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I might print it and stick it on my mirror, hahahaha. This subject is what I am somewhat concerned about too. I also got the T-shirt, even though I didn't want it, lol. I know I've changed, gotten much stronger, blabla, but still ... In a way we simply tend to be too eager and often read too much into things. Maybe women tend to focus on one contact too soon? Put other contacts on hold because one stands out (a bit)? 
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Edited by
GYs41
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Wed 09/18/13 01:56 PM
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J,
I know you may be hesitant, but I really think you should tell this fellow how you feel. Gee Whiz, you are only in the very "initial" stage of getting to know about him so don't worry about breaking the ice. If you do and he is not interested, you have lost NOTHING. If he winds up being interested, you will be SO GLAD you did tell him how you feel. Also, distance won't matter if you two connect. Give it a try! G. Also, how could a guy NOT be interested in a gal like you? |
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 09/18/13 08:21 PM
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Both of you ladies are "in love" with the image of a person, an image produced largely from data supplied solely by that person. Not at all reliable and frequently false. Best of luck to you both. You may need it. Yes unfortunately I once fell for a guy who was a scammer. Basically I fell in love with a person who wasn't real. A photo, what he said, made me fall for him, until I investigated it. I googled phrases in his profile, entered it in Google search and low and behold it came up in so many other peoples profiles on dating sites with different pictures, with sometimes the same name, sometimes with a different picture. Then I realized who I thought I knew was not real, it was made up with the purpose of scamming other people. I have been extremely careful since then. Some want you to fall in love with them to trick you in some way of money, based on your love for them. Don't do it! Be careful to whom, or to what you give your heart. If they don't want to meet face to face, you can bet it's a scam. |
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gosh your're so pretty and young= i cant imagine you would need a dating site
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J, I know you may be hesitant, but I really think you should tell this fellow how you feel. Gee Whiz, you are only in the very "initial" stage of getting to know about him so don't worry about breaking the ice. If you do and he is not interested, you have lost NOTHING. If he winds up being interested, you will be SO GLAD you did tell him how you feel. Also, distance won't matter if you two connect. Give it a try! G. Also, how could a guy NOT be interested in a gal like you? thanks a lot. I'll try to find the right timing in doing that. For now, i dont have the courage. :P |
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gosh your're so pretty and young= i cant imagine you would need a dating site i just thought i might find the one here and that it may be innteresting to have met someone from a different place :) |
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Its really scary to feel something like this. Lol. What if that someone doesnt feel the way we do? It'll be very sad. Hehe. But thanks 2kidsMom! Wish u luck :) you wont know how this person feels unless you ask |
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I think it's pretty easy to fall in love with an idea. If someone you're chatting with online seems to mold to that idea...then it's also easy to believe you are falling in love with him/her....if you're not conscious of it.
You may feel a level of comfort after talking with someone online for a long period and become less conscience of the things you really can't know about the each other just through conversation. Even if they have been completely honest with you about everything under the sun, there is too much about someone that can only be gauged through automatic responses, facial expressions, eye contact and physical reactions to one another in the flesh. Keeping this in mind will allow your heart to stay open to the posibilities without allowing your desires to take over your sensibility. I have a special pen pal here who I enjoy chatting with more than anything I've experienced in a long time. But until we meet and really get to know each other eye to eye,.we can only be special friends and pen pals to each other.. It's nice to fantasize there could one day be more, and flirting with him is more fun than I ever remembered it being, but we also have to keep it real and accept that it's possible nothing will come of it when we meet. I guess I could have gone with...if wishes were fishes.... 
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Yeah, it's very possible, but doesn't necessarily mean much: the human psyche is very good at projecting and making you feel hung-up on someone. For instance, if you have been alone for quite some time, got rather desperate to find someone, or when you really crave someone who's nice to you and so on and so forth, we can easily make ourselves believe that there's more going on between our self and the other person than there actually is. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche kind of creates it out of thin air. Important to check for yourself what it is that's really going on. Did you let your brain put you on cloud nine and lose track of common sense and reality? Rethink and re-read what has been communicated to find out if you made more of it. omg......sounds like me....I made it into something its not....Ive been alone to long...ughhhhh... somebody slap me. 
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Is it possible to like a guy whom you haven't seen in person yet? Is it possible to miss this someone when you haven't heard from him for days? :) how is it possible?? :D I do not get too impressed with a man or miss hearing from him, until I meet inperson and spend some personal time with him. Often times, Many are somewhat different inperson than Online. I have met a few men inperson. |
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what we live here is called a virtual life , a life that has all forms of regular one , except for the tangible side .... and is gradually growing to occupy larger area of our lives , so it will be normal to live , love and miss in this life ...
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I truly think luv does not hv limits and boders,where ever the person you luv is,what is important is how deep you keep him close to your heart
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