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Topic: Where's all the honest men?
mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 03/27/13 08:45 PM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 03/27/13 08:50 PM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... that should win you lots of female fans on here. I think maybe you guys should look inward as to why you seem to constantly get caught up in that dynamic with women and check your perception of what game playing is not that some women don't do it.....but are u focusing on women too young for you maybe? I really think much younger in their early 20s tend to play games more (jmho) and I do see men my own age getting upset by it. but it is not realistic to expect women that young to be mature

pritysandra Joined Sun 02/19/12 Posts: 6	Thu 03/28/13 01:51 AM
I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for.... You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones. Start with you and examine why this is. Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused? Start with yourself honey. hugs Gotta agree with Ruth on this one.

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Thu 03/28/13 04:24 AM
Honesty and loyalty in relationships are what I like to think of as bi-sexual traits, they go both ways. I've found that people tend to ask for what they aren't giving. You may be loyal, in that you have never cheated in a partner but are you honest? What is your definition of honesty? That in itself is open for interpretation. There was a guy once who when I asked him why he hadn't told me he had a girlfriend, his answer was a simple, "You didn't ask."... To me, his ommission was dishonest. We measure these things on a different scale. Yeah, yu have 2 Give it 2 Get it, but the Truth is, dishonesty has a Cheap Mask; very Affordable, so One can easily Fall in2 the Hands of the Dishonest. One just has 2 be Careful not 2 get in Deep b4 they See the Truth

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 03/28/13 07:24 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... that should win you lots of female fans on here. I think maybe you guys should look inward as to why you seem to constantly get caught up in that dynamic with women and check your perception of what game playing is not that some women don't do it.....but are u focusing on women too young for you maybe? I really think much younger in their early 20s tend to play games more (jmho) and I do see men my own age getting upset by it. but it is not realistic to expect women that young to be mature the way i see it, if that comment makes a woman mad, then she knows shes a game player... it won't bother the non game playing women... no, 20 year olds are just for looking at, i don't interact with them other that that...

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 03/28/13 11:54 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... And yet,even in the forums,i do see some good women-ok,i wont mention any names,but my gut tells me,they are good women-if a man were genuinely seeking!!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 03/28/13 11:55 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... And yet,even in the forums,i do see some good women-ok,i wont mention any names,but my gut tells me,they are good women-if a man were genuinely seeking!!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14576	Thu 03/28/13 11:59 AM
There are a few good men out there Online. Most are already taken. Sure about that? In my age group Yes they are.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14576	Thu 03/28/13 12:08 PM
Honestly men for the most part don't want a bossy woman! and women for the most part do not want bossy men who are controlling demanding and "think" they are in charge (without asking) just because they are men

markson444 Joined Wed 03/27/13 Posts: 1	Thu 03/28/13 05:36 PM
good one

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 03/28/13 10:23 PM
good one Which one???

jwatts300 Joined Wed 03/20/13 Posts: 4	Fri 03/29/13 05:55 AM
There are still good guys out there. You just have to sort out the bad eggs to get to them. I consider myself to be a very honest and loyal person and i have yet to even get an email back about a date or meeting up or just something.

ruth74 Joined Fri 03/08/13 Posts: 151	Fri 03/29/13 06:59 AM
Here's the way I see it..... "Good men" and "Good women" sometimes run the risk of being entangled in a relationship where they are harmed rather than loved. That's certainly what happened to me. They either stay stuck there...or they untangle themselves and set themselves free. Once free, they're darn sure not going to get trapped again, so they become cautious and wary. This is a GOOD thing....but sometimes they also become bitter and cynical...NOT a good thing. So then the challenge is to remain aware, and to resist traps while still being 'Good'. Quite the challenge indeed sometimes eh? Sometimes I think I'll be better of being a crazy cat lady. But then I start to remember how good it is to have a man around, and I miss that so much it hurts. I miss the friendship and the intimacy...the rough scruffy cheek in the mornings, and the dead weight of his sleeping arm across my back at night. I miss having a sounding board to talk to and someone to run away with on weekend adventures. So....like so many others, I try to stay GOOD while looking for someone else who is GOOD. Surely it can't be that hard?? lol Apparently it is, otherwise these sites wouldn't be so popular.

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 542	Fri 03/29/13 07:52 AM
I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way? You kidding me? No woman has ever been 100% honest like we men are not 100% honest. There is no 100% xcept for being born, being dead and math I hope this is peaking for you,Mik,not for the rest of the world!? Hows u btw!? Fine. Hw abt u? Long time. Btw, i aint speaking for anybdy. Just expressing myself. And remember no1 is not speakin for any1

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 542	Fri 03/29/13 07:55 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... And yet,even in the forums,i do see some good women-ok,i wont mention any names,but my gut tells me,they are good women-if a man were genuinely seeking!! U promoting urself?? Ha ha

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 542	Fri 03/29/13 07:56 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games That's what we always say!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 03/29/13 08:08 AM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... And yet,even in the forums,i do see some good women-ok,i wont mention any names,but my gut tells me,they are good women-if a man were genuinely seeking!! U promoting urself?? Ha ha Now you are getting smart with me Mik!! Ha ha ha aaaaa BUT,seriously,there ARE some good women on here-neighbor,you should be hitting the jackpot soon-if your eyes are open!!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 03/29/13 08:10 AM
Here's the way I see it..... "Good men" and "Good women" sometimes run the risk of being entangled in a relationship where they are harmed rather than loved. That's certainly what happened to me. They either stay stuck there...or they untangle themselves and set themselves free. Once free, they're darn sure not going to get trapped again, so they become cautious and wary. This is a GOOD thing....but sometimes they also become bitter and cynical...NOT a good thing. So then the challenge is to remain aware, and to resist traps while still being 'Good'. Quite the challenge indeed sometimes eh? Sometimes I think I'll be better of being a crazy cat lady. But then I start to remember how good it is to have a man around, and I miss that so much it hurts. I miss the friendship and the intimacy...the rough scruffy cheek in the mornings, and the dead weight of his sleeping arm across my back at night. I miss having a sounding board to talk to and someone to run away with on weekend adventures. So....like so many others, I try to stay GOOD while looking for someone else who is GOOD. Surely it can't be that hard?? lol Apparently it is, otherwise these sites wouldn't be so popular. Poor baby.... No worries,you WILL find your heartbeat!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Fri 03/29/13 08:13 AM
I'm still waiting for that girl Tweety to move closer to me so that I can see her.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 03/29/13 08:19 AM
I'm still waiting for that girl Tweety to move closer to me so that I can see her. Ha ha ha haaaaa aaaaaawwwwww,Dodo, Did you not see the little doggy?? Woooofffff!