck in the 1950s and think women were created to cook and clean and **** and breed. If you want to insult me, try calling me ignorant or unworldly or uncreative- anything like that will hurt much worse than trying to make fun of me for not dating anyone, as if that's a bad thing, that's MY choice, not anyone else's, but thanks for being so concerned. Sounds like you don't like men very much. Well, I really like women and I do want to have a girlfriend. Go back and read what I actually posted, instead of reading what you like into it. I said that I don't demand these things from a woman but that I think that it's nice if they want to do them for me and I don't want to have a f**king argument about it. |
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