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Topic: WOULD YOU ?????
popcornncoke Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 2088	Sun 10/13/13 09:17 PM
You are dated this wonderful person, who you are falling for each day and you are thinking about the future. Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage or Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait?? Also you are in love with a person that tells you that they can't have sex because of a bad heart or other serious health problems, Would you stay or dump them??? COME ON PEOPLE, LET'S BE HONEST. LUST OR LOVE !!!!!!!

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 10/13/13 09:19 PM
I would stay...definitely.. Love

GLG2009 Joined Wed 01/07/09 Posts: 7238	Sun 10/13/13 09:32 PM
You are dated this wonderful person, who you are falling for each day and you are thinking about the future. Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage or Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait?? Also you are in love with a person that tells you that they can't have sex because of a bad heart or other serious health problems, Would you stay or dump them??? COME ON PEOPLE, LET'S BE HONEST. LUST OR LOVE !!!!!!! Hi popcornncoke, ok, Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage? YES, if just to cuddle. Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait? NO, life is too short. Can't have sex, Would you stay or dump them? Stay, Sex is a good extra. So I guess. LOVE for me.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sun 10/13/13 09:49 PM
The first scenario I what bed them. Then if I stayed with someone and couldn't have sex I would be unfulfilled,saying yes to them would be saying no to me so I would feel shame for making myself unhappy. so it's impossible for me to feel complete, and being monogamous. would never put myself there like that, you jump when the jumping good!

sweetcalli Joined Fri 02/22/13 Posts: 461	Tue 10/15/13 12:47 PM Edited by sweetcalli on Tue 10/15/13 12:48 PM
You are dated this wonderful person, who you are falling for each day and you are thinking about the future. Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage or Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait?? Also you are in love with a person that tells you that they can't have sex because of a bad heart or other serious health problems, Would you stay or dump them??? COME ON PEOPLE, LET'S BE HONEST. LUST OR LOVE !!!!!!! Don't know if I could wait for marriage but would certainly try! Bad heart? I'm staying and giving him mine!

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Tue 10/15/13 01:26 PM
Yes, I would sleep with a guy before he proposed to me. I normally feel lust for a guy before love. I don't dance around the bush excuse the pun.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 10/15/13 01:35 PM
You are dated this wonderful person, who you are falling for each day and you are thinking about the future. Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage or Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait?? Also you are in love with a person that tells you that they can't have sex because of a bad heart or other serious health problems, Would you stay or dump them??? COME ON PEOPLE, LET'S BE HONEST. LUST OR LOVE !!!!!!! Well since I do not want to remarry I would have sex if we loved each other. As far as the last question if this health problem occurred after we were a couple and deeply involved I would not dump him. But that being said I would not start a relationship with someone with these Health problems because it would be very difficult to be with them and not have sex with them.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Tue 10/15/13 02:59 PM
Dumping has a rather negative ring to it, as if you'd do it without hesitation or doubt. I think it's slightly more complex. I wouldn't start a relationship with someone like that. If we were a couple I wouldn't 'dump' him, but also not sure whether the relationship would last. Some say sex/love making is overrated, I disagree. Try being in a relationship that don't work out in the sack when one have a healthy sex-drive.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21824	Tue 10/15/13 04:01 PM
Lust all the way baby.

uk1971 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 22015	Thu 10/17/13 01:06 PM
Lust all the way. I'm at an age now when love is a distant memory. Now I'm just a horny old man. LMAO

Maria195 Joined Fri 10/04/13 Posts: 7361	Thu 10/17/13 01:19 PM
uk1971 You are one funny person lol...Hello everybody!!!

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 10/17/13 02:29 PM
The first question doesn't apply cause we probably would have been doing that for a while by the time the thought of marriage came along. As for the second.....Having physical affection is kinda important to me. I think I would feel kinda let down because we couldn't ever fully give ourselves to each other.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Thu 10/17/13 02:33 PM
I don't believe in saving sex for marriage, because I don't view it as "sacred" or whatever, but to each his/her own.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Thu 10/17/13 11:15 PM
If I am with my love and we had sex b4 and an accident occurred preventing future sex, I would stay. If I met them and they were already incapable of performing in that area I would not stick around long enough to fall in love. Just being honest. I don't know after a divorce from 13 years of marriage that I will ever marry again, I will have sex again.....so not holding out now, what's the point I got 3 kids, tubes are tied.....I do believe in monogamy though.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 10/17/13 11:39 PM Edited by jacktrades on Thu 10/17/13 11:40 PM
First question yes sex before marriage. Second question if I was in true love with someone and they could not have sex no more, no I could not just leave them, it would make me a liar when I told them I love you. I feel that leaving them when they need you the most would be cruel.However down the road i could see discrete sexual arrangements.

Mirandolecutie Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 1	Fri 10/18/13 08:32 AM
Don't know if I could wait for marriage but would certainly try! Bad heart? I'm staying and giving him mine! wow, this line is so sweet I just had to quote it

SDSCFof2 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 21324	Fri 10/18/13 10:45 AM
You are dated this wonderful person, who you are falling for each day and you are thinking about the future. Would you want to take them to bed, before you ask or say yes to marriage or Would you be Old Fashioned and Wait?? Also you are in love with a person that tells you that they can't have sex because of a bad heart or other serious health problems, Would you stay or dump them??? COME ON PEOPLE, LET'S BE HONEST. LUST OR LOVE !!!!!!! id take them before id stay

popcornncoke Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 2088	Fri 10/18/13 08:34 PM
Lust all the way. I'm at an age now when love is a distant memory. Now I'm just a horny old man. LMAO LOL. At least you are honest.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 10/19/13 09:08 AM
It's hypothetical but no, I wouldn't even be dating the sort of woman that wanted me to put a ring on her finger before she would have sex with me. As far as I'm concerned, if there's no sex it's just a friendship. Doesn't mean that I wouldn't still love them but you can't cheat on someone that's just a friend.