One guy told me has purposely brought up religion and politics cause the girl will drop any act and show her true self. It maybe a good thing to bring it up early on in a relationship since faith and political beliefs play big roles in people lives. Having different beliefs can create problems if not address. That is my two cents and some of you may say that is all I have.

10 most common mistakes that can make the first date to the last date

It's your first date. All seems to be just great. Nice
I have collected 10 most common mistakes made that can turn your first date into last date.


1. Lateness – The first negative point
The first meeting should not be delayed. There is no justification to 5 minutes long delay. The first date, people are very nervous and emotional, so you'r delay will draw all the worse. Better expect the time that is required to park your car or otherwise take the bus.

Remember: If you arrive first on the meeting, you will create a good impression for yourself.

2. Inappropriate clothing
Always consider carefully how to dress for the first date. If you go to the movies, do not dress solemn and serious, and your expensive leather shoes should remain in cabinet when going to a basketball game. If your girl has arrived dressed in a sporty style, but you wanted to take her to a restaurant, change your plans. Better go to a pizzeria. In the prevailing atmosphere is neutral enough to feel good as a sport, it is a sophisticated dress.

Remember: Consider everything right - looks are important.

3. Avoid discussion of religion and politics
Avoid the first date of the talks on religion and politics. Maybe you love to talk about political issues, but they certainly do not fit on the first date. If you want to leave the impression, demonstrating your reasoning ability, you probably can make it out, but this effect is unlikely to be good.

Remember: Your "political career" is not at all sexy.

4. Viewing other girls
If a man looks at the Sim Date waiter, thinking that his girl can not see it, then he is seriously wrong. Every woman will notice that the man with whom she meets, looks at other women. Women usually does not do so, at least not during the first date.

Remember: if you want to see her again, take her to 300% of your attention.

5. The third wheel: a bad idea
Unless its a double date, your mate that came with you is totally redundant. Bring your friends, you look unsure of yourself and immature. Moreover, this situation will create your friends are not a few unpleasant emotions.

Remember: Dating is a game of two. Without any exceptions.

6. Excessive amount of alcohol
When drunk, some people are completely changing. Thereby shameful situation, the tongue does not listen and starts lisp ... Girl, which will see will create for you a completely different picture. For this reason, stupid, drunk man's behavior can completely ruin all possibilities to arrange a second date.

Remember: Better to stay at one glass of wine and no more.

7. Too aggressive approach
First date - keep your hands at your sides. Impatient, uncontrolled hand movements can cause more damaging than good. If you get a girl to lunch, that does not mean she wants you to sleep right with her right now.

Remember: Than slower you go... Than futher you go...

8. Over-expressed shyness
Moving from one extreme to the other: shy, uncertain approach can be triggered completely the wrong signals. Your girlfriend is waiting on you a hug or a kiss, an invitation to meet again or to call a drink.

Remember: go away, expressing the slightest desire for something more, you'll burn a bridge of possible relations.

9. Endless chatter
Try to make a breath between sentences, and give the other person the opportunity to speak. Ultimately, however, you want to know more about each other, right? And do not order meal instead of girls, unless she requests it.

Remember: Sim Date shall serve to talk to both of you, not just you.

10. Date canceled at the last minute or giving alternate location to date in last minute: a complete disaster
Never Do not cancel appointments at the last minute - unless you are really serious reasons. Canceling date hour before dating time will say that you are not a reliable person, you are selfish and careless. From such errors are difficult to repair. And do not to try to find some very boring friend who could do you a favor and go to a meeting, to which you yourself not extinguished.

Remember: If you have second thoughts, behave like an adult and stop the relationship.

I though maybe this could be usefull for someone. Cheers.

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That is interesting. If a guy brought that up with me; I would tell him to talk about something else as I don't care for either topic.

Exactly..first they are very boring subjects..second, it can really get people heated

So true. I find both topics boring too.

I wouldn't mind discussing politics on a first date as long as things didn't get "heated." I wouldn't mind hearing about someone's spiritual beliefs and their philosophy of life etc....Of course I'm a nerd!...Early-on I think my husband and I discussed the effects of "sprawl." And US "isolation" versus the push for globalization...He explained why he crossed-over and voted for candidates outside his normal political party...We talked about immigration and "you name it!" And all of our discussions were respectful and "friendly." We "compared notes" and gained new insights from each other all through the years...I dread going on dates again. (Unless I meet a man who enjoys discussing a wide variety of topics.)

For me it is the opposite. I like to talk about both.

10 most common mistakes that can make the first date to the last date

One guy told me has purposely brought up religion and politics cause the girl will drop any act and show her true self. It maybe a good thing to bring it up early on in a relationship since faith and political beliefs play big roles in people lives. Having different beliefs can create problems if not address. That is my two cents and some of you may say that is all I have.

I am an aethist so religion wouldn't be my topic of choice. As for politics; unless I can affect some type of radical change; I would rather not get myself upset over things I simply can't change.

It can be a "shocker" when things come-up at a later date and a big "bubble burster."...Of course some people may not have strong opinions or beliefs that dominate their lives so it wouldn't matter so much...I wouldn't do well with a man who expected me to play-out the traditional female role in a relationship so this is a "biggie" for me...I don't want to give any "false impressions." (Of any kind!)...But I don't want to come on like "gangbusters" either and insist that all the "cards" be put out on the "table" on a first date....This is why I don't date!.. I'd rather just be friends with a man first with no pressure about anything!

I was talking about men

For me it is the opposite. I like to talk about both.