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can u run a relationship if u r nt satisfied with a person... I guess no.. then what is the purpose if u ain't happy with that person Depends |
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I'll buy the guy a blow up doll and a puncture outfit, in case his wife catches him with it and stabs it with a fork! At least it will ease his fustrations and he won't have a pair of baws like a Spacehopper anymore?
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It depends on the people if you step outside your relationship and it would hurt your mate even more deeply then I would be against it why make a bad situtaion worse and cause more pain.I also beleieve you should take time out to read cyrstal fairy's post there is a lot of time and wisdom put into it you asked a question and someone took time out of their day to try to help you. Good luck my friend.
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Edited by
hellsboy
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Sun 10/06/13 08:09 PM
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Satisfaction is must. .. wat will b d point if u dnt have him/her by ur side when u need them d most
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this is a question, that suddenly came in my mind. we all know that love is not the only thing which men/women need.. besides love he/she also has some physical needs.. u know that is the nature so is it wrong that if a man or woman is not sexually satisfied with his wife/husband and he/she goes outside and looks for some1 who can satisfy their needs Taking into account on culture, I do believe some in New Delhi, some people still practice arranged marriages, and you may not have been the one to pick your spouse. That being said, I also understand that if a woman decides to get a divorce that they normally get the short end of stick, especially if they are the ones to file. So I do get the your views on marriage may be very different on our Westernized views of Marriage, so many of the responses may reflect that. I personally don't think it is a good idea to go outside of the marriage for satisfy your needs, Unless their is a physical problem with your wife making her unable to have sex, then the problem lies with you, that's right with you. If you are bored, ask for something different, maybe explain why you want to go outside the marriage, now if she is just unwilling to have sex with you period, then tell her that if she is unwilling to have sex(not every time you want it, she's not a personal whore), but explain that sex is a necessary part of marriage, and that you are considering divorce/cheating, she may just tell you to go ahead, that at least relieves your guilt, so I would say communication between your wife and you would be the key to answering this. |
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Edited by
CremeBrulee
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Sun 10/06/13 09:57 PM
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Cheating is never right-which ever way anyone tries to justify it!
It always leaves scars-sometimes to bth parties!! |
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I don't get if we're talking about infidelity or leaving someone cuz you're unsatisfied?
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Infidelity. I could care less if the guy leaves, but cheating is lame.
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Well i think if your sexual "Needs" are not being fulfilled Then it is time to break it off and move on Give your spouse/Gf a little dignity as well So they can find someone worthy of their love and heart too CHEATING is dishonest,hurtful... And self serving No matter how you try to justify it . JMHO... 
I agree,and in the OP you said we need love, but I think that would be nice but most of us that are healthy in our adult sexual prime, NEED sex |
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this is a question, that suddenly came in my mind. we all know that love is not the only thing which men/women need.. besides love he/she also has some physical needs.. u know that is the nature so is it wrong that if a man or woman is not sexually satisfied with his wife/husband and he/she goes outside and looks for some1 who can satisfy their needs Taking into account on culture, I do believe some in New Delhi, some people still practice arranged marriages, and you may not have been the one to pick your spouse. That being said, I also understand that if a woman decides to get a divorce that they normally get the short end of stick, especially if they are the ones to file. So I do get the your views on marriage may be very different on our Westernized views of Marriage, so many of the responses may reflect that. I personally don't think it is a good idea to go outside of the marriage for satisfy your needs, Unless their is a physical problem with your wife making her unable to have sex, then the problem lies with you, that's right with you. If you are bored, ask for something different, maybe explain why you want to go outside the marriage, now if she is just unwilling to have sex with you period, then tell her that if she is unwilling to have sex(not every time you want it, she's not a personal whore), but explain that sex is a necessary part of marriage, and that you are considering divorce/cheating, she may just tell you to go ahead, that at least relieves your guilt, so I would say communication between your wife and you would be the key to answering this. totally agreed with ur words.. |
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Edited by
sybariticguy
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Wed 10/09/13 05:29 PM
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As for your first question: depends on how the situation came to be, your own norms and values, your culture, religion and so on. Basically no one can answer that question for someone else. I don't think there's a straightforward answer anyway. human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs Kind of depends on your personal growth, psyche etc. If you allow emotions to rule your life, you might be in for quite a roller-coaster ride. We don't have to deny or suppress our feelings, but feelings are not the same as emotions. Emotions are very strong, overwhelm you, can sweep you of your feet (think anger, always a good example). Emotions tend to get you out of your personal centre, disconnect you from your inner strength, wisdom and knowledge. They basically take over your brain. Feelings on the other hand do the direct opposite. They enhance the connection with your centre, your inner knowing and strength. If your interested, Google it in your own language. Difficult subject material. You also may want to look at Maslow's Hierarchy (psychology). The pyramid has tiers. You cannot go to the next tier up unless the needs from the one underneath it are being met. So the bottom tier is about basic things everyone needs to survive. Once those needs are met, you are open for the needs in the next tier. Once you've achieved those, the third tier will become important and so on. Once you've gotten to a tier, let's say the 4th one, it is possible suddenly find yourself back in the first. For instance if you lose a loved one, get divorced, have a serious accident etc. These things may affect you in such a way that you (temporarily) find yourself in that first tier again. After all life's dynamic :) 
So if you're obsessed with money, sex or whatever, it might be time to do some soul-searching. sorry, bt I don't like reading big posts, I would like if u make me understand it but in simple and short |
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As for your first question: depends on how the situation came to be, your own norms and values, your culture, religion and so on. Basically no one can answer that question for someone else. I don't think there's a straightforward answer anyway. human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs Kind of depends on your personal growth, psyche etc. If you allow emotions to rule your life, you might be in for quite a roller-coaster ride. We don't have to deny or suppress our feelings, but feelings are not the same as emotions. Emotions are very strong, overwhelm you, can sweep you of your feet (think anger, always a good example). Emotions tend to get you out of your personal centre, disconnect you from your inner strength, wisdom and knowledge. They basically take over your brain. Feelings on the other hand do the direct opposite. They enhance the connection with your centre, your inner knowing and strength. If your interested, Google it in your own language. Difficult subject material. You also may want to look at Maslow's Hierarchy (psychology). The pyramid has tiers. You cannot go to the next tier up unless the needs from the one underneath it are being met. So the bottom tier is about basic things everyone needs to survive. Once those needs are met, you are open for the needs in the next tier. Once you've achieved those, the third tier will become important and so on. Once you've gotten to a tier, let's say the 4th one, it is possible suddenly find yourself back in the first. For instance if you lose a loved one, get divorced, have a serious accident etc. These things may affect you in such a way that you (temporarily) find yourself in that first tier again. After all life's dynamic :)
So if you're obsessed with money, sex or whatever, it might be time to do some soul-searching. Looks like somebody took Psych 101. Unfortunately Maslows' chart is not an absolute. People will often forgo one level for another. |
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This is a gangplank chart
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Edited by
LaQira
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Wed 10/09/13 07:51 PM
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human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs Human Beings act according to the Values they hold,conscious or sub-conscious! look at what the human race as done recently or from the begining for that matter... 1 . killing our own kind for teritory , money , pleasure , beliefs and so on 2 . pedophiles , zoophiles ... nuff said 3 . making videos with "smack cams " , drinking milk till they vomit , drinking and peing on cars .... 4. creating mass destruction weapons i could go on for hours but i think you get it theres more basic instincs than inteligent life on this planet and it sure isnt the animals causing it , we are worse than animals |
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Edited by
LaQira
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Wed 10/09/13 07:55 PM
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tripple post damn this computer -.-
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So true laqira..
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human needs can make them do anything.... I think so, whether it is love, money or sexual needs Human Beings act according to the Values they hold,conscious or sub-conscious! look at what the human race as done recently or from the begining for that matter... 1 . killing our own kind for teritory , money , pleasure , beliefs and so on 2 . pedophiles , zoophiles ... nuff said 3 . making videos with "smack cams " , drinking milk till they vomit , drinking and peing on cars .... 4. creating mass destruction weapons i could go on for hours but i think you get it theres more basic instincs than inteligent life on this planet and it sure isnt the animals causing it , we are worse than animals where does greed, pride and a craving for power register on human needs? 1. Greed what need is met by killing others? 2. Power, most cases show pedophiles and even zoophile get off on the power they exert, rather than the sexual need itself 3. Pride/power exertion/ pride for "look what I did" power for "and I got away with it" 4. Power,Greed, and pride None of things result directly from a human 'need' rather they result from people who have been corrupted by power, greed, and pride. 2. |
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If you are not happy in your marriage, then you should leave it before you find someone else to cheat with. You have to clean up one mess before you get into another!
IF you are not happy with them in certain ways, I would think you should have known that before you married them. |
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Unsure is sexually unsatisfied
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