Topic: Where's all the honest men?
Christinacospgs's photo
Sun 05/05/13 07:02 AM
There are dishonest men AND women out there. I've had guy friends tell me stories and have been screwed over just as much as women. It's all about how the person is on the inside.
I hope that like will attract like for me eventually.

smmsteelers71's photo
Sun 05/05/13 01:46 PM
I know of one..ME that's NOT spoken for.

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Sun 05/05/13 04:06 PM
Im an honest an loyal guy but picky ..everyone I find is a player. Liar.druggie.alcoholic.thief.or major health probs...im laid back easy going drama free full time job ..im not aggressive looking for anyone but do miss th companionship..in th shendoah valley of Va

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 05/05/13 04:09 PM
I know where an honest man is. flowerforyou

Oh, wait...did you think I was gonna tell YOU guys? noway

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 05/05/13 04:24 PM

It only takes God gift to find that special one



:thumbsup:

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 05/05/13 06:40 PM
We attract what we believe we deserve. Choose more for you! flowerforyou

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Tue 05/07/13 02:09 AM
Any hot guys from singapore?

Safmkd's photo
Tue 05/07/13 02:59 AM
Hai,am honest

Affectionisme's photo
Tue 05/07/13 03:49 AM
Hi i totally....agree with you......Some men are all nice...just to suck you in they say beautifull lovely lies....promise you the world and moon....and that they would be your night in shining armour......then ask you for loan after loan of money....that you will never get back.....BE VERY CAREFULL.....DON'T GET SUCKED IN LIKE ME.....I LEARNT THE HARD WAY!!!!......

vincentius_yoko's photo
Tue 05/07/13 08:25 AM
Honest girl falling love with bad guy
Honest guy falling love with bad girl

They like magnet.

As I know, I just find about 3 or 5 couple who really honest and faithful each other.

If about gold digger, cheater, I'm sure, 70% dominated by girl.
My x gf, make me broke, woman have great sense to detect gold digger.
Man don't have that talent, we can be stupid, blind when we love somebody, even we already know she's bad girl.

Daniel's photo
Fri 05/10/13 04:50 AM
yeah well... some guys are the most honest, nicest & most genuine guys around but are alone because they they are quite shy & lack in confidence with or around girls & how do I know that because I am that guy.

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/10/13 06:04 AM

We attract what we believe we deserve. Choose more for you! flowerforyou


Possibly the most intelligent answer ever!

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/10/13 06:14 AM
"Yes, your butt looks big. You should go on a diet!"

One woman's honesty is one man's death sentence.

The OP's question is one that has been discussed forever. In reality, many women are attracted to men for all the wrong reasons and honesty isn't usually one of them. By the time they find out that the same lies that attracted them are being used to attract other women, bitterness and a lack of trust make the honest guy's job much harder. (a whole book could be written about this aspect alone!)

The fact is, "tall and good looking" will probably beat out "loving, loyal, and dependable" every time ... at least in the beginning.

It is hard for a women to look into a man's heart when she is looking up into those hungry eyes.

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Fri 05/10/13 06:33 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Fri 05/10/13 06:37 AM

"Yes, your butt looks big. You should go on a diet!"

One woman's honesty is one man's death sentence.

The OP's question is one that has been discussed forever. In reality, many women are attracted to men for all the wrong reasons and honesty isn't usually one of them. By the time they find out that the same lies that attracted them are being used to attract other women, bitterness and a lack of trust make the honest guy's job much harder. (a whole book could be written about this aspect alone!)

The fact is, "tall and good looking" will probably beat out "loving, loyal, and dependable" every time ... at least in the beginning.

It is hard for a women to look into a man's heart when she is looking up into those hungry eyes.


agree. the same can be said for the guys who go for one Barbie Doll after another till they realize they are looking at the outside only....since men are so visual I tend to think perhaps it happens to them even more often. I have heard of men spending life savings....and she's gone whe nthe kitty is empty....etc. OR a few years later he's asking himself when she will grow up or stop being so tempra"mental" and really they were just never compatible to begin with

Sometimes the Barbie Doll is also a great gal, sometimes tall and handsome is a great guy as well. nothing wrong with beautiful people but we need to learn, men & women alike to look on the inside and do a much better job of it. Then the next guy/gal won't have it so hard :)

It's not always easy being a "Barbie Doll" as a woman because WE KNOW that men are looking our way mostly for all the wrong reasons...I was a trophy wife for years.....never again.

I give the final exam before the first date now...lol - hoping now that I am older the whole thing won't be an issue

indianadave4's photo
Fri 05/10/13 06:36 PM
Edited by indianadave4 on Fri 05/10/13 06:38 PM
>Where's all the honest men?<

They're all out dating the honest women.

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Fri 05/10/13 10:13 PM
Hmmmm, I wonder why all the women who want a nice guy, aren't falling over themselves to date these nice guys.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 05/10/13 10:15 PM

"Yes, your butt looks big. You should go on a diet!"

One woman's honesty is one man's death sentence.


laugh

Conrad_73's photo
Sat 05/11/13 01:32 AM
why,if it were that easy,Diogenes wouldn't have to go through Athens with a lit Lamp in the bright of day!laugh

carman28's photo
Sat 05/11/13 08:49 AM
:smile: hi

jessejames2's photo
Sat 05/11/13 11:46 AM
Honesty? In this day and age?


I think it's about the $$$$$$$ or the eye candy for many dudes first. If nothing surfaces by 45 years old, perhaps we might get a little more honest. Otherwise, yikes. AYFKM?