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Topic: Where's all the honest men?
dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Sun 03/24/13 10:40 AM
There are a few good men out there Online. Most are already taken. Phfft...right. Obviously, not all women know a decent man when they encounter one—otherwise I wouldn't be here.

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Mon 03/25/13 12:44 AM
It is What yu Look Out for dat yu Get. What Attracts yu 2 Men? Dat's What Brings yu to the Same Kinda Man Everytime

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 03/25/13 01:46 AM
both sexes have good and bad its just some people are in too much of a hurry for love that they forget to really look at the person before jumping into a relationship with them. peace out

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 03/25/13 02:00 AM
Just because someone is different from you and doesn't share your values that doesn't mean that they aren't honest.

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 03/25/13 02:05 AM
no but lying to you constantly does make them dishonest

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 03/25/13 02:10 AM
You saying that most men do that?

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 03/25/13 02:14 AM
where in my reply did i say that? hmmm, my last 3 exs have though

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Mon 03/25/13 03:44 AM
where in my reply did i say that? hmmm, my last 3 exs have though And see, this is where we all are. We can only base our assumptions on the members of the opposite sex we have encountered. If your whole life you have encountered men who lie, then (in your own life) you have only that experience to go by. It makes it hard to trust or even believe that a man could be telling you the truth, when all the other ones you've known have lied to you.

ruth74 Joined Fri 03/08/13 Posts: 151	Mon 03/25/13 11:01 AM
There are a few good men out there Online. Most are already taken. Phfft...right. Obviously, not all women know a decent man when they encounter one—otherwise I wouldn't be here. Kinda sure of yourself eh? hugs

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15031	Mon 03/25/13 11:05 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 03/25/13 11:06 AM
There are a few good men out there Online. Most are already taken. Phfft...right. Obviously, not all women know a decent man when they encounter one—otherwise I wouldn't be here. I know a decent man when I meet One. I don't know You, but I have encountered several men on here, that weren't decent. Imo

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Mon 03/25/13 11:06 AM
Kinda sure of yourself eh? hugs Oh, I am [grins]

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/25/13 11:19 AM
There are a few good men out there Online. Most are already taken. Phfft...right. Obviously, not all women know a decent man when they encounter one—otherwise I wouldn't be here. uuuuuuuufffffffff! And yet,you said no when i asked''coffee later''??

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/25/13 11:19 AM Edited by CremeBrulee on Mon 03/25/13 11:22 AM


CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/25/13 11:28 AM
I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for.... Si! There are quite a number of them left-even on here....i've talked to a few,and i know a real one from the fakes! So,am now wondering which pond you put your worms...?? Maybe your profile or the way you ''present'' yourself in your profile??

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 03/25/13 01:17 PM
where in my reply did i say that? hmmm, my last 3 exs have though And see, this is where we all are. We can only base our assumptions on the members of the opposite sex we have encountered. If your whole life you have encountered men who lie, then (in your own life) you have only that experience to go by. It makes it hard to trust or even believe that a man could be telling you the truth, when all the other ones you've known have lied to you.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/25/13 01:51 PM
I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for.... You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones. Start with you and examine why this is. Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused? Start with yourself honey. hugs you basically asked the same question in another thread, and now your answering it... good answer, but i take it your not using your own advice...

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 03/25/13 01:57 PM
Honestly men for the most part don't want a bossy woman!

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Mon 03/25/13 01:59 PM
I'll second that.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/25/13 02:12 PM
Honestly men for the most part don't want a bossy woman! or loud, obnoxious, screeching harpies...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 03/25/13 02:21 PM
I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way?