Topic: Break up
China_gurrl's photo
Fri 02/01/13 06:17 PM
What does every body think of breaking up with someone via text?

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 02/01/13 06:21 PM

What does every body think of breaking up with someone via text?


It is no different than a woman sending a "Dear John" letter to a man in the military.



China_gurrl, if you do it, then you'd be available to us lonely Melmacians. bigsmile

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 02/01/13 06:29 PM
If you are going to break up what would be the difference to do it in a text or what ever way you need to do it? It is easier to break up in a text.

Queene123's photo
Fri 02/01/13 07:13 PM

What does every body think of breaking up with someone via text?



to me
if a man brakes up
with the lady over a text

that just shows how much of a wimp
they are

i have broken up with a few guys in the past
over email
and they were local

one guy lived hour away and we were together 7months
only saw him 5x
he kept making excuses
and i wasent going to deal with it
he was waiting for me to end it


another guy
well im not a fan of alcoholics
and boy he was but when he was sober
he tried to be a controler
and i wasent going to deal with it

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 02/01/13 07:52 PM


What does every body think of breaking up with someone via text?



to me
if a man brakes up
with the lady over a text

that just shows how much of a wimp
they are

i have broken up with a few guys in the past
over email
and they were local

one guy lived hour away and we were together 7months
only saw him 5x
he kept making excuses
and i wasent going to deal with it
he was waiting for me to end it


another guy
well im not a fan of alcoholics
and boy he was but when he was sober
he tried to be a controler
and i wasent going to deal with it


Begs the question what it shows if a woman does it?/Irony

I feel it is kind of impersonal, it largely casts aside the emotional element of the pending news and circumvents any ability to retract formally...Not that it would matter anyway, seems like logic goes by the wayside in relationships from what I can tell.

no photo
Sun 02/03/13 05:01 PM
Break up over text is a easy way out. Not facing the problem. It shows lack of respect that person had for the other.

Zimzane2's photo
Sun 02/03/13 06:41 PM
Sometimes texting gets the message across.