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Is it possible to like a guy whom you haven't seen in person yet? Is it possible to miss this someone when you haven't heard from him for days? :) how is it possible?? :D
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hummmmm.....it happens to me too..
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hummmmm.....it happens to me too..
what did you do? I cant understand the feeling and a bit scared about this. :) |
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It scares me too...sometimes...
I wish I had a answer, but I do not. 
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Its really scary to feel something like this. Lol. What if that someone doesnt feel the way we do? It'll be very sad. Hehe. But thanks 2kidsMom! Wish u luck :)
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If this person is someone on the Mingle2 site, don't be scared because you have the shield of the computer. Give him a holler and tell him how you feel. Be CAREFUL though and tell him that with guarded words. Life will pass you by if you let it. Perhaps this guy is "the one." If he is, you have nothing to lose. If he's not, you'll be able to tell soon enough. Anyway, that's my advice. G.
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Both of you ladies are "in love" with the image of a person, an image produced largely from data supplied solely by that person. Not at all reliable and frequently false. Best of luck to you both. You may need it.
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Wed 09/18/13 12:43 PM
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omg...I would be to afraid....are my to say:....hey dude.
  .Do you know I like you..more than a friend  
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Thanks GYs41! :) i hope he's the one. Its been a while since i've liked a guy and sadly its someone far from me and i dont think its possible to see him. And also, i dont want to tell him first what i feel. Im scared of what he'll say. Haha
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Both of you ladies are "in love" with the image of a person, an image produced largely from data supplied solely by that person. Not at all reliable and frequently false. Best of luck to you both. You may need it. well thanks for bursting my bubble..lol if I ever meet him..Ill just use him for sex then..  
he already tells good bedtime stories... 
rambles....Ill just shut up now..Im getting in deep..errrr..yea... 
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Yeah, it's very possible, but doesn't necessarily mean much: the human psyche is very good at projecting and making you feel hung-up on someone.
For instance, if you have been alone for quite some time, got rather desperate to find someone, or when you really crave someone who's nice to you and so on and so forth, we can easily make ourselves believe that there's more going on between our self and the other person than there actually is. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche kind of creates it out of thin air. Important to check for yourself what it is that's really going on. Did you let your brain put you on cloud nine and lose track of common sense and reality? Rethink and re-read what has been communicated to find out if you made more of it. |
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Both of you ladies are "in love" with the image of a person, an image produced largely from data supplied solely by that person. Not at all reliable and frequently false. Best of luck to you both. You may need it. you may be right. For now i dont know how to deal with this feeling but hopefully i can figure things out ASAP. Hehe :D thanks USmale47374 |
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Yeah, it's very possible, but doesn't necessarily mean much: the human psyche is very good at projecting and making you feel hung-up on someone. For instance, if you have been alone for quite some time, got rather desperate to find someone, or when you really crave someone who's nice to you and so on and so forth, we can easily make ourselves believe that there's more going on between our self and the other person than there actually is. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche kind of creates it out of thin air. Important to check for yourself what it is that's really going on. Did you let your brain put you on cloud nine and lose track of common sense and reality? Rethink and re-read what has been communicated to find out if you made more of it. omg......sounds like me....I made it into something its not....Ive been alone to long...ughhhhh... somebody slap me. |
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Yeah, it's very possible, but doesn't necessarily mean much: the human psyche is very good at projecting and making you feel hung-up on someone. For instance, if you have been alone for quite some time, got rather desperate to find someone, or when you really crave someone who's nice to you and so on and so forth, we can easily make ourselves believe that there's more going on between our self and the other person than there actually is. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche kind of creates it out of thin air. Important to check for yourself what it is that's really going on. Did you let your brain put you on cloud nine and lose track of common sense and reality? Rethink and re-read what has been communicated to find out if you made more of it. This one sounds like me also. It maybe just hard if |
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Yeah, it's very possible, but doesn't necessarily mean much: the human psyche is very good at projecting and making you feel hung-up on someone. For instance, if you have been alone for quite some time, got rather desperate to find someone, or when you really crave someone who's nice to you and so on and so forth, we can easily make ourselves believe that there's more going on between our self and the other person than there actually is. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche kind of creates it out of thin air. Important to check for yourself what it is that's really going on. Did you let your brain put you on cloud nine and lose track of common sense and reality? Rethink and re-read what has been communicated to find out if you made more of it. This one sounds like me also. It may be hard if you've been out of love for a long time. But i hope things will work out fine^^ |
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I think most of us women have been there at least once.
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Wed 09/18/13 12:58 PM
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@crystal....no doubt..Ive dreamt up something thats not there..rolls eyes*..like a fool..
how do I fix it..? |
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@crystal....no doubt..Ive dreamt up something thats not there..rolls eyes*..like a fool..embarassedfrown
how do I fix it..? Lol, that's the 20 million dollar question, isn't it?! Don't stay on cloud 9 too long, regularly descend and plug in your brain? Listen to what's being said and not what you want to think was being said? If I'm not mistaken us women are very good at interpreting things the wrong way. Women tend to be subtle, men usually don't get our subtle hints at all. Usually people interpret things the same way we convey ourselves, meaning we probably think he's giving subtle signs, which 9 out of 10 times probably isn't the case at all. That's what I think so far. Maybe we should start a new thread on this, as it is a real good question and I think one heck of a pitfall for many women. |
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@crystal....no doubt..Ive dreamt up something thats not there..rolls eyes*..like a fool..embarassedfrown
how do I fix it..? Lol, that's the 20 million dollar question, isn't it?! Don't stay on cloud 9 too long, regularly descend and plug in your brain? Listen to what's being said and not what you want to think was being said? If I'm not mistaken us women are very good at interpreting things the wrong way. Women tend to be subtle, men usually don't get our subtle hints at all. Usually people interpret things the same way we convey ourselves, meaning we probably think he's giving subtle signs, which 9 out of 10 times probably isn't the case at all. That's what I think so far. Maybe we should start a new thread on this, as it is a real good question and I think one heck of a pitfall for many women. Thank you...very sound advice...indeed. |
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I might print it and stick it on my mirror, hahahaha. This subject is what I am somewhat concerned about too. I also got the T-shirt, even though I didn't want it, lol. I know I've changed, gotten much stronger, blabla, but still ... In a way we simply tend to be too eager and often read too much into things. Maybe women tend to focus on one contact too soon? Put other contacts on hold because one stands out (a bit)? |
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