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Topic: where has all the romance gone
cuddliebunny's photo
Sat 05/18/13 12:29 PM
How can a guy find the time to be romantic when there is no one to romance?


Its kind of hard to romance a hand. ??

You and your luck >>>

how dose romance help relationships and why do you become romantic or is it a tool of what seems to be a great venture into the world of dating and marriage?


TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 05/18/13 12:45 PM
Romance is something that most just incorporate within their relationships with another... To many it is something that comes natural..

It should not be something you have to find time to do or be when in a relationship...

It is the little things within a relationship that keeps the romance alive. It does not mean you have to go buy expensive gifts or flowers all the time... Just a gentle touch or a simple hug or eye contact that lets them know your happy with the one your with goes a long way.....bigsmile

ridewytepony's photo
Sat 05/18/13 01:32 PM

Romance is something that most just incorporate within their relationships with another... To many it is something that comes natural..

It should not be something you have to find time to do or be when in a relationship...

It is the little things within a relationship that keeps the romance alive. It does not mean you have to go buy expensive gifts or flowers all the time... Just a gentle touch or a simple hug or eye contact that lets them know your happy with the one your with goes a long way.....bigsmile


There you go thats what I do, and I hate the one's that cant keep from asking long enough
So you can make it romantic!!
Its like its time to get her some nice flowers...then she comes out again n asksfrustrated

Then she's just destined for HOmance, & i'll just go back to the BROmanceshades

Bro's
Before
Ho'sasleep

metalwing's photo
Sat 05/18/13 03:02 PM
We make bad choices that result in failure. Maybe a little study of the subject would help the success rate.

djoutrage's photo
Mon 05/20/13 12:41 AM
I wonder this often, too.
I am a pretty romantic person but I think a lot of guys and girls act the part rather than play it. Giving a date flowers is only romantic if your heart goes out with the florist, ya know?

no photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:49 AM

I wonder this often, too.
I am a pretty romantic person but I think a lot of guys and girls act the part rather than play it. Giving a date flowers is only romantic if your heart goes out with the florist, ya know?


Whats the real difference between someone who acts the part, rather then plays it.

Is one not just a more convincing actor then the other.

In the end, who's to say whose gesture was genuine and which contrived. Even the worst actors are succeeding at making the attempt.



no photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:53 AM

How can a guy find the time to be romantic when there is no one to romance?


Its kind of hard to romance a hand. ??

You and your luck >>>

how dose romance help relationships and why do you become romantic or is it a tool of what seems to be a great venture into the world of dating and marriage?




well, if your hand is good looking, well mannered, and knows what it's doing, I don;t see the problem...lol:wink:

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 05/20/13 10:57 AM
It is hard to meet a Romantic man, and I want a Romantic man, it is wonderful to experience a relationship with a true Romantic. bigsmile

cuddliebunny's photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:48 PM

I wonder this often, too.
I am a pretty romantic person but I think a lot of guys and girls act the part rather than play it. Giving a date flowers is only romantic if your heart goes out with the florist, ya know?



This is So True to be a romantic person it must come natural to you...

The best are of the soul that will have gone with the flowers but brought through the little I agree with natural and coming from the soul or the heart.

cuddliebunny's photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:53 PM
The attemps as one has put it is right rather the attempt then nothing at all. Some women find the attempt enough to stay with some one for ever. Some look for the within and search from what draws your heart to them


Another words some romance is iin the Eye of the beholder and some is just plan jane romance.

Flowers in bed with chocolates or a poem delivered to you at work with a card or a singing mexican playing a bango or what ever they call thoughs fat round guatars. what ever it might be they do it with loving intentions and the attemps is in the same.

cuddliebunny's photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:54 PM
wheres the pic >>???

cuddliebunny's photo
Mon 05/20/13 06:56 PM


How can a guy find the time to be romantic when there is no one to romance?


Its kind of hard to romance a hand. ??

You and your luck >>>

how dose romance help relationships and why do you become romantic or is it a tool of what seems to be a great venture into the world of dating and marriage?




well, if your hand is good looking, well mannered, and knows what it's doing, I don;t see the problem...lol:wink:


Not when the hand has to do the writing and starts to cramp you all now why the cramps matter.( an excuss to yell because your in pain and dont really want to do anything untill you feel better.



Why not say hey Im cramping right now can it wait or can you find a way to fit it in?? <>> you know.
Yelling leads to fights and the doors....

TeddyRose's photo
Mon 05/20/13 07:54 PM
Lol, great topic... You Guys cracked me up, romance is perspective... Holding the door fit your love is romantic... And simple manners. I think romance is what you are innately, not the facade you paint when your dating.

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Mon 05/20/13 08:10 PM



How can a guy find the time to be romantic when there is no one to romance?


Its kind of hard to romance a hand. ??

You and your luck >>>

how dose romance help relationships and why do you become romantic or is it a tool of what seems to be a great venture into the world of dating and marriage?




well, if your hand is good looking, well mannered, and knows what it's doing, I don;t see the problem...lol:wink:


Not when the hand has to do the writing and starts to cramp you all now why the cramps matter.( an excuss to yell because your in pain and dont really want to do anything untill you feel better.



Why not say hey Im cramping right now can it wait or can you find a way to fit it in?? <>> you know.
Yelling leads to fights and the doors....


not sure I follow how that relates to what I said???? :) oh well...

cuddliebunny's photo
Fri 06/14/13 09:15 AM
how can one not find the time to give themselves a little romance within their own life.( rember to stop and smell the roses) >>>

cuddliebunny's photo
Sun 07/14/13 03:18 PM
some times people look to much in to the movies and base a romatical thery on what romance is form that. With in real life and social life some see it as the industies of the nation. some find that easyer to express to their partners in that way and easyer to not explain then to say hey this is what I was trying to say or ment by this or that but then again every tom dick and hairy is fighting for the love of you own life.

sparkyae5's photo
Tue 07/16/13 08:02 AM
thats it go girl! love is when you care about another as much as you care about yourself! :smile:

sparkyae5's photo
Tue 07/16/13 08:24 AM
the most powerful drugs in the world are FEELINGS i.e. mad sad glad and scared. when we feel chemicals are released in the brain that affect our wellbeing. most people are running on auto they never give a thought as to why they believe this or that. everyone has favorite feelings. next time you have a button pushed and you start to feel angry or mad etc STOP, think ask yourself do i do that? do i act like that? when we heal the inside, the out side takes care of its self. you were born with a beautiful little child inside you,thats where our feelings come from. heal the child, heal the person!

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Tue 07/16/13 08:29 AM
Why do people associate romance with materialistic things? Romance does not have a tangible side to it. Romance is an innate state of being. You cannot force romance. I am raising my son to be a gentleman because society needs more men to care about others and not being selfish. Chivalry is all about respecting a person you are interested in. Romance is in the eye of the beholder. Romance happens naturally when you care for the person you are with and find out their love language. Romance comes with loving the person in an unconditional way by expressing it through the other person's love language. The love language varies from person to person. happy

cuddliebunny's photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:29 PM
Something like that yes It is the commited psycholpathical acknowleadgement that is what you are refering too. The though of a love for some one drives thoughtfull and activie ackowladgementto implement the life you live with a person within a committed relationship. In not so teck term your totally correct.

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