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Wed 03/06/13 12:34 PM
10 most common mistakes that can make the first date to the last date

It's your first date. All seems to be just great. Nice
I have collected 10 most common mistakes made that can turn your first date into last date.


1. Lateness – The first negative point
The first meeting should not be delayed. There is no justification to 5 minutes long delay. The first date, people are very nervous and emotional, so you'r delay will draw all the worse. Better expect the time that is required to park your car or otherwise take the bus.

Remember: If you arrive first on the meeting, you will create a good impression for yourself.

2. Inappropriate clothing
Always consider carefully how to dress for the first date. If you go to the movies, do not dress solemn and serious, and your expensive leather shoes should remain in cabinet when going to a basketball game. If your girl has arrived dressed in a sporty style, but you wanted to take her to a restaurant, change your plans. Better go to a pizzeria. In the prevailing atmosphere is neutral enough to feel good as a sport, it is a sophisticated dress.

Remember: Consider everything right - looks are important.

3. Avoid discussion of religion and politics
Avoid the first date of the talks on religion and politics. Maybe you love to talk about political issues, but they certainly do not fit on the first date. If you want to leave the impression, demonstrating your reasoning ability, you probably can make it out, but this effect is unlikely to be good.

Remember: Your "political career" is not at all sexy.

4. Viewing other girls
If a man looks at the Sim Date waiter, thinking that his girl can not see it, then he is seriously wrong. Every woman will notice that the man with whom she meets, looks at other women. Women usually does not do so, at least not during the first date.

Remember: if you want to see her again, take her to 300% of your attention.

5. The third wheel: a bad idea
Unless its a double date, your mate that came with you is totally redundant. Bring your friends, you look unsure of yourself and immature. Moreover, this situation will create your friends are not a few unpleasant emotions.

Remember: Dating is a game of two. Without any exceptions.

6. Excessive amount of alcohol
When drunk, some people are completely changing. Thereby shameful situation, the tongue does not listen and starts lisp ... Girl, which will see will create for you a completely different picture. For this reason, stupid, drunk man's behavior can completely ruin all possibilities to arrange a second date.

Remember: Better to stay at one glass of wine and no more.

7. Too aggressive approach
First date - keep your hands at your sides. Impatient, uncontrolled hand movements can cause more damaging than good. If you get a girl to lunch, that does not mean she wants you to sleep right with her right now.

Remember: Than slower you go... Than futher you go...

8. Over-expressed shyness
Moving from one extreme to the other: shy, uncertain approach can be triggered completely the wrong signals. Your girlfriend is waiting on you a hug or a kiss, an invitation to meet again or to call a drink.

Remember: go away, expressing the slightest desire for something more, you'll burn a bridge of possible relations.

9. Endless chatter
Try to make a breath between sentences, and give the other person the opportunity to speak. Ultimately, however, you want to know more about each other, right? And do not order meal instead of girls, unless she requests it.

Remember: Sim Date shall serve to talk to both of you, not just you.

10. Date canceled at the last minute or giving alternate location to date in last minute: a complete disaster
Never Do not cancel appointments at the last minute - unless you are really serious reasons. Canceling date hour before dating time will say that you are not a reliable person, you are selfish and careless. From such errors are difficult to repair. And do not to try to find some very boring friend who could do you a favor and go to a meeting, to which you yourself not extinguished.

Remember: If you have second thoughts, behave like an adult and stop the relationship.

I though maybe this could be usefull for someone. Cheers.

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Wed 03/06/13 12:09 PM
Hi,
My name is Eddie, I'm from Manchester, originally I'm from mid Europe outside United Kingdom, so I'm not British :( but since I'm here, I don't plan leaving this place for a long time.
I love shy personalities and I am good with kids, in case you have any, I am a bit romantic guy, love sharing emotions and listening to whatever you have to say. Love traveling.

If you want to chat, text me on my mail, loved to talk to you. Oh yeah, march 16th I'm turning 23, in case someone is interested looking for a woman from 18-26.

Best of luck to everybody in there relationships, Eddie.