I really believe that I would move any where for the right person and I have done that twice already. I have no regrets and I have met some great people along the way. I will always move forward in a positive way, and that includes moving across town to another city or even state just to have a chance to be happy. How important is being happy to you?

Very good Topic.
Personally I have never made that decision before. Under the right circumstances between 2 good-hearted and well-meaning people,yes I would say a move like that is very reasonable. You truly never know what good will happen in life just bring your faith with you.

I would and totally did. Exchanged coasts for a little while and had an amazing life experience I wouldn't change for the world. The only thing I'm lacking is regrets. I don't have those regrets of never trying or worrying about coulda shoulda woulda.

I would have to say that I would take into consideration which of the couple has the most to lose if they moved to be together. For instance, if a man stood to lose his job because of the move, I believe the woman should consider moving to him if she does not currently hold a job and vice versa. I do not work, however, I do have quite a few close family members in the area where I live. So if the man I would be involved with does not have family or job to hold him back, I would hope he would be willing to move to my location. I believe it's a give and take situation and should be considered carefully, but in the end, the choice is with each individual couple. Their love for each other should be able to conquer the problem whatever the case.

No way.

I have a great job but I would consider moving.

No, I wouldn't move at all. Nothing in life is guaranteed and if you give up everything then the relationship doesn't work; you will have nothing.

Would you consider moving in with me?

Not a chance in hell.

I can't move

Exactly.

Its like once you start moving the moving doesn't stop. One can take their present friends, family and co-workers for granted for that all inclusive one. If it doesn't work out then where are you?

Stuck in an effed up situation more than likely. I know a girl who moved across the country, gave up her friends, family and all of her worldly possessions, dropped out of school, gave up her job, all of this for a guy. Now the guy calls her b!tches, got caught chatting it up with one of his exes in secret, and made her get on welfare because he won't feed her.

Um, yeah, no freaking way....

"How far would I move for love"
Somewhere between 8" & 9" vigorously
and thousands of times.

Ride~

I didn't give up on my friends and family when I moved. The only thing that changed was how far away we were from each other. They all wanted to see me happy and supported my decision whether it worked out or not. Cause thats what people who actually love you do.

That just doesn't make sense to me. People move out of state, cross country, or to foreign countries for work, and they don't give up their friends and family. If you're doing this for love and giving all these things up, then you have no one to blame but yourself. And someone telling you to give up these things should be a clue that this isn't a good relationship to be in.

I'd negotiate something

I agree. However, If she had moved for work and it didn't work out, I'd feel sorry for her. To relocate and give up everything for another human being doesn't make sense to me. But to each his/her own.

But if she asks me to help with dinner or take out
the garbage....then we do battle!