i look back now at my life and wonder where all the plans of a bright and glorouse life ran off too.. you know the one with the man of my dreams lots of money a white picket fence and 2 childnren running in the yard with the family dog.. while me and mr right sat on the "rap around porch" sipping ice cold lemonade with out a care in the world...

*back to reality*
i'm 21 almost didnt graduate met mr wrong went to drugs got clean still with the same mr wrong ended up in a homeless shelter 2 weeks later found out i was pregnant..... still with mr wrong had my son *still at the homeless shelter* 3 weeks later mr wrong gets into fight with staff at homeless shelter and gets us kicked out.... now i'm still with mr wrong but hes turning into mr maybe...*clean nice different* sons 9 months old and come to find out that i am now 20 weeks pregnant woohoo.... living at home with my parents.. while mr maybe lives at home with his parents...

so all in all out of my dreams i get my two children no house no dog no mr right and no ice cold lemonade.

does that sound like any one else?

Awww Little I'll say some prayers for ya'll

It sounds like life...no one ever said life was going to be that little fantasy

Prayers and hugs your way. But, and this is important, don't ever stop dreaming, and remember there's nothing wrong with tweaking your dreams

When it comes to life we all make bad choices but it don't mean we can't learn from them and move on. Knowing you see where your at now. This is the time to take action and do what is right for you. Your young and you full life ahead of you but what you do with it is up to you.

Congradulations on your new baby to be, And give thanks to our LORD, that NOW you can see.
This life is filled with good and bad.
But its all up to you, if its happy or sad.
You've made your peace, now your own your way.
To a brighter future and happier new day.

Good luck. Don't look back but never forget!!

It can still happen but there will be problems and bumps ...... maybe you are doing it in a different order. Keep the faith. you have a child and 1 on the way and that in it self is a blessing.

Congradulations on your new baby coming.
Please don't go back with Mr. Wrong.
Good you have your parents there for you.
Try going back to school as soon as you can- it is so important
these days, and you can't get by without a ged or diploma.
Good luck dear and my prayers and thoughts will be with you.

maybe i can offer a little light on this
.. married high school sweetheart, what a bust, had a baby and was a good wife. while he cheated with everyone, then left me with a 3 year old..while him and my best friend ran off.. but now 13 years later am in college and son is in high school... never rely on someone else to make you happy... do it yourself.. congrads on the baby.. never to late to start again...

Dreaming about a great life is what saves you from your current lifestyle.Never stop dreaming of a better life for you and you children.IF you stop dreaming and hoping for that life.Your motivation will be drastically changed.Everyone needs to dream and hope for the future.It is what helps us get thru the toughest times in our life.If we don't have dreams we have nothing.So...you keep dreaming of that Mr right and your house and a ice cold glass of lemonaid.Hopefully someday you will get your wish.It only takes a little dedication and dreaming to make things happen

Noooooooooo life is not anything how I imagined it to be. I remember thinking I would be married with kids etc and the white picket fence as well.

I won't go into details....but the married part happened, the kid happened but nothing else went right!!!

Ive thought long and hard about this and to conclude it was just life or him or me would be wrong. I think we all have to take responsibility for our own choices!

well see i did graduate high school with my diploma.... and it was 2 years later i got pregnant... i had always thought that i would never have children in these kind of hard times... i mean when i had it good i was going to college had an apprt a car and money but it all stoped sooooo fast my head spinned... i do love my childrens father and he loves me but i had to make a choice.. he has to show me the love and that he can make it on his own with out my help.... god i feel so pregnant...

it gets better i have too little ones too i dropped out of high school when i was 19 and got married and started popping out kids ... now im 25 and divorced and i went back to school and am almost done with college i didnt think that this was the way my life was suppose to be .... but i wont trade my girls for anything .... we do whats best for them ..... it all pays off in the long run good luck im here if you need someone to talk to

'When life throws you lemons....make your own lemonade"

Life is a journey

Everything that has happened so far was meant to be, and thank goodness because look where it lead me...
...More as it happens....

gal keep that dream alive, without dreams we have nothing. wish you all the best in the years to come.

So true Miss B...everything is there laid out, we can learn from it, or not...and we are never the same person we were before, now stronger, wiser...clearer.

Hello Stranger from across the pond

Do I smell something in the wind? Something positve and wonderful going on in your world, Miss B?

...always...