I think that is his dream goal.

Don't players normally have a mansion, with tons of Champagne, and a lot of women sprawled all over him?

I feel that this topic is skewed and makes man sluts look bad.

It is extremely unfair.

When women are sluts, all the guys love them...That is what makes them sluts.

(Any guy who says otherwise,is just sucking up and pandering to the rest of the women in a lame attempt to gain their respect....and thereby get a better shot of getting in their panties.)

Y'all say "player".....I say "slut".

Either way....it's someone getting a whole lotta love.

:)

So I have been challenged to come up with three things that make me a potential player. Well here they are: obviously the first requirement is good looks... and I can tell you now I already have that and then some. For instance, there have been many occasions where my striking good looks have compelled women (and men) to comment on how good looking I am. This is probably why I feel so self-conscious. I suppose it is the price one must pay...

On to number two. The second requirement should be an inability to love. Because men that fall in love are like putty in the hand. A woman soon moulds him into how she wants him. Well I have never been in love in all my thirty something years. So I think I pass on this one as well.

The third requirement is good conversational skills like being able to tell lies and making a woman laugh. But admittedly I am woeful at this but I know I can get better. So I am very close to becoming a player.

Lol, like your sense of equality Even though my feelings are exactly the opposite.
Normally speaking a male slut is considered a macho, a player, which is cool, has positive connotation. A female slut might be loved by certain men, but usually get slighted

Only by women Baby....only by women.

:)

I feel that this topic is skewed and makes man sluts look bad.

It is extremely unfair.

When women are sluts, all the guys love them...That is what makes them sluts.

(Any guy who says otherwise,is just sucking up and pandering to the rest of the women in a lame attempt to gain their respect....and thereby get a better shot of getting in their panties.)

Y'all say "player".....I say "slut".

Either way....it's someone getting a whole lotta love.

:)

I feel that this topic is skewed and makes man sluts look bad.

It is extremely unfair.

When women are sluts, all the guys love them...That is what makes them sluts.

(Any guy who says otherwise,is just sucking up and pandering to the rest of the women in a lame attempt to gain their respect....and thereby get a better shot of getting in their panties.)

Y'all say "player".....I say "slut".

Either way....it's someone getting a whole lotta love.

:)

I feel I have what it takes to be a player but I am no good at courting women because I get nervous and very self-conscious around them. And this puts them off because it gives them the impression that I am boring or a bit strange.

I notice that women like confident men and men that are cheerful and witty. But this is where I luck out. So I was hoping that maybe you could give me some tips on how to overcome this handicap of mine.