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I was going to post this 12 hours ago but this site crashed. Figures. This place must have been created by a man. Here is my rebuttal to your 10 points, which was obviously written by an insecure bitter loser who no matter how much he chased women, he constantly kept getting rejected. Sound familiar, gentlemen? Who is really the desperate one here? Remember that women get thousands of responses and have way more choices than men, who are usually doing the chasing. Knock yourselves out, men. There are plenty more where you came from. We are neither desperate nor worried. Rejection makes men bitter and nasty to women and they cut them down by writing essays on why the women are not worthy. How hilarious and transparent. 10 REASONS YOU'RE NOT MAN ENOUGH FOR US 1. If we are being sarcastic and intimidating, that means we find you unattractive and unappealing. If we found you interesting, we would smile at you and give you come hither looks. We may come off haughty for a reason. We realize you're not good enough. We are doing you a favor because we don't want to waste your time and especially our own. Would you rather we lied and led you on and toyed with you when you're obviously not attractive? 2. Since when did these attributes make a man perfect? Well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-
fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman man from a good background who has a good job, drives a good car and loves a woman unconditionally. Or maybe realistically we should be looking for scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk? Sadly, we don't have to look hard to find those types. 3. Desperation has a smell now? What exactly is that odor? Fishy? Sulfur? Sweat? Stinky feet? We'll make sure to wash it off better. Or maybe it's the smell of annoyance men sense when women see them as rude, irritating jerks. 4. First I pay too little attention to my appearance. 5. Now, I pay too much attention to my appearance. Looks like (no pun) a woman cannot win here, just like in any discussion with a man. Although, men will be quick to say the same about women. 6. If a woman was attracted to you, your libido would not be an issue. We are tigers in bed but only if you bring it out in us. How you do that is by complimenting and praising a woman, for starters, instead of cutting us down. We dislike rudeness, insults and snarky remarks just like you do. That's a major attraction killer and we will avoid YOU like the plague. Another attraction killer is stinginess. If a man is stingy with his possessions, he will also be stingy with his love. This is a well known truth. I didn't have to add all these tips but I was feeling generous. You're welcome. The other ways to impress us you will have to figure out by yourself. Good luck. 7. How are we boring? This needs elaboration. And so are you. I'll elaborate when you do. 8. We nag because you are a scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk. We are just trying to make you into a better person. You should be thanking us that we even make the effort and take the time to help someone so unworthy. 9. I'm insecure? Maybe it's because you are unromantic and consider your work or sword collection more worthy of your attention than me. Show me the love, baby. 10. I just know my value and yes, millions of men find me attractive. Deal with it. I thought men want robots. They can't handle a REAL woman with thoughts, emotions and a life. Yup, go find yourself a robot, or better yet, an inflatable doll, since you are neither ready or worthy of a real woman. |
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I think your reasons are a bunch of bs! I do not fit any of those reasons on why you wouldn't marry a woman besides who says that woman would marry you!!
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Dear Dmck,defend the write up!!
Hi Newbie. I just posted this because most of the women in my own life fall into one of these ten categories. I'm not saying every woman is like this, just the ones I've known. Dearest,i was just teasing..... |
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Dearest,i was just teasing..... Aww, thanks. I haven't been teased in a while :) |
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DD....
Aplause!! Very well said!! Danke schone! |
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Dearest,i was just teasing..... Aww, thanks. I haven't been teased in a while :) Serious?? I've teased you several times on forums....well,i guess you took it to be real even then?? Ha ahahaaa Well, tease for breakfast,lunch and dinner! |
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Well, tease for breakfast,lunch and dinner! Haha! Thanks...I'm full now :) |
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I love men. Respect 'em, love 'em, and think the world would be a far duller place without 'em. I enjoy their company, and what they bring to the overall quality of the human race. I can be platonic friends with a man, or madly in love or lust with one, or anywhere on the spectrum in-between. I find some of them incredibly annoying, too. Such is life, because men are no more alike than are women, or snowflakes for that matter. I might on occasion throw up my hands in utter frustration and remark, "Men! Aaauugh!" But even as I do so, I know I'm only joking because the problem isn't men in general; it's whatever particular man happens to have pushed my buttons just then. I was married for ten years, and my buttons were pushed a lot. I know I pushed his, too. C'est la vie. But I don't think I could ever bring myself to seriously denigrate men as a whole, because they're an integral and necessary half of the human species... and I genuinely love them too much to pretend they're all alike and cast aspersions on them for being male. Well said, I share your view and opinion. Such is life, I genuinely love having a choice. |
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Hummm no matter what you do or don't do someone is going to find fault within.... It is the ones that can see your faults and realize they have faults as well but willing to work through those areas are the keepers...
We are all what we are one must learn to take the good with the bad and hope like hell the good out weighs the bad.... 
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Edited by
ViaMusica
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Fri 04/12/13 09:21 AM
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A Rebuttal to 10 Reasons No Man Wants to Marry You If a woman is trying to woo a man, then she won't be using intimidating looks and sarcastic responses. Besides, if a woman intimidates a man, then he is probably too wimpy for her anyway. I agree that there are women who fit the description in Claim #2. However, plenty of single men also fit the description, as illustrated in the claims below. The flaw with Claim #2 is that women who are married also looked for Mr. Perfect while they were single. Their own search for Mr. Perfect didn't prevent them from becoming married. It is always a mistake for any individual man to pretend to speak for all men, which is what the author of Claim #3 is doing. A single man who is lonely may actually welcome desperation from a single woman. Besides, the "desperate woman" of Claim #3 is more like a woman in a TV soap opera instead of a real woman. A woman who is seeking a husband isn't going to pay too little to her appearance. She will be doing the opposite, but not in every situation. If a woman is performing physical labor, then she isn't necessarily going to be wearing make-up and a dress with high-heel shoes. Also, the author of Claim #4 isn't considering the possibility that single men may be wanting to know how a single woman looks without make-up. When a man is married, his wife won't be waking up every morning looking like a fashion model who just stepped off a fashion-show runway. Before getting married, a man may want to know what he will be facing each morning if he were to get married. Seriously? Claim #5 describes a woman who lives a care-free life, a woman who is happy just the way she is. Such a woman can be quite attractive to single men. Claim #6 is written from the perspective of a man who thinks with his genitals. No single woman should be forced to do something that she is uncomfortable doing. A man who puts his libido ahead of the needs of a potential wife probably wouldn't make a good husband. Single men need to wake up and realize that they aren't the ones who risk getting pregnant if they have sex at the wrong time. All too many single women end up being dumped by their boyfriends once the women become pregnant. No single woman wants to go through such a thing, and so, a single woman isn't doing anything wrong by being sexually cautious. When was the last time anyone ever met a boring woman? In Claim #7, "boring" is a code word for "doesn't have the same tastes and interests that I have." Being that not all men have the same tastes and interests, Claim #7 is without merit. A woman who seeks a husband isn't going to nag a potential mate. The nagging comes after the wedding. 
When a single man is dating a woman, and when he does care about her, then he will work to minimize any insecurity that the woman has. He won't be "looking there" out of respect for his girlfriend. Who gets to decide what is reasonable and what isn't? Claim #10 appears to me to be a wild exaggeration about a woman. I don't know anything about the author of the above-quoted list, but it would be an act of hypocrisy for a man who has never been married to lecture a woman on why she has never been married. DodoDavid, thank you for posting that. You've hit every one of those nails squarely on the head.   
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I was going to post this 12 hours ago but this site crashed. Figures. This place must have been created by a man. Here is my rebuttal to your 10 points, which was obviously written by an insecure bitter loser who no matter how much he chased women, he constantly kept getting rejected. Sound familiar, gentlemen? Who is really the desperate one here? Remember that women get thousands of responses and have way more choices than men, who are usually doing the chasing. Knock yourselves out, men. There are plenty more where you came from. We are neither desperate nor worried. Rejection makes men bitter and nasty to women and they cut them down by writing essays on why the women are not worthy. How hilarious and transparent. 10 REASONS YOU'RE NOT MAN ENOUGH FOR US 1. If we are being sarcastic and intimidating, that means we find you unattractive and unappealing. If we found you interesting, we would smile at you and give you come hither looks. We may come off haughty for a reason. We realize you're not good enough. We are doing you a favor because we don't want to waste your time and especially our own. Would you rather we lied and led you on and toyed with you when you're obviously not attractive? 2. Since when did these attributes make a man perfect? Well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God- fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman man from a good background who has a good job, drives a good car and loves a woman unconditionally. Or maybe realistically we should be looking for scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk? Sadly, we don't have to look hard to find those types. 3. Desperation has a smell now? What exactly is that odor? Fishy? Sulfur? Sweat? Stinky feet? We'll make sure to wash it off better. Or maybe it's the smell of annoyance men sense when women see them as rude, irritating jerks. 4. First I pay too little attention to my appearance. 5. Now, I pay too much attention to my appearance. Looks like (no pun) a woman cannot win here, just like in any discussion with a man. Although, men will be quick to say the same about women. 6. If a woman was attracted to you, your libido would not be an issue. We are tigers in bed but only if you bring it out in us. How you do that is by complimenting and praising a woman, for starters, instead of cutting us down. We dislike rudeness, insults and snarky remarks just like you do. That's a major attraction killer and we will avoid YOU like the plague. Another attraction killer is stinginess. If a man is stingy with his possessions, he will also be stingy with his love. This is a well known truth. I didn't have to add all these tips but I was feeling generous. You're welcome. The other ways to impress us you will have to figure out by yourself. Good luck. 7. How are we boring? This needs elaboration. And so are you. I'll elaborate when you do. 8. We nag because you are a scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk. We are just trying to make you into a better person. You should be thanking us that we even make the effort and take the time to help someone so unworthy. 9. I'm insecure? Maybe it's because you are unromantic and consider your work or sword collection more worthy of your attention than me. Show me the love, baby. 10. I just know my value and yes, millions of men find me attractive. Deal with it. I thought men want robots. They can't handle a REAL woman with thoughts, emotions and a life. Yup, go find yourself a robot, or better yet, an inflatable doll, since you are neither ready or worthy of a real woman. seems like this thread stuck a nerve... didn't have many good things to say about men here, which leads me to my next question: so why are you looking for a man then? |
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seems like this thread stuck a nerve... didn't have many good things to say about men here, which leads me to my next question:
so why are you looking for a man then? Same could be said about those men who agreed with the OP, right? Did you ask them why they're looking for women then? |
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seems like this thread stuck a nerve... didn't have many good things to say about men here, which leads me to my next question:
so why are you looking for a man then? Same could be said about those men who agreed with the OP, right? Did you ask them why they're looking for women then? umm.. no, he copied it from someone else...and, why would i care what another man is looking for? if some men want use this as a basis for meeting women, then that just leaves more women for me to date... |
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seems like this thread stuck a nerve... didn't have many good things to say about men here, which leads me to my next question:
so why are you looking for a man then? Same could be said about those men who agreed with the OP, right? Did you ask them why they're looking for women then? umm.. no, he copied it from someone else...and, why would i care what another man is looking for? if some men want use this as a basis for meeting women, then that just leaves more women for me to date... My point went right over your head. That's ok, though. |
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Oh my word!! I always wondered why am I not getting a man, this has just answered evry lil question I had...bt nw problem is, its hard 2 change a mindset.
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seems like this thread stuck a nerve... didn't have many good things to say about men here, which leads me to my next question:
so why are you looking for a man then? Same could be said about those men who agreed with the OP, right? Did you ask them why they're looking for women then? umm.. no, he copied it from someone else...and, why would i care what another man is looking for? if some men want use this as a basis for meeting women, then that just leaves more women for me to date... My point went right over your head. That's ok, though. i guess so, i'm still wondering what your point was.. 
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I was going to post this 12 hours ago but this site crashed. Figures. This place must have been created by a man. Here is my rebuttal to your 10 points, which was obviously written by an insecure bitter loser who no matter how much he chased women, he constantly kept getting rejected. Sound familiar, gentlemen? Who is really the desperate one here? Remember that women get thousands of responses and have way more choices than men, who are usually doing the chasing. Knock yourselves out, men. There are plenty more where you came from. We are neither desperate nor worried. Rejection makes men bitter and nasty to women and they cut them down by writing essays on why the women are not worthy. How hilarious and transparent. 10 REASONS YOU'RE NOT MAN ENOUGH FOR US 1. If we are being sarcastic and intimidating, that means we find you unattractive and unappealing. If we found you interesting, we would smile at you and give you come hither looks. We may come off haughty for a reason. We realize you're not good enough. We are doing you a favor because we don't want to waste your time and especially our own. Would you rather we lied and led you on and toyed with you when you're obviously not attractive? 2. Since when did these attributes make a man perfect? Well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God- fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman man from a good background who has a good job, drives a good car and loves a woman unconditionally. Or maybe realistically we should be looking for scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk? Sadly, we don't have to look hard to find those types. 3. Desperation has a smell now? What exactly is that odor? Fishy? Sulfur? Sweat? Stinky feet? We'll make sure to wash it off better. Or maybe it's the smell of annoyance men sense when women see them as rude, irritating jerks. 4. First I pay too little attention to my appearance. 5. Now, I pay too much attention to my appearance. Looks like (no pun) a woman cannot win here, just like in any discussion with a man. Although, men will be quick to say the same about women. 6. If a woman was attracted to you, your libido would not be an issue. We are tigers in bed but only if you bring it out in us. How you do that is by complimenting and praising a woman, for starters, instead of cutting us down. We dislike rudeness, insults and snarky remarks just like you do. That's a major attraction killer and we will avoid YOU like the plague. Another attraction killer is stinginess. If a man is stingy with his possessions, he will also be stingy with his love. This is a well known truth. I didn't have to add all these tips but I was feeling generous. You're welcome. The other ways to impress us you will have to figure out by yourself. Good luck. 7. How are we boring? This needs elaboration. And so are you. I'll elaborate when you do. 8. We nag because you are a scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk. We are just trying to make you into a better person. You should be thanking us that we even make the effort and take the time to help someone so unworthy. 9. I'm insecure? Maybe it's because you are unromantic and consider your work or sword collection more worthy of your attention than me. Show me the love, baby. 10. I just know my value and yes, millions of men find me attractive. Deal with it. I thought men want robots. They can't handle a REAL woman with thoughts, emotions and a life. Yup, go find yourself a robot, or better yet, an inflatable doll, since you are neither ready or worthy of a real woman. Everyone loves me! 
But then again, I have lots of chocolate! 
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I was going to post this 12 hours ago but this site crashed. Figures. This place must have been created by a man. Here is my rebuttal to your 10 points, which was obviously written by an insecure bitter loser who no matter how much he chased women, he constantly kept getting rejected. Sound familiar, gentlemen? Who is really the desperate one here? Remember that women get thousands of responses and have way more choices than men, who are usually doing the chasing. Knock yourselves out, men. There are plenty more where you came from. We are neither desperate nor worried. Rejection makes men bitter and nasty to women and they cut them down by writing essays on why the women are not worthy. How hilarious and transparent. 10 REASONS YOU'RE NOT MAN ENOUGH FOR US 1. If we are being sarcastic and intimidating, that means we find you unattractive and unappealing. If we found you interesting, we would smile at you and give you come hither looks. We may come off haughty for a reason. We realize you're not good enough. We are doing you a favor because we don't want to waste your time and especially our own. Would you rather we lied and led you on and toyed with you when you're obviously not attractive? 2. Since when did these attributes make a man perfect? Well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God- fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman man from a good background who has a good job, drives a good car and loves a woman unconditionally. Or maybe realistically we should be looking for scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk? Sadly, we don't have to look hard to find those types. 3. Desperation has a smell now? What exactly is that odor? Fishy? Sulfur? Sweat? Stinky feet? We'll make sure to wash it off better. Or maybe it's the smell of annoyance men sense when women see them as rude, irritating jerks. 4. First I pay too little attention to my appearance. 5. Now, I pay too much attention to my appearance. Looks like (no pun) a woman cannot win here, just like in any discussion with a man. Although, men will be quick to say the same about women. 6. If a woman was attracted to you, your libido would not be an issue. We are tigers in bed but only if you bring it out in us. How you do that is by complimenting and praising a woman, for starters, instead of cutting us down. We dislike rudeness, insults and snarky remarks just like you do. That's a major attraction killer and we will avoid YOU like the plague. Another attraction killer is stinginess. If a man is stingy with his possessions, he will also be stingy with his love. This is a well known truth. I didn't have to add all these tips but I was feeling generous. You're welcome. The other ways to impress us you will have to figure out by yourself. Good luck. 7. How are we boring? This needs elaboration. And so are you. I'll elaborate when you do. 8. We nag because you are a scrawny, sloppy, insensitive, unromantic, lazy, liar, atheist, cheater, redheaded, short, and ugly slimeball with a criminal background who has no job, no car, and will be a heartless, coldblooded jerk. We are just trying to make you into a better person. You should be thanking us that we even make the effort and take the time to help someone so unworthy. 9. I'm insecure? Maybe it's because you are unromantic and consider your work or sword collection more worthy of your attention than me. Show me the love, baby. 10. I just know my value and yes, millions of men find me attractive. Deal with it. I thought men want robots. They can't handle a REAL woman with thoughts, emotions and a life. Yup, go find yourself a robot, or better yet, an inflatable doll, since you are neither ready or worthy of a real woman. Everyone loves me!
But then again, I have lots of chocolate!
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Add one more to the mix, shes always cold when im hot, my ex and I sometimes were up all night playing dueling thermostat
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I can't count to 10, so I could be happy with a number of women on here!
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