I sure hope u are ready for all the sorted answers you are about to receive Sidcoolman1989. I am guessing the answers/opinions will vary between religious views especially and moral stands from many aspects.

Have the husband and wife established an open relationship? If so, most would probably say that it is still wrong to seek sexual satisfaction outside the marriage. In reality people do it all the time for many reasons. Maybe one of the spouses is physically or mentally ill. Regardless what reasons exist, an extramarital affair can eventually carry some heavy burdens. Haven't you ever seen the movie "Fatal Attraction?".

no I haven't seen the movie,,,,,,, but I guess I have to watch the movie

human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs

human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs

As for your first question: depends on how the situation came to be, your own norms and values, your culture, religion and so on.
Basically no one can answer that question for someone else. I don't think there's a straightforward answer anyway.



Kind of depends on your personal growth, psyche etc. If you allow emotions to rule your life, you might be in for quite a roller-coaster ride.
We don't have to deny or suppress our feelings, but feelings are not the same as emotions.
Emotions are very strong, overwhelm you, can sweep you of your feet (think anger, always a good example). Emotions tend to get you out of your personal centre, disconnect you from your inner strength, wisdom and knowledge. They basically take over your brain.
Feelings on the other hand do the direct opposite. They enhance the connection with your centre, your inner knowing and strength.

If your interested, Google it in your own language. Difficult subject material.

You also may want to look at Maslow's Hierarchy (psychology). The pyramid has tiers. You cannot go to the next tier up unless the needs from the one underneath it are being met.
So the bottom tier is about basic things everyone needs to survive. Once those needs are met, you are open for the needs in the next tier. Once you've achieved those, the third tier will become important and so on.
Once you've gotten to a tier, let's say the 4th one, it is possible suddenly find yourself back in the first. For instance if you lose a loved one, get divorced, have a serious accident etc. These things may affect you in such a way that you (temporarily) find yourself in that first tier again.
After all life's dynamic :)



So if you're obsessed with money, sex or whatever, it might be time to do some soul-searching.

so is it wrong that if a man or woman is not sexually satisfied with his wife/husband and he/she goes outside and looks for some1 who can satisfy their needs

you picked that other person..did you not.??????pick to soon..????..you have a part...you do not see your part then you can not fix it.......most all relationships go through a phase where we are not always happy...when the romance and lust phase lets up and we start to see the other person a normal person..........cheating is a little boys game,as you grow older maybe you will realize this.................