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Topic: helping someone
Onire's photo
Mon 09/23/13 03:56 AM
as a guy would you rather help a lady than help a guy. and as a lady would you rather help a guy than help a lady?

sybariticguy's photo
Mon 09/23/13 05:48 AM
Sexist preference choices as though one should be more valued than the other..

msharmony's photo
Mon 09/23/13 08:28 AM
Im practical,,,

I am more likely to help a parent than a single person

regardless of gender

anyone that has no one but themselves to support, has an open schedule to work and earn enough to provide for self

its harder for parents to have a schedule to both be a parent and provide for self and child....

no photo
Mon 09/23/13 08:58 AM

Im practical,,,

I am more likely to help a parent than a single person

regardless of gender

anyone that has no one but themselves to support, has an open schedule to work and earn enough to provide for self

its harder for parents to have a schedule to both be a parent and provide for self and child....


flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 09/23/13 09:00 AM
it depends on how needy someone iz....careless about da gender da point iz "does someone need help??"

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 09/23/13 09:37 AM
Has nothing to do with what sex one is before I help them. It depends where their priorities are and will what I do actually help them and they try to do something about the issue they are having. Or will they just take the help and need it again for the same reason due to they expect it...whoa

BrianLovesGuitar's photo
Mon 09/23/13 09:41 AM
Good post!

I was raised to order dinner for a lady, open the car door, take her coat and to offer my own coat on the way home

And to spit my dummy out if I dont get laid after all the above.....

winking

On a more serious note, chivalry is not dead - women and children first!!

KinBarrie's photo
Mon 09/23/13 10:36 AM
Well, like I always say, if someone is drowning, you can
always throw them an anvil.laugh


Joking aside, I'd like to trust everyone, but am more
prone to helping women or elderly people. I'd to trust
a young man, but am sort of leery about helping one/ or
a group of young males, depending on the situation.

Traumer's photo
Mon 09/23/13 12:57 PM

as a guy would you rather help a lady than help a guy. and as a lady would you rather help a guy than help a lady?




It might be best to first consult your NRA attorney in this day and age...:wink:

jacktrades's photo
Mon 09/23/13 02:22 PM
It does not matter to me the feeling I get when I help someone is so rewarding.

fkorede2011's photo
Mon 09/23/13 02:41 PM
Your gender dosnt matter when it comes to helping someone,help if you care

no photo
Mon 09/23/13 03:02 PM

Your gender dosnt matter when it comes to helping someone,help if you care



Agreed!:thumbsup:

eastbo's photo
Mon 09/23/13 03:48 PM
If you have to separate the sexes , then I do not think that is being a good Samaritan, It's like saying you wouldn't help a lady who fell down but you would if it's a man! I just don't see your logic sorry!

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Mon 09/23/13 06:40 PM
I depends on the circumstances.

If a ship is going down, women and children first.

If someone needed help (a man or a women) I would help them. I work in the construction field and I generally see it all the time where someone is struggling and I will rush in to help them regardless of their craft or who they are.

navygirl's photo
Mon 09/23/13 09:01 PM

as a guy would you rather help a lady than help a guy. and as a lady would you rather help a guy than help a lady?


I have no preference. I will help anyone that needs help. I was at my brother's house two weeks ago fixing his blinds and this last weekend I fixed a lady's sink. Just nice to be able to help people. :smile:

unsure's photo
Mon 09/23/13 11:46 PM
My parents taught me to help anyone that needed it if I was able to.
They also taught me that if I have something and I no longer need it, if I am aware that someone is doing without that...give it to that person and do not sell it to them. I actually think I am the last person to do this. Where I live, everyone is out to make a buck..why is this? HELP YOUR FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS IF THEY NEED IT!!
I GUESS I HAD SOME AWESOME PARENTS!! flowerforyou

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 09/24/13 11:54 AM
Whoever has the Need.

NotScience's photo
Tue 09/24/13 04:15 PM
I'd rather help a super hot girl who's a 10/10 and has a perfectly compatible personality to mine who is also single and looking for a boyfriend. Then I would ask her out for lunch.

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 09/24/13 04:34 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Tue 09/24/13 04:36 PM
It depends on the level of the help needed, and also on how much I like or dislike the individual.

For example, if someone needs help on moving day, i'll probably volunteer for a friend, however, if a neighbor is moving who hasn't had the courtesy to say hi to me once wan't my help on moving day, they can find someone else.

however the cliche of helping an elderly woman cross the street, now that's just manners.

The level of need matters as well,

For example if my little brother wants me to lend him 5 dollars for a video game because he just chose to spend the $5.00 he had on a tshirt, i probably won't give it to him.

however, if a homeless guy ask me to buy him a $5 combo at jack in box because he hasn't eaten i will be more inclined to help then.

unsure's photo
Tue 09/24/13 04:55 PM
If I only had $5 and someone needed it...I would actually give it to that person. I guess I have a lot of my Dad in me, he was a caring man. Thanks Dad for giving me so many of your good points!! UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN...ANGEL KISSES :heart:

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