You know I thought about the question again. And I have the solution. And I will explain in steps with friendly easy to read letters. That and I just feel like giving a long winded explanation cause I'm bored and still winding down from working and being awake for 45 out of the last 48 hours.

Step one:
Define what a real man is to you. I'll give an example just to make a short post longer.
A) Write down the qualities of what make a good man.
1)Hard working
2)Passionate
3)Trustworthy
4)Ect
Step two: Think of all the men you've met up to this point and compare them to your list. If you don't come up with one out of them that is datable. Use the list when meeting people to compare them to as you mingle and find one that matches your definition.


Hooray for Boredom!

That "Real Man" phrase is played out!! You only have 2 options: Do you want a "good man", or do you want a "bad boy"?

Think their running a sale at Big Lots.

All good points,

Some think a real man is a bar brawler type,
Some think the "Mr Fix Its" who can repair anything under the sun themselves are real men,
Some think the educated professionals with a good job and job title are real men,
Some think people are are good husbands and fathers are real men.

All these can be correct and depending on which type YOU consider a real man will determine where you should go look for him.

Put in your profile exactly what you're looking for. The more honest you are in your profile, the more likely you'll meet the type you want :)

It starts with being real with youself. With what YOU want ;)

The way you know that you found the one of your dreams is by the way he looks at you its a look that only you can see because that is when he is going to let his walls down and his heart opwn just for you. But you wont see it unless you would feel that way too. It sometimes take alot of heart ache and getting lied to and hurt before that one comes along but when the time is right you will see a sparkle in a mans eyes that shows he is the one for you.