God took His time in creating us, so why should we be in a hurry over the thjngs that are so important in our lives. A good relationship takes time to build, first it starts by being friends. While you're friends, pls, be very cautious, as in, check all that comes out of his mouth as you chat along and try to compare his previous words with the present to see if it fits. Do not allow anything he says take you off guard. Though, most of us are very very crafty but we slip some times, especially, when we've spent enough time to forget the things we've said earlier. Just keep your eyes and ears wide open. A good date makes a good mate but you have to be a good person yourself.