Why is it that all these woman on these dating sites claim they are hurt and want a good guy. Then after meeting and having a great date a few days go by and the girl goes back to the ex-boyfriend, yea the same one that hurt them. I am not your councilor or your spring board, I am here for the reasons stated in my profile and by the way I am the same person in my pics too. How can a person 45 to 50 years old not know what they want and/or have the maturity to follow through. If you can't be real , you need a new hobby and dating isn't it.

“people in general … are ungrateful, voluble, dissemblers, anxious to avoid danger, and covetous of gain; as long as you benefit them, they are entirely yours,” but their “love is held by a chain of obligation which, people being selfish, is broken whenever it serves their purpose.” (Prince, xvii, p. 61) “[they] will all think of their own interests …. for people will always be false … unless they are compelled by necessity to be true.” (Prince, xxiii, p. 89)

Basically women have a hard time walking away from someone they put effort into fixing and if he shows any sign false or other wise of being willing to change she will go back. It is only when she realizes he will never change that she can truly move on. Howver at that point she is some what conditioned to find and be attracted to jerks and without an epiphany she can not accept the nice guy she knows she should be attracted to because she is not attracted to nice.

It surprises me how many men say they are ready for dating but yet to find out they are still hung up on the ex...And have no clue what they want even at my age.. On top of that once you meet them you don't want a second date due to all the issues they seem to have...

Tables are no better for the other sex either... it just takes time to find that one you actually connect with. Until then move on for complaining how the other sex is will never get you anywhere..Just means your dating the wrong women be glad you see it early and before the second date....

At this time of the year most women are just looking for some guy to treat them to a nice holiday season. Come January they move on to someone new or go back to an ex.

Well,
I guess it meant-the click wasn't that strong for her to not backtrack!?! Jmo

Even if this was to be true, what does that say about the guy who treats the woman? Or the ex that takes her back? Guess he didn't want to buy someone a xmas pressie? Lol

Like Txsgal says, we can all have less pleasant experiences. But it probs indeed means you simply haven't dated/met the right (type of) person yet.

Your finding the wroug weman for sure.

When I read the title of this thread, I thought that the topic was ...



You humans have been a bad influence on me.

How long are you talking to these women before you agree to go out with them? I've talked to a lot of guys who eventually admit they're still hung up on the ex, that's the time to stop talking to them. Most of the time, if you take a while to get to know someone, they reveal their hangups, but if you meet up right away a lot of their quirks remain hidden.

David for us men the topic is always boobs.

I want that bra.

It is my understanding that, in order to get such an expensive bra, a woman has to have a treasure chest. At least that is what I have been told.

I guess I'm out of luck, my treasure chest is lacking....

Then here is a treasure map for you.

Hi ho, hi ho, off to find my treasure chest I go.....