Looking and keeping my options open but finding the guy of my dreams is hard how do you do you know when you find him.

This will sound corny but you will know..... It's like fireworks exploding, and you find, that your investing all you have into that certain person. I could try and explain it all night, but trust your gut, most times it won't steer you wrong, just be cautious

Tough one. There is no definitive answer because it depends on the individuals wants and needs in a relationship.

His intentions usually guide his actions. He'll go out of his way to say hello, be poltie, make you smile when you're not feeling good, he'll regard you as you're own person and wont have the need to feel jealous...

if that's the kind of guy you're looking for, you'll know over time by GETTING to know him.

Hope that helps.

Ask someone to show you his private areas so you can evaluate them.
Otherwise you'll never know for sure.

Silly.
You put out the real woman bait.

I was going to give you advice then l accidentally clicked on your prolile and says your live in canada but your a Bruins fan! So that means you went against my Vancouver canuckes in the Stanley Cup Finales.
How could you! I've watched then go to the finales three times and lose 82, 94, 10...you weren't even
born..where's you countrymenship? The cup hasn't been won buy a canadian team in your life time as
Montreal won in 93

anyways I dont think anybody knows your answer but if you can be respectful over a month with ease
and allways be conscious of how your treat this peoson then that means their somebody you realy
want in your life, you find youself picking fights then your not mad at the person your just mad that
their not the one and your in denial, your not alone but your lonely. You got it! So dont lead someone on
For your own selfishness, cuz it will come back 10 fold. ..I'm watching you

Your right and so an I

I absolutely believe this. It's when you don't have a desire to keep anything hidden in the what if file. If you can't give your all, you will never get it all.

This is where couples today are robbing themselves blind. I have tried it both ways and have found that the giving of only part leaves only part to share in. It's cool to have a partial thing going on but does it ever become more than a "thing" if total surrender to love does not happen? Not in my book. Hey, even if the other does somehow turn out to be a phony you have your complete self to walk away with and if you truly have given all, the chances of them walking will be slim. Some will disagree with this, but I say to them then is it posible that not all was truly given. It's easy to say all, but love is not something you say, it's something you do. If your partner is "loving" you, you will have the absolute most secure, not only feeling, but reality in your every day walk together. Ladies, if he has this love his head will not turn. That thought of "other side" will not enter.

Ladies, take a very serious look at your shopping lists. If it's worldly this is exactly what you are going to get. In true love there is no such thing as "well you knew that when you met me". This is not about give and take, this is about give and give more. The recieving will be automatic and overwhelming. "Am I content with me" is the fastest way to find the perfect love. You don't have to be perfect, you have to be content to be whole. And a perfect marrage is not about being perfect, it's about being perfectly content. This does not mean you marry a jerk, it means your shopping lists have been based on the truist form of honesty with yourself.

Hey, when it comes to true love today, one in a million are the odds you really want. Love jumping does nothing but distroy your fiber of self worth. Be infatuated all you want, but come down to your self's real love list. If you are built for true love, it is true love you will have. "free your mind and the rest will follow" If you are fooling yourself, you will marry a fool.

completely agree with mg1959! couldnt be said better!

wao,dats a tough question. I don't know what to say but my advice is that you just need to be patient and trust in God.

is there a check off list that goes with that?

real males are born with testicles and a penis , no ovaries or uterus,,,lol

but a real MAN,,,good question

I guess it depends upon what a REal man is to you

some think real men are tough guys
some think real men are responsible
some think real men are self sufficient,,,,


I think we mostly attract real men when we allow ourself to be 'out there' (not sexually, but socially) and behave as 'real' women,,

I think the key is being ready to accept a "real" man for just how real he truly is...complete with moods, passions, faults, uncertainties, dreams, insecurities, desires, baggage and yes...even nose hairs.

Yeah I think the definition of real man is to loose for actual interpretation.

Did you look under the cushions?

Use GPS.

Yes.

Mg1959 I could not have said it better...

Although, as you know, everyone is actually conceived as a female.