Topic: Where's all the honest men?
dmckinnon's photo
Mon 03/25/13 02:25 PM
[sees David's reply....jumps up and does the Wave!]

Mirage4279's photo
Mon 03/25/13 04:24 PM
I am not sure the complaint is actually about honesty on this one. Prolly deceitful behavior and lying was a part of it. I am just guessing. I am perfectly honest'ish and barely gets noticed and kind of a drag to strive for accuracy ( not exactly the most appreciated trait or at least not that I know of )

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Mon 03/25/13 08:36 PM

I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way?

Whaaaaaaat???
Where was i when this was happenning??

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Mon 03/25/13 08:39 PM

[sees David's reply....jumps up and does the Wave!]


Hellloooooooo....
( waves both hands up in the air)!!

Seeeeeeee,none has seen me even then!!!

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 03/25/13 09:50 PM


I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way?

Whaaaaaaat???
Where was i when this was happenning??


I honestly have no idea.

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Mon 03/25/13 09:51 PM


[sees David's reply....jumps up and does the Wave!]


Hellloooooooo....
( waves both hands up in the air)!!

Seeeeeeee,none has seen me even then!!!


If you would move to where I am, then I could see you.

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Mon 03/25/13 10:06 PM
for the record dckm i have trusted each of tgese men untill i caught them in lies and im not talikng little lies like yes ive eaten today im talking big fat whoppers, and yes i will trust the next man i date because he has not yet lied to me, get that

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Mon 03/25/13 10:31 PM
Honesty and loyalty in relationships are what I like to think of as bi-sexual traits, they go both ways.
I've found that people tend to ask for what they aren't giving. You may be loyal, in that you have never cheated in a partner but are you honest? What is your definition of honesty? That in itself is open for interpretation. There was a guy once who when I asked him why he hadn't told me he had a girlfriend, his answer was a simple, "You didn't ask."... To me, his ommission was dishonest. We measure these things on a different scale.

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Tue 03/26/13 12:45 AM

I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way?

You kidding me? No woman has ever been 100% honest like we men are not 100% honest. There is no 100% xcept for being born, being dead and math

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Tue 03/26/13 01:11 AM
I just answered another question about standards and I think the two topics are related...if you are willing to give anybody a chance because of their looks you have to be willing to accept that they might feel that is all you require. If you sacrifice your standards dont hold the other person responsible for not meetig them. A few more weeks of no female contact though I am sure i will amend this post!

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Tue 03/26/13 02:47 AM


I have yet to encounter a woman who has been 100% honest 100% of the time. So, why should a woman insist that a man be that way?

You kidding me? No woman has ever been 100% honest like we men are not 100% honest. There is no 100% xcept for being born, being dead and math


I hope this is peaking for you,Mik,not for the rest of the world!?
Hows u btw!?

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Tue 03/26/13 02:49 AM



[sees David's reply....jumps up and does the Wave!]


Hellloooooooo....
( waves both hands up in the air)!!

Seeeeeeee,none has seen me even then!!!


If you would move to where I am, then I could see you.

aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwww,
Am i that short-Tweety is off the ground....seeable!!

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Tue 03/26/13 04:30 AM



I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for....


You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones.:smile:
Start with you and examine why this is.
Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused?
Start with yourself honey.

*hugs*flowerforyou


you basically asked the same question in another thread, and now your answering it... good answer, but i take it your not using your own advice...


Ahhhhh but I am a work in progress my friend.
Just hope I end up being a Monet and not a Picasso! :tongue:

OP this kind of self progress doesn't happen overnight and sometimes you take two steps forward and one step back. When encountering a situation with a lot of emotion, we tend to regress to harmful patterns.
It helps to put the heart aside for a bit and to use the mind to examine why these things happen, then to logically come up with different approaches.
Problem with most of us women is that when we fall in love all logic goes out the window! laugh

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Tue 03/26/13 05:57 AM




I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for....


You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones.:smile:
Start with you and examine why this is.
Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused?
Start with yourself honey.

*hugs*flowerforyou


you basically asked the same question in another thread, and now your answering it... good answer, but i take it your not using your own advice...


Ahhhhh but I am a work in progress my friend.
Just hope I end up being a Monet and not a Picasso! :tongue:

OP this kind of self progress doesn't happen overnight and sometimes you take two steps forward and one step back. When encountering a situation with a lot of emotion, we tend to regress to harmful patterns.
It helps to put the heart aside for a bit and to use the mind to examine why these things happen, then to logically come up with different approaches.
Problem with most of us women is that when we fall in love all logic goes out the window! laugh


I hear you!
We risk it all and open it all-all over again!

Princetwhite's photo
Wed 03/27/13 03:14 PM
Honest men are hard to locate but if u search hard u can be real lucky its clear ok

ruth74's photo
Wed 03/27/13 03:45 PM





I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for....


You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones.:smile:
Start with you and examine why this is.
Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused?
Start with yourself honey.

*hugs*flowerforyou


you basically asked the same question in another thread, and now your answering it... good answer, but i take it your not using your own advice...


Ahhhhh but I am a work in progress my friend.
Just hope I end up being a Monet and not a Picasso! :tongue:

OP this kind of self progress doesn't happen overnight and sometimes you take two steps forward and one step back. When encountering a situation with a lot of emotion, we tend to regress to harmful patterns.
It helps to put the heart aside for a bit and to use the mind to examine why these things happen, then to logically come up with different approaches.
Problem with most of us women is that when we fall in love all logic goes out the window! laugh


I hear you!
We risk it all and open it all-all over again!


Don't I know it.
Girl...I really am liking you the more I know you!
tongue2

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Wed 03/27/13 08:27 PM




I'm not sure what's going on but I keep attracting the wrong men...Are there any Good Honest Loyal Men left.. .or are they all spoken for....


You haven't met them because you attract the wrong ones.:smile:
Start with you and examine why this is.
Are you too flexible with your criteria? Are you open/vulnerable to being abused/misused?
Start with yourself honey.

*hugs*flowerforyou


you basically asked the same question in another thread, and now your answering it... good answer, but i take it your not using your own advice...


Ahhhhh but I am a work in progress my friend.
Just hope I end up being a Monet and not a Picasso! :tongue:

OP this kind of self progress doesn't happen overnight and sometimes you take two steps forward and one step back. When encountering a situation with a lot of emotion, we tend to regress to harmful patterns.
It helps to put the heart aside for a bit and to use the mind to examine why these things happen, then to logically come up with different approaches.
Problem with most of us women is that when we fall in love all logic goes out the window! laugh



a rose is still a rose by any other name...

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Wed 03/27/13 08:35 PM

Honestly men for the most part don't want a bossy woman! :tongue:


and women for the most part do not want bossy men who are controlling demanding and "think" they are in charge (without asking) just because they are men

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Wed 03/27/13 08:38 PM


Honestly men for the most part don't want a bossy woman! :tongue:


or loud, obnoxious, screeching harpies...



interesting I have lived in 3 different apartments in 15 years and every noise complaint and domestic complaint I have made, the male in the household was the one doing the yelling...even if she had raised her voice here & there it was the man who was the yeller and the door pounder

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Wed 03/27/13 08:39 PM
i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games