Topic: Fallen in love without sex
Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/15/13 04:47 PM


Okay. My opinion....MY OPINION...again.....MY FREAKING OPINION.....is that when you meet someone and you have an attraction to them, you feel that sexual desire for them. So you date and while finding out if you are falling for them you are more than likely going to have sex. You can "love" someone and not sleep with them. But when you "fall in love" then I cannot see how you couldn't have sex with that person before you marry. I know that a person's religious beliefs play a huge role in whether they choose to not have sex before marriage. And I applaud people who make that choice. As for me....I couldn't do it. I will want to make love to my woman because (since I am in love with her) I will want to share that intimacy with her. Again....this is just me.


Nonsense, unless you agree with the herd, your opinion is invalid; sex without love, what are you, a Philistine???

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tonilynn87's photo
Fri 11/15/13 07:59 PM

Meh, I'm 26 years old, had full and rich relationships, and I've never had sex. So yes, it's possible.

this I think is awesome! would have been nice if I had waited as well, however I have a 3yr old amazing lil boy. me and his father were engaged, obviously it didn't work out.
everything happens for a reason, or so I believe, and my son changed my world, and saved me from myself!!

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Fri 11/15/13 08:24 PM

Is possible to fall in love and long term dating without making love with each other untill u get marry?


Of course. Having or more on topic not having sex, however you define that, is a choice like any other relationship choice.

For billions of people, for generations, valuing chastity works. And for those who have never tried it you have no idea how it can truly make the relationship better and even more satisfying than getting the cart before the horse sorry for you. Intimacy is NOT just on a physical plain and chastity can build a foundation that makes intimacy have both width and depth that just jumping into sex can not develop. It is not necessarily saying sex is bad as much as saying it is worth waiting to making it good or even great by being prepared and secure in the relationship. Marriage as little as it is often respected still affords some protection for both men and women in most cultures.

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 11/15/13 08:41 PM


Meh, I'm 26 years old, had full and rich relationships, and I've never had sex. So yes, it's possible.

this I think is awesome! would have been nice if I had waited as well, however I have a 3yr old amazing lil boy. me and his father were engaged, obviously it didn't work out.
everything happens for a reason, or so I believe, and my son changed my world, and saved me from myself!!


I don't see having a child precludes anyone from choosing to or not abstain in future relationships. It is a choice. Works for some. Not for others. Abstinence For an extended period was one that made a lot more sense to me as a mother because I could not afford to drag my kids through the consequences of another failed relationship.

I did not have to factor in pregnancy but I can not imagine having kids I love hanging in the balance of an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy or god forbid a STD alone. No matter how bad I might miss my gratification some things just have a higher priority.

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Fri 11/15/13 10:43 PM
yeah it happens in india, pak, srilanka..no sex before marraige, it is only love before marriage..but now a days guys en girls do oral sex...en might lose virginity, but average is less in asia..or in iran, iraq, saudi, oman, en other gulf coutries..preferabbly i like to rub into *****, who among u girls i willin for it

Peter356's photo
Sat 11/16/13 01:10 PM
Yes, it is possible to have life-altering, mind-bending love without sex. It used to be called the High Romantic. Lots of poems written. Usually telepathic rather than explicitly sexual.

It uses some of the same channels as student-teacher love. When matched and mutual, it is pretty powerful.

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Sat 11/16/13 04:54 PM
Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!
Why always sex when ever a relationship or love is mentioned?
If you really love someone you can wait, and that is where faithfulness begins. True love calms every sexual urge...
Sex is worth waiting for...

tonilynn87's photo
Sat 11/16/13 10:29 PM

Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!
Why always sex when ever a relationship or love is mentioned?
If you really love someone you can wait, and that is where faithfulness begins. True love calms every sexual urge...
Sex is worth waiting for...


AMEN!!!!!!!!!!:banana:

haikrishna37's photo
Sun 11/17/13 12:26 AM
shall we hav dateee babyyy

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Sun 11/17/13 12:41 AM
Unless if i were a virgin, not if i have experienced sex before.

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Sun 11/17/13 12:42 AM
Unless if i were a virgin, not if i have experienced sex before.

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Sun 11/17/13 05:36 AM

Yes, it is possible to have life-altering, mind-bending love without sex. It used to be called the High Romantic. Lots of poems written. Usually telepathic rather than explicitly sexual.

It uses some of the same channels as student-teacher love. When matched and mutual, it is pretty powerful.


To this,I can relate!!

Been there!!


Its actually stronger and more powerful than anyone can ever imagine!

Londonvibes's photo
Sun 11/17/13 07:14 AM
Not sure about the 'fall' in love aspect coz that to me denotes something incidental..with less internal substance & more suggestive of a finished article... given love is a verb- a 'doing' word- & by necessity - a continuation of something... I know it's definitely posssible to 'grow; in love with someone without the sex - that said - unable at this stage & experience of life to comment on how wise it would be to commit a lifetime to somone without having explored the physical aspect of such a deep emotional & mental connection first.
As a female ( hold up my hand to generally being the more emotive half of the species lol!) have always found that waiting until the mental & emotional connections are mutually in place before engaging in the physical has always resulted in pure intimate ease & subsequently true sensual abandonment -translating, more often than not- into some err... seriously mindblowing & gratifying sex lol! Hmmm...gott'a say ...Some things ARE defiitely worth waiting for... :wink:

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Tue 11/19/13 01:55 AM
I was talkin to this girl a couple years back and I didn't like... love her but I did, ya kno. Anyway I hated when we sex for some reason. It was like we really don't have to to do this today lets just like just chill and watch some t.v. I know for a fact that if i can hangout with a girl that im seeing for hours and not say jack! I might not ever tell her cause girls get a little different when you do but im in love. Im a simple guy tho. Im not sure about no sex tho, like at all. That's a different game right there.

Ifecoguy's photo
Tue 11/19/13 04:04 AM
it z 100% possible 2 be in relationship witout hvin sex till marriage

axl_rose40's photo
Tue 11/19/13 07:46 AM

Is possible to fall in love and long term dating without making love with each other untill u get marry?


As sure as it is possible to get divorced after having been in love for a long time then falling out of love all of a sudden until both parties finally give up the marriage.

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Tue 11/19/13 08:00 AM

Yes, it is possible to have life-altering, mind-bending love without sex. It used to be called the High Romantic. Lots of poems written. Usually telepathic rather than explicitly sexual.

It uses some of the same channels as student-teacher love. When matched and mutual, it is pretty powerful.



This...uh huh.

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Tue 11/19/13 09:41 AM

unless you don't mind discovering some balls instead of pu**y in the first night of marriage
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Tue 11/19/13 02:29 PM
YES SURE! THATS WHAT AM HOPING FOR! I JUST WANA FALL IN LOVE WID SOM1 WHO LOVES ME AS MUCH, THEN WE CAN DISCUSS SEX AFTER TYING D KNOT...THOUGH WE BOTH GONNA VE TO GO FOR MEDICAL TESTS BEFORE THAT, TO B ON A SAFER SIDE.

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Sun 12/15/13 06:18 AM
This should be an agreement between the two individuals in love...