Things will get better little!

I think many of us did not have those dreams fulfilled,my life was pretty hard too but I never stopped believing or dreaming and that's what kept me going.Your young and already have one child and another on the way,my prayer for you and you kids is you start to make the right choices now.Life is always going to have it's up's and down's,but you have kids not,it's not all about you and him anymore.My prayers and thoughts are with you.Good Luck

i had always thought that the most support in my time of need would be from my family like my mother... but here i am getting love and support from new found friends from accross the country,,, i am having complications with this pregnancy "having full contractions at 20 weeks" but all in all the doc says everything looks in order but i'm not to be on my feet all day and not to stress or lift anything.... thats hard when daddys not around to help with our soon to be 10 month old...... sometimes all i want to do is cry not give up but really stop to think what my next step is going to be..... one day my mom wants us here the next she brings up my past and rubs it in..... sometimes i feel so alone

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hon..........parents they only want the best for their kids...........they sometimes don't have a clue how to show it.......they think by telling them stuff it will make it better and sometimes it doesnt..........


Wow..........I wish I had a pc too while I was pregnant too but Im sooooooooo glad I had my best friend......I still have her too though she is about 4 hours away now.......

little, so you think your mom is bringing up your past and just rubbing it in. it may seem that way to you, but is it just her way of saying puuulllleze be a little more careful from here in.it is just possible she does not know how you are taking it.

all is true... of course you have the age gap between my mother and me so i can see where shes coming from i guess on the whole past thing... she doenst like the fact that i'm still with my chilrens father but i have seen a great change in him... hes trying in ways i have never seen him try and it makes me wonder where he has been these past 2 1/2 years..lol....... but all in all i know my mother loves me and wants nothing but the best but i wish she could take a step back and see how she says things....

Hey lil preggers Sometimes parents have these dreams for their kids too..the whole happily settled, nice hubby, two perfect grandkids and the white picket fence...

I know nothing about you and your Mum, except what you have chosen to share...this 'dragging up the past thing' maybe her way of realising sometimes we dream too much, and don't do enough of the real stuff...the doing part of the dream.

Your folks raised you right, I can hear by the way you are still respectful of them, especially Mum,, even when she is possibly not as supportive all the time..

You have this unique place now, no longer the child, but always her child, and now a mother yourself...you both get to be equals, women, and maybe start working together, supporting each other, through this rough patch you find yourself in..

Silly me but I loved chasing rainbows. Just the time you get there they disappear and the gold is gone with it, too. I lived in many a mission and salvation army, too. Loved to walk and got a great chance, too when people wouldn't pick me up when I was hitch hiking. Gave me some time to look at the scenery and sometimes I would look down and find money. Left my mom's address as a mailing address. When I came home there was all this mail. After a while mom would ask on the phone not how are ya but where are you. Now mom lives three miles away and after a while she will drive up in front of the house and ask me how I am doing if I don't go and see her. Some moms will always worry about you no matter how old you are and when you talk to them it is like you have never aged. Time can go fast in the real world but in the home it can be slower. Hope you the best with your situation.

god bless you hillfolk.. god bless you