ok here is my situation. i am single with 2 kids. anytime i go to talk to a guy they might talk to me once or twice and act like they are interested. but then they don't speak to me again. what's up with that?

There are alot of fish out there dear...
You will find one that does want to talk to you.
Odds are- we have to get through the seaweed first to find the
good fish...

look at like this... thier lost someone elses gain. if the cant handle the fact that you have kids thats there lost. children are the most wounderful gift in the world. it takes alot to be a single mom or dad( i have no kids). i dated a few women with kids. and some with out. i would be happy to date someone with kids. they must but the child first. i would want to come last. just they way i am.

oh believe me my kids always come before any man. but it just makes me mad that they do that. they like messing with peoples minds. i even asked them if it was me if i said something to make them not want to speak to me but i never get an answer back but i know they read the message because when i check sent messages it says "READ".

You're not alone. It happens A LOT!!! And not just here......chin up, though. It might be a blessing.

I agree with BabyDoll...it happens alot even when kids are not involved. My children are technically adults, and it happens all the time. Kids are the least of it....

"ok here is my situation. i am single with 2 kids. anytime i go to talk to a guy they might talk to me once or twice and act like they are interested. but then they don't speak to me again. what's up with that? "

HI, MY NAME IS YOU AND I THINK THAT HAVING 2 KIDS ISN'T A BIG DEAL. DURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

???chris- r u saying it is because she has 2 kids?

that guy may not be the right one for u

It's call weeding. Just be thankful, that you found out sooner than later.


Good Luck!

it is their lost and your gain because they were not worth the time.

Never put anything into the internet. They could be there today but gone tomorrow and you are left trying to figure out what you did wrong or what. I wouldn't worry about it and get the attitude of...NEXT!! lol

slappie, be here for friends, get in the threads & post, let people get to know you more.
Don't sweat the small stuff. Be secure in yourself.
The base of any relationship is FRIENDSHIP.
Welcome to the JSH family.

well said sage. Now I just need to practice what you preach! loL

IT IS SO TRUE THEY WILL LEAVE UNEXPECTALLY WHEN THERE ARE KIDS INVOVLED BUT GUESS WHAT OH WELL. I NEVER PUT ANYTHING ABOUT KIDS ON MINES BECAUSE I LOVE THE SHOCK OF WHEN YOU EMAIL ME AND WANTS TO KNOW ABOUT ME I HAVE KIDS IS WHAT I START OFF WITH AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THEY LEAVE I KNOWS IT FOR THE BEST BECASUE IT DOES WEED OUT THE GENTLEMENS AND THE BOYS SO I'M FIND WITH IT. I'VE MET AN OLDER GUY AND EVERYTHING IS EVERYTHING BUT I DONT PUT ALL MY EMOTIONS INTO IT BECAUSE HE IS ONLINE AND I JUST DON'T TRUST ONLINE PEOPLE LIKE TALKING ABOUT IT I ENJOY HIS PHONE CALLS THOUGH. SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HE IS OUT THERE FOR YOU AND WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT HE WILL COME AROUNG AND YOU WILL KNOW IT.

It happens to me alot _"I get the brush off".. so again.. your not alone.. you just cant give up.. finding someone is very very difficult.. but you have to not give up..or be like me no matter what iam an optimistic thinking person..

ALSO the other part of it is .. that i have never been married and I dont have any children..

Awww when we are talking about the internet just realize it is not you this happens to everyone. Have had it happen allot and my kids are grown. You would think the older ones get they would grow out of the childesh ways. NOT it don't matter what age they are. As soon as someone else catches there attention off and running they go lol. Just be glad it was after a few e-mails and not a month or two have had that happen as well. Shssssssssh

My self would not let it get to me it is very common thing to happen.

Ya, Txgal does it to me at least twice a day!!!!

Mikey ya just not right my friend lmao besides twice a day damn you must feel honorerd most don't get them that many lmao