this is a question, that suddenly came in my mind.
we all know that
love is not the only thing which men/women need..
besides love he/she also has some physical needs.. u know that is the nature

so is it wrong that if a man or woman is not sexually satisfied with his wife/husband and he/she goes outside and looks for some1 who can satisfy their needs

I sure hope u are ready for all the sorted answers you are about to receive Sidcoolman1989. I am guessing the answers/opinions will vary between religious views especially and moral stands from many aspects.

Have the husband and wife established an open relationship? If so, most would probably say that it is still wrong to seek sexual satisfaction outside the marriage. In reality people do it all the time for many reasons. Maybe one of the spouses is physically or mentally ill. Regardless what reasons exist, an extramarital affair can eventually carry some heavy burdens. Haven't you ever seen the movie "Fatal Attraction?".

no I haven't seen the movie,,,,,,, but I guess I have to watch the movie

human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs

I would have suggested the movie "Play Misty For Me" but in that movie no one was married. In the movie "Obsessed" there is a married couple but no one actually cheats. All 3 movies have basically the same concept but "Fatal Attraction" fits the most to the situation. Sometimes you do not want what you have asked for.

you seem to think that Human Beings are mindless Animals!
Human Beings act according to the Values they hold,conscious or sub-conscious!

As for your first question: depends on how the situation came to be, your own norms and values, your culture, religion and so on.
Basically no one can answer that question for someone else. I don't think there's a straightforward answer anyway.



Kind of depends on your personal growth, psyche etc. If you allow emotions to rule your life, you might be in for quite a roller-coaster ride.
We don't have to deny or suppress our feelings, but feelings are not the same as emotions.
Emotions are very strong, overwhelm you, can sweep you of your feet (think anger, always a good example). Emotions tend to get you out of your personal centre, disconnect you from your inner strength, wisdom and knowledge. They basically take over your brain.
Feelings on the other hand do the direct opposite. They enhance the connection with your centre, your inner knowing and strength.

If your interested, Google it in your own language. Difficult subject material.

You also may want to look at Maslow's Hierarchy (psychology). The pyramid has tiers. You cannot go to the next tier up unless the needs from the one underneath it are being met.
So the bottom tier is about basic things everyone needs to survive. Once those needs are met, you are open for the needs in the next tier. Once you've achieved those, the third tier will become important and so on.
Once you've gotten to a tier, let's say the 4th one, it is possible suddenly find yourself back in the first. For instance if you lose a loved one, get divorced, have a serious accident etc. These things may affect you in such a way that you (temporarily) find yourself in that first tier again.
After all life's dynamic :)



So if you're obsessed with money, sex or whatever, it might be time to do some soul-searching.

sorry, bt I don't like reading big posts, I would like if u make me understand it but in simple and short

Ok. It depends.

That short enough?

that one is pretty good

If you believe that it is acceptable to cheat on your spouse, then you shouldn't get married in the first place, because you have a warped idea of what marriage is about.

Crystal,,,,,,well said......... he has to get his moral compass on track....no one can do or be everything to another. its getting past the persona [outer crust] is where unconditional love is.....cheating kills trust and creates lots of pain that my never heal scarring for life in some cases...... cheating is never a option...working on issues is the way to go,thats loving your mate................

can u run a relationship if u r nt satisfied with a person...
I guess no..

then what is the purpose if u ain't happy with that person

Get a divorce and then you can bang whoever you want.

you picked that other person..did you not.??????pick to soon..????..you have a part...you do not see your part then you can not fix it.......most all relationships go through a phase where we are not always happy...when the romance and lust phase lets up and we start to see the other person a normal person..........cheating is a little boys game,as you grow older maybe you will realize this.................

Well i think if your sexual "Needs" are not being fulfilled
Then it is time to break it off and move on
Give your spouse/Gf a little dignity as well
So they can find someone worthy of their love and heart too
CHEATING is dishonest,hurtful...
And self serving
No matter how you try to justify it .
JMHO...

A little twist in a relationship is always healthy! Besides the best part of relationship is the making up part! There are always challenges in life, the same with relationships! How boring would it be if everyday was the same!!!

Anyone who knows they can't remain faithful to one person shouldn't bother to get married. I'll never understand those who claim they were weak, or he/she doesn't understand them or the spark is gone and they needed to mix it up or any of that bs. If you want "variety" date around, no one cares, but when you marry someone and cheat on them because you were bored or some other stupid crap like that, you're a douche, plain and simple.